Morbidly A Beast:
If you can’t find a feedee just find a fat person you like to spend time with and date them, so many “feeders” want the process and not fat people, it’s a similar thing with people who complain about sexual promiscuity while at the same time will have promiscuous sex (not that sex is a bad thing, rather people who complain)
There’s a lot of fat people, men and women who deserve and should get love but are outshined by thins who gain 10-15 lbs
Munchies:
Is that the case? In my experience, most feeders want someone who is at least chubby.
Morbidly A Beast:
Just seems that way given how the most popular models are some gorgeous women who gain a few lbs. and the general idea about it being “hard to find a feedee”
I know from interactions most female feeders want their men big but most of the time men want to make a fatty like it’s build a bear or something
Munchies:
I do love me a big man.
However, that's not why it's so hard for a lot of male feeders to find a female feedee. In fact, female feedees tell people why it's hard for them to find someone all the time.
It's because so many of them suck as people. I'm not even a feedee and I regularly encounter male feeders who clearly are typing with their left hand, are pushy, mean, objectifying, or have serial killer vibes. It's genuinely terrifying sometimes.
So if you are a genuinely good person, understand it's going to be hard no matter what you do. There are so many guarded, jaded female feedees out there who will keep you at arm's length for a while for safety reasons alone.
I hadn’t even considered that angle and it’s true and I recognize it now that you mention it, it’s hard for women just in general online let alone ones that are explicitly sexual or talk about sexual topics
Ngl I had to pause and think about the left hand thing I was like oh of course serial jerkers, had to put that one in a context because I can’t imagine typing while trying to do that at least nowadays, one hand has to hold things up with my forearm to provide support and to stop motion and that’s even while laying at my side 😂
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
If you can’t find a feedee just find a fat person you like to spend time with and date them, so many “feeders” want the process and not fat people, it’s a similar thing with people who complain about sexual promiscuity while at the same time will have promiscuous sex (not that sex is a bad thing, rather people who complain)
There’s a lot of fat people, men and women who deserve and should get love but are outshined by thins who gain 10-15 lbs
Munchies:
Is that the case? In my experience, most feeders want someone who is at least chubby.
Just seems that way given how the most popular models are some gorgeous women who gain a few lbs. and the general idea about it being “hard to find a feedee”
I know from interactions most female feeders want their men big but most of the time men want to make a fatty like it’s build a bear or something
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
As long as my belly is full you can dom me or sub me, I think that most guys are probably agnostic or don’t have that kink.
My question is being a ppl pleaser or a general go lucky person be dom? I’m I mistaken in thinking a dom can’t de docile or yielding by nature is it a 1 to 1 with how the person actually is or strictly kink
Munchies:
Have you considered that you just aren't into BDSM? Because that's a viable option. It sounds like you are trying to put on a shoe that doesn't fit
I’m not saying I am, I’m just curious about it
1 year
If you can’t find a feedee just find a fat person you like to spend time with and date them, so many “feeders” want the process and not fat people, it’s a similar thing with people who complain about sexual promiscuity while at the same time will have promiscuous sex (not that sex is a bad thing, rather people who complain)
There’s a lot of fat people, men and women who deserve and should get love but are outshined by thins who gain 10-15 lbs
1 year
As long as my belly is full you can dom me or sub me, I think that most guys are probably agnostic or don’t have that kink.
My question is being a ppl pleaser or a general go lucky person be dom? I’m I mistaken in thinking a dom can’t de docile or yielding by nature is it a 1 to 1 with how the person actually is or strictly kink
1 year
I have gotten to big to lift myself up out of the water this was never an issue for me I am also heavy enough to off set the balance of the boat
Big shockers to me
1 year
I’m not sure what any of this dom sub stuff is to be frank either way dom or sub for me would be for my partners enjoyment. If dom feedee means being kingly or something like that i could make it work
1 year
I’m sorry if you are uncomfortable with any ammount of heat or lack there of it sucks, especially as bigger people.
But yall summers are so mild it’s kinda funny when you guys complain about the heat just today it was 98 but it feels like it’s 110 I just checked the temp in Britain it’s like a high of 80 😂
1 year
I like the idea of it being a Neapolitan Ice Cream sandwich with a cherry center I don’t think it’s necessary for feeders or feedees to have a different flag or anything like that
1 year
10000 calories is more than doable! This sounds like a lot of fun and I’d want to participate! Unless you want smaller participants lol
1 year
