Just be yourself. No one wants to hear a pre-written speech. Comment on what you want and what you feel. Tell him when your clothes are tight, and what you think about your new body.

BTW, redhead and feedee is the best combination in the world.

If he has acted that he's not really into it, and you can't talk about it, then he's probably not into it. So, you can either enjoy yourself and hope he doesn't diet, get the courage to talk to him about it, or find someone else.

Many of them are fake. They are from other countries who are spamming all of the dating sites, and they do not realize (or care) that this is a fat positive site.

Eat small amounts constantly rather than a big amount once or twice a day.

I kind of like BBWs wearing too big clothes, knowing they are leaving room for future expansion.

What does your wife think? She must have ideas, since she will the one eating it.

According to the clothing industry, SSBBW begins at size 28W.

Where people gain is determined by genetics, and not the type of food, etc.

If that is really your picture, how do you rub bellies with your breasts being so large?

Most women are not into gaining weight. When we hang out here, we tend to forget that. I'm not sure how or why you ended up with someone who isn't big, but you will probably either need to accept her as not large, or move on to the next person. For now, you can emphasize the fact that you didn't mind dating fat women. As time goes on, you can admit to preferring them. But you will need to both accept being with a smaller women, and assuring her that you are OK with someone smaller.