I think for some people, it means asking for money so that the feedee can buy food.

I wouldn't count on being able to lose. You might, but there is a better chance that you will lose the weight and regain it without trying to. I have heard that you can only shrink fat cells, not reduce the number of them. So that the fat cells will always try to be normal size. There are other treads about this. One is titled something like fat can be permanent.

Yes, I am old and married. Just looking to chat with any age female. Since I am not looking for anything beyond friendship, we can discuss your boyfriend, boyfriend search, etc. without problems. I'll be glad to give you advice. If you want to chat about the negatives or doubts about gaining, that is fine too. I am not looking to buy videos or pay for anyone's food.

Just be yourself. No one wants to hear a pre-written speech. Comment on what you want and what you feel. Tell him when your clothes are tight, and what you think about your new body.

BTW, redhead and feedee is the best combination in the world.

If he has acted that he's not really into it, and you can't talk about it, then he's probably not into it. So, you can either enjoy yourself and hope he doesn't diet, get the courage to talk to him about it, or find someone else.

Many of them are fake. They are from other countries who are spamming all of the dating sites, and they do not realize (or care) that this is a fat positive site.

Eat small amounts constantly rather than a big amount once or twice a day.

I kind of like BBWs wearing too big clothes, knowing they are leaving room for future expansion.

What does your wife think? She must have ideas, since she will the one eating it.

According to the clothing industry, SSBBW begins at size 28W.