ILuvChubbyChix:
Sometimes, while walking around, I notice this and have been for awhile. So far, it hasn't been that big of a deal and it's not that extreme, but I know this is only ever going to get worse. I guess it's just one of those things that comes with no thigh gap. I just know it'll be even worse if and when I develop negative thigh gap (where if you keep your legs straight, it's difficult or impossible to place your feet side by side.

This thigh rub action only seems to occur at the top 1/2 of the thigh, or top 1/4 of the inseam length, which makes sense since that's where the thighs are thickest.

The TMI warning section:

I've also noticed it this often seems to collide with my "junk" which is occasionally annoying, so I probably want to think about "support" for that too.

End of TMI section.



So far, I've been using boxer shorts. I suppose briefs might offer better support, though that'd do nothing for slight thigh rub.

The possibly obvious answer might be to consider using boxer briefs. I had tried that before a long time ago, but I had a problem of it stretching out too much, possibly because of the wrong material.

So then I wonder.. could some materials be more resilient from getting stretched out of shape than others? Could being stretched out of shape be the cause of it being too tight? But if too loose or properly sized, would it still offer the same support?

Guess I'm not sure what to get. For obvious reasons, I can't try before I buy. But I would hate to buy something that ends up being nearly useless. So what I'm hoping for, is a possible starting point? Or if there's other solutions I haven't thought of.

Not really sure where I'm going with this, but I can't help but think there's a better way, somehow.

EmilyW:

Munchies:
I'm just blown away by the talent. The shading. The composition. You are very good at art.

EmilyW:
..and eating and getting bigger, don't forget that.

Munchies:
A foodie is more focused on the joy/sexual pleasure of eating. They are indifferent to or hate weight gain.

Unlike a feedee who may eat things they don't enjoy to get stuffed or get fatter, a foodie will only eat foods that they enjoy.

Begaydocrimes:
I kinda get it! Out of further curiosity, would someone who both enjoys weight gain and only eats food they enjoy for the pleasure of it be a feedee or a foodie, or some combination? I'm making a character for something, and I'm trying to label them, haha.

EmilyW:
Making asses just right takes time, you know. I could write a book about it.

This is, without a question, an illustration for my ADEPHI story that you can find somewhere here (I'm pointing up and slightly right, if you can't see my finger because of your nose )

And I know what you all say: Why don't you, dear Emily, stop fucking around and finish that damn (what is by now) novella?

The answer may surprise you. I fucking love fucking around.
I even majored in it and have the title proudly printed on my office door in golden letters:

Emily, BFA
Batchelor of Fucking Around

But enough about me, let's see some other BFAs

Begaydocrimes:
I'm relatively new to the community, and I'm still trying to navigate all the terms. One that's got me particularly confused is foodie. I tried googling it, and that didn't produce anything kink-related, so I thought I'd turn to you guys. What exactly is a foodie?

Sweetpapi:
Hello FF!
Need advice/opinion

I started gaining 2 months ago at 110 lbs / 5'1
First month I was eating 4500kcal, I gained to 120lbs very fast and I was very happy 😊

Next month I raised my goal to 5500kcal and after whole month zero gain! Even in meantime dropping to 115-118lbs.

I'm eating normal meals + a lot of sweet snacks, and almost every evening some fastfood (pasta, kebab, burger) or if not, we make fat sweet cocktails with heavy cream, ice creams, nutella, various fruits etc. I'm also drinking at least liter of Pepsi, lemonade everyday.

I eat very often from waking up to going sleep, always a lot of sweets before and after a normal meal.

I'm not doing any heavy physical activity, only a little house and garden work.

I know that patience is needed but I'm surprised that I eat 3 times as much as my caloric needs and I'm not gaining weight! 😞

So, should I change something in my eating habits? Am I omitting any significant ingredients which help gain weight? Or just eat even more calories...?
Thanks for any advices/opinions! ❤️

Bigboy32:
I’ve always kind of been a big guy ever some reason I’ve always had man boobs and/or better known as moobs and I’ve always kind of wondered if there are women that are into Man boobs I’ve always wondered that.

Smolgainer:
Hey guys! A very late update, but there is a big development!
So in the end it turned out that we never really talked about it, apart from him mentioning that he liked guys with bellies at some point. We're just friends and nothing is going on between the two of us.
Additionally, he doesn't use grommr that regularly and I wasn't actively looking for him on the app.
HOWEVER, since I now have a few pics of myself (faceless) online, I opened grommr the other day and saw him in my private message (and immediately suffered a heart attack). He just said hi, so I replied hi and yesterday he asked how I was doing.
I genuinely can't tell if he knows who I am and is just playing with me, or if he is utterly clueless.
There is now way I can keep chatting with him and not tell the truth, that just feels so wrong. But guys I am terrified! I've never told anyone in my life about this kink and I really don't know how to manage this whole situation.
I'm thinking about just telling him to request my private folder where there is a face pic of me, but I'm not sure that's a good move.

TLDR: HELP!

Tentacles:
How many people do you think keep this within the realm of fantasy vs actually gain?

Munchies:
Depends on what you mean by reality vs fantasy. I used to gain, but I would fantasize about sizes I would never achieve.

Meanwhile, I am actively making my feedee very fat, but I've accepted he might be unable to reach some of the sizes (600 lbs - 700 lbs) that we've fantasized over.

Tentacles:
The issue I see with gaining is the lack of an endpoint isn't the process kinda the point rather than the end goal.