Fantasy Feeder

Are there any dominant feedees/gainers?

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not sure what any of this dom sub stuff is to be frank either way dom or sub for me would be for my partners enjoyment. If dom feedee means being kingly or something like that i could make it work

It's all about power play. A dom(me) is the dominant one, while the sub is the submissive one. Of course, there's no one way to be dominant or submissive. Being dominant can mean acting like royalty, but not necessarily

Sadistic doms get off on causing pain. Pleasure doms prefer to give their subs as much pleasure as possible. Daddy doms act more parental. There are scores more, but you get the idea.

3 months

Munchies

I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

AskDrFeeder:
You are not the only one. It's hard to find the right person, but hang in there. And while you wait, get your financial house in order. There are few better feeders than ones who can easily afford food, clothes, plane tickets and such.

Munchies:
I mean, becoming financially stable is important, but that's not nearly enough. Many (usually male) feeders mistake being financially stable and monetarily generous for being someone worthy of spending time with.

Besides, despite guys griping about the contrary, there are many (usually female) feedees who refuse money from unfamiliar feeders because they will take that as them owing them for things they don't want. For example, because a feeder paid a feedee for food, they owe them nudes.

In my experience, the best way to get into a feedist relationship is to be someone they can be vulnerable with and not have your fetish as the main/sole part of your relationship. This should be a person you can at least see yourself being friends with.

Tightercollars:
this cant be honest enough. i talk alot now with my partner about the fantasy aspects within feederism and how reality in a relationship works. At fantasy feeder, the community feels like it put the fetish first and thats the impression ive gotten with the interactions ive recieved and thats not where growing relationships start. romantic or not.

I've had several dedicated feedees and encountered other feedees casually. Despite being a sadistic domme extreme feeder, the number one thing they've always told me is they feel safe with me. Sometimes, I've been told they've never had a feeder they've felt safer with.

No matter what flavor of feeder you are, if you cannot foster an environment where your feedee feels safe and implicitly trusts you, you have failed as a feeder. In the feedee-feeder dynamic, the feedee has the most to lose. They are changing themselves for our pleasure.

If it doesn't work out, we can walk away virtually unchanged. But a feeder is putting their body on the line. They can't take off the pounds or any health complications that might arise. They need to trust that we will always put their needs before our wants for this to work.

3 months

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I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

Senpai Hentai The Hentai Lord:
I have to agree on that it feels like this is more at times a fetish community less than a dating app despite it technically being both evenly but it pushes more towards other

It's really a fetish community first and foremost. That's why people in monogamous relationships with profiles clearly stating they don't want anyone are on here.

Including me. If this was a dating site, y'all wouldn't see me at all.

3 months

Munchies

I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

AskDrFeeder:
You are not the only one. It's hard to find the right person, but hang in there. And while you wait, get your financial house in order. There are few better feeders than ones who can easily afford food, clothes, plane tickets and such.

I mean, becoming financially stable is important, but that's not nearly enough. Many (usually male) feeders mistake being financially stable and monetarily generous for being someone worthy of spending time with.

Besides, despite guys griping about the contrary, there are many (usually female) feedees who refuse money from unfamiliar feeders because they will take that as them owing them for things they don't want. For example, because a feeder paid a feedee for food, they owe them nudes.

In my experience, the best way to get into a feedist relationship is to be someone they can be vulnerable with and not have your fetish as the main/sole part of your relationship. This should be a person you can at least see yourself being friends with.

3 months

Munchies

Coping with the heat

Ligr77:
I will also say that they sell handheld ACs at some Walgreens locations. That said it might be easier to google "handheld AC". One of my coworkers found one, and they say it works pretty well!

Also, I legit didn't know that AC was that uncommon in the UK.

Looks like hand-held AC are electric fans. Never heard it called that before.

You'll find many European buildings don't have AC. Modern buildings often do, but not most older buildings. It makes perfect sense if you think about it. For centuries, the UK climate tended to be very cold year-round, so it made perfect sense to make buildings that retain heat.

But then ... global warming. Now, a lot of those buildings are essentially saunas. You build things based on what you need. If your needs change, you gotta make new buildings, retrofit, or you're screwed.

3 months

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Are there any dominant feedees/gainers?

Enas:
Well, you pose a question that if taken litteraly, is not very helpfull. Odds are, with so many people, given that there is a variety of, there are definetely people who can be described, or at least are similar to the description you gave.

(Thats not a very helpfull question to ask, because its something that anyone can figure out on their own, no need to ask this specific question to other people, etc)

Im suspecting, however that youre trying to get to a different point however, like... How common are they, or how to uproach them maybe. Am i correct on this?

Femme Calories:
That would be correct.

Enas:
I recomend you to search for feedee authors of stories that contain a dom feedee and maybe even a sub feeder!

That doesn't mean anything. I'm strictly a domme feeder and I have made stories with domme feedees, domme feeders, and switch mutual gainers.

3 months

Munchies

Coping with the heat

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m sorry if you are uncomfortable with any ammount of heat or lack there of it sucks, especially as bigger people.

But yall summers are so mild it’s kinda funny when you guys complain about the heat just today it was 98 but it feels like it’s 110 I just checked the temp in Britain it’s like a high of 80 😂

You gotta remember that it is humid, there's no AC, and the buildings are made to retain heat.

3 months

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Feeder girls?

Tomi20:
I have been looking for a while for a woman who wants a swallowing pig and who will witness a great physical change.

Munchies:
Unfortunately, we lost all the female feeders in the incident. It was very sad.

Tomi20:
In what incident?

The incident where all the female feeders just vanished. There haven't been any since. It's so sad.

3 months

Munchies

Feeder girls?

Tomi20:
I have been looking for a while for a woman who wants a swallowing pig and who will witness a great physical change.

Unfortunately, we lost all the female feeders in the incident. It was very sad.

3 months

Munchies