Haha you are probably right. In the US or in the UK it might be way likelier to meet fat men

fatrnfatr:
In the southern US in particular, you will see enormously fat people riding scooters at the Walmart. 400, 500 even 600 pounders. Walmart is like a fat fantasy Disney World.

Quink333:
I hateeeeee excercise but if it means i'll have the fat i want i think it won't kill me 😩

Bellebrookz:
I’m currently 100 trying to gain but I need tips other than just eat bigger amounts. Food suggestions, times to eat , etc ..

Danny823:
Exercising while trying to gain weight is actually super helpful if this is what you want. Exercise will burn visceral fat (there kind that’s deeper inside your body) before subcutaneous fat (the soft kind). So I’d totally recommend hitting the gym while gaining!

ILuvChubbyChix:
This might be most applicable to folks who live in the Southern or Southwest United States (except California), or have visited the area several times.

But, ever noticed how much the Whataburger logo looks like the Wonder Woman logo?

If you aren't familiar with Whataburger, it's a chain of burger restaurants that started in southern Texas back in '50, and slowly expanded from there. As far as I can tell, they only seem to be in states that border the Gulf Coast (Deep South) or in the Southwest (shares a border with Mexico) with the exception of California. Kind of surprised no one has tried to open a franchise location in California yet, or Las Vegas, NV, or Arkansas for that matter (Arkansas has the heaviest residents of all American states, last I checked). Easternmost locations appear to be in Jacksonville, FL and westernmost locations seem to be in Phoenix, AZ.

But I remember the other day I asked a woman (who was aware of feederism) if a picture of her was of the Whataburger logo. It seems so obvious now, but she pointed out that no, it's the Wonder Woman logo. Then she commented that she loved that apparently food was on my mind.

Anyway yeah, that's my random thought.

QueenofFats:
Thank you so much you two! I'll take whatever help/ advice I can get.

Fatmanrocker:
Ok I have to ask this but first I have never done this or had it done to me. There is a part of me that has always wanted to be fattened with out my knowledge.

there’s something about it that I’m kinda into, like just being conditioned to eat more and more without fully realizing what’s going on seems like it would be really fun!

Has anyone else have this Fantasy? I not the Weird one here right?!?? *panics*

Munchies:
You see post after post of people loving their fat bodies, craving more of it. You see them enjoy the process and start to think "That looks so nice. I want that for myself."

Why don't you take a break from FF? Not necessarily leave. But maybe take a week or two off. Perhaps more, if needed. See if that helps. You have a lot of conflicting feelings and need some time and space to figure yourself out.

thiccbell:
haha, As if I was very active on these platforms. I mostly lurk because I can't bring up the courage to initiate conversation.

But actually just a time off from the kink as a whole may not be a bad idea. Thanks!

thiccbell:
I'm not a gainer, don't have a goal, nor anything like that. I just find release in eating or watching others eat and stuff themselves that nothing else can compare. Literally nothing.

And yet I do have fantasies and tendencies of gaining incredibly large, by myself, fed by someone, or growing with someone. My mind can't just sit still on this. All I know is that I look at my own stomach and feel dejected that its "not like the others I see online". But recently I realized its even worse.

I just have come to hate every part of my body that isn't my belly.

I love how soft it is, how moldable and doughy and makes my stress fly away.

But when I look at the person attached to that body I can't love myself.

Wishing to be bigger, to eat more, or something seems very normal here, but few act on that impulse. The only reason I honestly dont do it myself its how expensive it can get, plus how many jobs and careers get cut off from growing that large.

But when I think that the lovely tummy thats growing in front of my eyes is still the same tummy of someone who hates everything else, makes me think.

Honestly, I never realized it before. When I joined the kink and this community I was all up for the body positivity messages and ambient, and even spread some of that myself. But I never felt comfortable wearing clothes that showed too much of my gain, and I always reflexively suck my stomach in without noticing.

I'm currently seeing psychological help, but as this is a weird case even for normal therapy, I was wondering about the experience of others who might know more about this kind of case.