Depends. Are you two close? Friendly? Do they know you exist?

I got mine from making quality stories, positive contributions to the forums, and being witty and kind.

I appreciate you acknowledge you hurt people such as myself. I won't say I forgive you. But I do appreciate it.

I did see you sent me a message, but I deleted it without reading it. If you want to send me another message, I will read it. But I do not promise I will forgive you or agree to any further interaction. This is me giving exactly one chance to make things right.

There are so many other shapes besides apple and pear. Apple means you most gain in the upper body, while pear is lower body gains.

But there others like hourglass (even gains with a smaller waist) or ruler (even gains with no waist) to consider as well.

There are more, but that's just off the top of my head.

Looking at the pictures you posted on your profile, you probably stretched your stomach out to insane proportions. Meaning if you want to feel overfilled, you need to eat even more food than you already do.

You are welcome, hun. Glad I could help.

So, speaking as a feeder, I can't tell you how many times I'll have feedees messaging me with that kind of stuff. There's nothing compelling about it. No reason to pursue the conversation further.

Let me tell you how I met my feedee. He was the one to reach out to me, not the other way around. We connected on a personal level and discovered that we had a lot in common. Like, I'd talk to him even if we weren't being kinky.

So, when he asked me to be his feeder, I happily said yes.

Ok, but what is your approach? How do you talk to these women? I can't give advice if you don't give me something to work with. If you feel uncomfortable talking publicly, you can just shoot me a message.

Getting a feeder. It's what you asked about.

Well, first off, what have you done thus far?