Is the file too big? Is it the right format? If you don't get an official answer here, post it to the website feedback section at the end. Sounds like a nice height/weight combination, so I am looking forward to seeing your picture.

I can't say what would work best in your situation. And if I was single and dating a thin woman, I would probably want to keep coming back here. It just seems to me that if she knew you were here, she would feel inadequate to what she knows you like.

I should also add, that while FF does a good job in containing requests for money, another major website has turned into a GoFundMe page for feedees, and fake feedees.

On some sites, I have seen women promising to meet men for sex if they contribute to her. Last time I looked, that is prostitution.

If two people meet, and are boyfriend/girlfriend (or same sex) then they can decide based on who can afford it better.

If a person has a hobby or interest and can not afford it, then they either need to find another interest, find a way to do it more cheaply, or find a better job.

This ruins it for me, not because I am a cheapskate, but because I love to chat with women who enjoy being fat and/or loves gaining. When people do it as a money-making business, I am not an online friend, I am a perspective client.

I don't think you can use your experiences as the absolute truth. Perhaps you have seen two large people and just assume they are together because they are both fat. However, any kind of feederism is rare IRL, and mutual gainers are even rarer.

If she is not into it, she's not into it. If you tell her you are into it, it is a rejection of her size. You either have to choose between your girlfriend, or choose between the feederism community.

I don't know, but if you post it at the end with website feedback, an admin can check it out and tell you why or fix it.

Unfortunately, no one can answer that question. Some people have a hard time doing things at 200, others do just fine at 500. Depends on a person's condition, age, height, body shape, and so many other things.

I believe I read that the chance of someone who has been overweight for a while to lose weight and keep it off is about 1 in 177. Most people who lose weight tend to regain more than they lost. So, the best thing (assuming they are not a feedee and want to gain) is to try to eat normally (which includes some snacks, etc..) The best thing for a doctor to do is to treat the problem, and not encourage someone to do something that will probably make them even bigger.

You don't have to spill your guts and tell every detail of liking large women, but you can quickly mention that you like women of all sizes. Since you say you can date thin women too, it's not essential to the relationship anyway.