I'm the proud owner of a 36D rack. A bra is a support item. It doesn't do a whole lot besides that.
Bras come in many styles. I personally adore wire free bras with lightly lines cups.
If you find sports bras constricting, you may be wearing the wrong size. Your typical low impact sports bra should be no more constricting than a tank top. They also come in several different shapes, so you might need to see which one you prefer.
I don't mess with bralettes because they offer no support for me. I'm a very active person. But if you live a more sedentary life, you might like them.
3 years
Eirtae feedee:
I'm waiting for a call from the doctor today. I think he will tell me that I have diabetes.
Will I be able to continue gaining weight?
Just wondering what other people in the same situation do
GainingLear:
Can you continue gaining?
Yes, but it takes a lot more work to not throw everything off.
If you are diagnosed I suggest holding off on continuing gaining til you're getting stable numbers. Once you have meds that work to keep your blood sugar even you can test the boundaries and figure out how to gain again. Everyone is a bit different, not everyone's system will be spiked by the same foods so some testing is necessary.
You won't have particularly rapid gains, because all the good calorie bombs are high in sugar. But you can continue gaining.
Diabetic here. Been one for all my life. I second what he says. You can gain, but you have to be very careful how you do it.
It is best to stabilize your blood glucose levels because that can work against you. Not just the whole insulin spike thing either. If your sugar gets too high, you can actually lose weight.
Get your levels right. Find out what your boundaries are. You may need to switch to healthier alternatives like nuts and avocados. Takes longer to do, but it's a journey, not a race.
3 years
I've never been fat, but I have gained a considerable amount of weight. I went from 115 to 168-ish pounds in about 5 or 6 years. Most of that is muscle.
My mom and grandma freaked out and told me I was getting fat (which makes no sense because I have abs.) At some point I decided enough was enough and made it clear their comments won't be tolerated. I don't think I changed their mind about my body, but at least they've since shut up.
3 years
I love men with all body types. Fat, thin, muscular. Doesn't matter. Personality is more important.
3 years
makethatgirlfatter:
Flattering. I have a lot of PTSD from an abusive ex, so negative comments can be very triggering.
I'm sorry you went through that, hun. You didn't deserve that at all. I am glad that you are in a better place now.
3 years
The idea is being pregnant is very hot to me. Especially the idea that my pregnant belly will look so much smaller than my feedee's.
Being pregnant on the other hand ...
3 years
FFA here. I've loved fat bodies as long as I can remember. I recently discovered I was a feeder too when I met my current feedee. Looking back, it seems a little silly I just figured it out. I'm a very bossy woman who love to cook for others (and in general).
I used to identify as a gainer, but once I went from underweight to curvy, I lost interest in gaining.
3 years
Slasher92:
I feel this is an extremely underrated act/form of intimacy, especially in Feedism.
Literally fattening up your partner until their belly provides a new source of pleasure. Reminding them what a good, greedy piggy they’ve been, that they’re so gluttonous that their belly is a new hole to fuck. And then leaving a nice, warm, dripping mess in their belly button.
10/10 would do again and again
It's a dream of mine to fatten a man up so much that I can peg his gut.
Alternatively, a man being so fat he can use his own fat as a new hole? Utter perfection.
3 years
finickyfeedee:
I have a lot of stress in my life but I’ve never been able to stress eat, instead I tend to end up barely eating at all when I am badly stressed (sometimes just a few hundred calories a day). When I am stressed, eating becomes agonizingly miserable and it can take me hours to eat a tiny portion of crackers when I’m in that state, and then I don’t feel like eating again for ages. Obviously this is not good for someone who wants to become fat, and it is severe enough it isn’t even safe.
I know stress eating is very common and it causes many people to gain weight, even unintentionally. If I could learn how to do it then it’d help me a lot. Is there anyway to teach yourself to stress eat or is it just a case of your natural tendencies?
Big time stress eater here. For me, I associate food with comfort and love. So, eating good food is something that takes me back to simpler times. Doesn't matter if it's home cooked or not. That being said, I do gravitate to certain foods more so than others. Carbs and dark chocolates are my favorite.
I suppose you could associate certain foods with comfort or joy. From there, you could train your brain to eat.
Another option is drinking your calories. I assume you get thirsty and drink even when you are stressed. You can also switch to something with more calories when you are feeling stressed out. See if that helps.
3 years
It's fine. Sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable.
But that being said, you might want to stick with padding until you decide what you want to do. When you do feel comfortable taking the plunge, it's great. You feel like your body is finally doing what you want it to do.
I can't speak for everyone, but I felt more comfortable when I started gaining. I became bolder too. Honestly, I've got no regrets.
3 years
