Simoms444:
Does anyone know how to put picture in Stories?
Not just the Titlepicture, I mean in every Chapter.

Munchies:
Not to put a damper on things, but I think those are valid concerns. I'm not saying you can't be fat and healthy. However, it's common for people in this community to gai recklessly. And if you gained hundreds of pounds, I am wondering if you've been taking care of yourself as you gain.

Is this a fair assumption?

DanielD:
I have been taking care as much as I can, of course with gaining often comes some things that get harder or just impossible, and that’s kinda unavoidable when you gain so much, I feel though that she is less worried about that and more wants the fit, sporty version of me back if that makes sense.

Munchies:
Did you confirm that with her?

DanielD:
Yeah she said that if she had her own way I would be super ripped like I used to be.

Munchies:
Then you potentially have an incompatibility. Your gf is tolerating your gains because she loves you, but it is clear that she does not like it. She's tolerating how much you've gained thus far, but she may not tolerate continued gains from you.

You say it's primarily for aesthetic reasons, but the way you frame it does not imply that this is the sole reason. If I may, how fat are you?

DanielD:
I’m 453lbs. But I really do think we’ll be able to make it work as long as she can accept that I’m fat.

DanielD:
Should I feel bad that I have been with my gf for 8 years and over that time have gained hundreds of lbs and she seems to accept that it's happened but not want me to gain anymore if that makes sense, yet I really badly want to keep gaining.

Munchies:
Have y'all talked about the situation?

DanielD:
So I had a chat with her and basically said how do you feel that I’ve gained so much weight and she said she loves me whatever size etc but when I kinda hinted to the fact I liked it she was almost shocked and has made a lot of comments since about being healthy and that she is concerned about the things that I have become unable to do.

Munchies:
Not to put a damper on things, but I think those are valid concerns. I'm not saying you can't be fat and healthy. However, it's common for people in this community to gai recklessly. And if you gained hundreds of pounds, I am wondering if you've been taking care of yourself as you gain.

Is this a fair assumption?

DanielD:
I have been taking care as much as I can, of course with gaining often comes some things that get harder or just impossible, and that’s kinda unavoidable when you gain so much, I feel though that she is less worried about that and more wants the fit, sporty version of me back if that makes sense.

Munchies:
Did you confirm that with her?

DanielD:
Yeah she said that if she had her own way I would be super ripped like I used to be.

DanielD:
Should I feel bad that I have been with my gf for 8 years and over that time have gained hundreds of lbs and she seems to accept that it's happened but not want me to gain anymore if that makes sense, yet I really badly want to keep gaining.

Munchies:
Have y'all talked about the situation?

DanielD:
So I had a chat with her and basically said how do you feel that I’ve gained so much weight and she said she loves me whatever size etc but when I kinda hinted to the fact I liked it she was almost shocked and has made a lot of comments since about being healthy and that she is concerned about the things that I have become unable to do.

Munchies:
Not to put a damper on things, but I think those are valid concerns. I'm not saying you can't be fat and healthy. However, it's common for people in this community to gai recklessly. And if you gained hundreds of pounds, I am wondering if you've been taking care of yourself as you gain.

Is this a fair assumption?

DanielD:
I have been taking care as much as I can, of course with gaining often comes some things that get harder or just impossible, and that’s kinda unavoidable when you gain so much, I feel though that she is less worried about that and more wants the fit, sporty version of me back if that makes sense.

Hugetummylover:
As stated that is what she said she did I never tried it myself and she was gaining a lot

BBWBecky:
Everytime my stomach starts making noises I try to eat to keep my belly full..does anyone else do this and what foods seems to help the most

Hugetummylover:
I knew someone who mixed cake mix in theirs two at a time

Delta9:
If you tell a fat woman you like her because she's fat, it usually doesn't go well. They tend to ignore the "I like you" part and focus on the "you're fat" part. Only the very special and rare people of this community can accept something like that.

Shades:
That's true, and it certainly does bear keeping in mind. Most of the time though, it kinda comes up in conversation, or I feel like it's time to share that preference with the lady in question, because I want to be upfront about it.
I don't think it's good for any relationship if you have to keep this part of yourself from them.

Adiposewriter:
Just kind of curious what parts of the US or specific locations people consider to be fatter than others. I know I could probably look up statistics, but that's boring. I'm more interested in hearing what others say here, I'm from a part of the country where I always have heard there's less fat people, so I'm curious.

KronosSC:
Hey everyone, I am an 18M straight feeder here. I have been into WG for a short while and now that I am going into university, I wanted to know if there is anything I should know about feederism and if I should peruse further. I just have a few general questions and any/ all advice will be greatly appreciated 🙌. I put them in order of personal importance

1. i am 18 years old, while i am interested in finding a partner my age i am not against someone older than me. is my age going to put a limit on what partners/gainers/feedees i will attract?

2. What is the best way to find a Feedee? is there a platform i can use, i plan to use subreddits later but are there any better sources?

3. What is the financial cost i should expect to take on? what type of food should i buy? is it smarter/better to buy straight fast food or to cook my meals? would using my meal plan work? (i intend to get a more costly one in order to not only feed myself.)

4. Should i expect a more "fling like" situations when it comes to finding feedees? Or would it be a continuous thing like a relationship and feederism would come later

5. How can i stay safe while looking for feedees? how can i avoid bait and catfish? is it smarter to have public meets or private meets? would online dating like tindr be a good place to look?

6. does anyone know how active the feederism are is in St Lewis? 8. would it be smart to find and find someone in the area before online and then meet later? are there ever events in the area?

7. how long are feeding "sessions" what can i expect them to look like. how can i make it most enjoyable for her?

8. how do i properly think about the health risks involved with this?

9. what is the best food to buy? is it smart to keep some on hand?

Again thank you so much for reading! any advice is good advice! I'm not looking for a relationship or DMs I just need to know this before I get started!✌️