Unfortunately the video chat is built by someone else so I can't change this. However a toggle switch will be built into the text chat in the near future.

It seems quite common in relationships for partners to be very compatible in many aspects of their lives but not necessarily have the same kinks in the bedroom. In my own relationship my partner is more into sub/Dom and I'm more into feedism. Whilst in some ways I'd love her to be into feedism too, our differences actually make our sex lives more interesting. We both try to accommodate each other's needs and desires without one person getting more than the other and it seems to work well. I've found the she can satisfy many of my feedism needs by indulging me in fantasy and roll play. She's already a BBW and isn't sure about getting a lot larger, but she's quite happy to eat indulgently for me and being a foodie she enjoys this too. She'll also dress up and show off her big body to me which I love and discuss and role play my fat fantasies. Try chatting to your partner about his fantasies to see if you can't help full fill them In any way without you actually having to gain weight. share some of yours at the same time, it might spice things up even more.

Moved to personal ads forum

Apologies for the recent downtime. I've introduced a temporary fix yesterday which will hopefully help a bit until I can get to spend some serious time on it. Yes it is high on my list of priorities.

Yes I agree this would be better, and also to have the mass message delete suggested in the previous post. I'm working on other sections of the site at the moment but will look at this when I next work on the messages section.

Hey and welcome to the site. Actually I have one tip which applies especially when you go out to eat. That is don't drink a pint or large glass of coke while you're waiting for your food to arrive. I've found this really makes a difference to the amount I can eat and sometimes end up skipping dessert.

Not sure why this is happening since I don't think there's a problem with the messaging system itself. Could it be time out issues when this website is busy?