Not you specifically, but if the shoe fits...

I do notice that a lot of feedee reach their goal and realize it's not enough.

So the reality is more challenging--that makes sense.

Is the reality BETTER in some ways though? Which?

It's a very sexual thing for many. So the support of whomever one has sex with can be critical, or at least preferable.

I'll be there!

So for those of you who have tried an experimental gained (gained a small amount of weight--10 or 20 lbs or so--to see if you might like gaining more):

1. How much did you weigh to start with?

2. How much did (do) you plan to gain experimentally?

3. Did you gain the experimental weight as planned?
a. Yes, but decided to lose it.
b. Yes, but decided to maintain right there.
c. Yes, and decided to gain more.
d. No, haven’t yet.
e. No, I decided not to.
f. No, gained some of it but then decided not to gain more.

4. How much do you weigh now?

Lose ten pounds. The regain is usually faster, more intense and more extensive than the original gain!

Finally got some people to try this! See: askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/letters.html#challenge1 and askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/letters.html#challenge2.

Here's a video of the second attempt:

If you like such questions, more power to you!

If not, the best answer to nosy questions (even non-food-related ones) is: "Why do you ask?"

I have encountered a few people who regret gaining in the first place or who regret gaining as much as they did...but they don't hang around on wg sites much. Asking here skews your answers in favor of gaining.

It's a risk either way. By gaining intentionally you risk getting bigger than you want; by not gaining you risk never living your dream. Only you can decide.