KaocolaZero:
Hey guys ! Long time since came here, i thought i was ok and could live my feedee life on my side, but it appears that i still have things to learn lmao.
Anyways, i wanted to have some advice or experience from people who already had to deal with their family and their massive weight gain. I personally always had issue with that, and it was getting worse lately, my family never liked my gain and me being like this. I've always tried to avoid conversation about the subject, always finding excuse about health issue, stress and any bullshit i could come with to avoid answering too much despite my weight.
But now i'm going to face a new issue very soon, i haven't see them since almost 2 years now, they live far away and my mother got sick, without mentioning covid problem. We didn't met in almost 2 years as i said, only talked on phone. But now that my mom is ok they want to pay a visit, they were disappointed when i told them i won't be able to come, and they insisted and told me they will come, so i had to agree.
I've gained a lot since the last time they saw me as you can imagine, they were already scared and ashamed about my weight, now it's going to be worse, i reached the final stage of the death feederism game if we can say, living the bed is not really an option anymore. I just don't know how i'm going to deal with the situation, they will also meet my feeder for the first time who is my ""boyfriend"" that's how i present him.
So people who have been through this or something similar, how did you deal with that ? It's my parents and i love them so i can't just ignore them and cut the bridge, but i know they will have a very bad reaction and i have no idea how i will handle it. Don't hesitate to share your experience or advice, i'm taking anything.
Thanks a lot if you have idea or experience
So, your parents, whom you do not live with and do not support you financially, are coming to *your* place.
Sounds like to me if they want to visit you, they have to abide by your rules. Which means you can enforce whatever boundaries you want.
You don't want to talk about it? Done. You don't want to be bashed over your weight? Done.
All you gotta do is stand your ground. Get your feeder to help if you need it. But ultimately, you are in charge here. If they want a relationship with you, then they need to treat you with respect. This goes for every thing - even outside of kink.
