Where people gain is determined by genetics, and not the type of food, etc.

If that is really your picture, how do you rub bellies with your breasts being so large?

Most women are not into gaining weight. When we hang out here, we tend to forget that. I'm not sure how or why you ended up with someone who isn't big, but you will probably either need to accept her as not large, or move on to the next person. For now, you can emphasize the fact that you didn't mind dating fat women. As time goes on, you can admit to preferring them. But you will need to both accept being with a smaller women, and assuring her that you are OK with someone smaller.

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Most likely you will gain with him, even if not intentionally. Chances are, your excess weight will last longer than the relationship. So, if you are happy being fat, stay with him. If not, find someone who appreciates your current size.

I suppose you are smaller than most of the BBWs here, but definitely not average for the real world.

I was in a store, and saw a lady about 500 pounds. Her top kept going up as she walked, and her pants kept falling down. After a few steps, she had to stop and readjust her clothes. I think she was at the point where she should be wearing loose dresses.

Diabetes is just not something that happens from getting fat. You need the gene and the family history. Some thin people have it too. It does make it worse to be fat and diabetic. And it is hard to gain without sugar and carbs.

Most women are not into gaining. If you want a woman who is into it, I would try here or another feedee/feeder site.