Tentacles:
How many people do you think keep this within the realm of fantasy vs actually gain?
Depends on what you mean by reality vs fantasy. I used to gain, but I would fantasize about sizes I would never achieve.
Meanwhile, I am actively making my feedee very fat, but I've accepted he might be unable to reach some of the sizes (600 lbs - 700 lbs) that we've fantasized over.
3 years
Morbidly A Beast:
I can’t really give a list of pros and cons of being a fat person, all I can say is that it felt right and part of me. Like those kind of pros and cons are sort of dismissing to the existence of fat people.
Some people forget fat people exist outside of kink. It's like asking "What are the pros and cons of being muscular? Slim?"
It's a loaded question that removes humanity from the subject in question. Literally objectifying.
A better question would be "Should I get fat?" And unfortunately, that is a very subjective answer.
3 years
SowTrainer:
Claiming to be underage in chat room
3 years
KCGrowForMe:
agreed! she has been but. guess we shall see.
Good luck be to ye.
3 years
KCGrowForMe:
sounds like offsite for now, until she can gauge the vibes and try on here.
Imo, if your friend wants to get the lay of the land, she should lurk a bit first. If she decides to join, you can help her navigate things.
3 years
KCGrowForMe:
no thats the thing, we aren't able to cause i cant talk about it that way with her, but I want to see her flourish with someone who can, its too weird for me. Im sure someone here would bring her right out of her shell though
So, does she have a profile on here? Or are you helping her find someone to chat with offsite?
3 years
Boy howdy. You sure are a chatty one.
Lemme ask you this. Are you trying to decide if you what to gain weight? If so, why are you asking internet strangers?
3 years
Glad you and your friend can enjoy kink together. It's nice to know that you two are still closr after all this time.
3 years
Munchies:
It's super common. You are the average of the company you keep.
The best way to avoid it is to eat healthier and exercise more often. Easier said than done unless the two of you get off on contrast.
For example, I'll exercise while my feedee makes a pig of himself.
Angy523:
I wish we did the same, but if I will exercise, he will do the same. In the past he used to eat less when I did it, but I hope it won't happen again because I want to lose weight and make him gain at the same time. The bad thing is he has more self control than I do. If there are sweets in the house, he can just ignore them, I can't. If he would be more like me, it would be really easy to make him fat
I'm sorry, Angy love. It's like I said in the other post but as things are, you and your boyfriend are on the road to mutual gaining. Either make your peace with it or have a discussion with him.
3 years
I don't think I'm saying anything new, but the transgender catch-all is useless. The site doesn't do this with cisgender people.
I'm cis. You wouldn't put all cispeople under a catchall cisgender label. You'd specify. I'm pretty sure a person looking to talk to a man would be super disappointed to find out I'm a woman.
Sure, the trans experience is much more than transman and transwoman. But it would be nice to give more options than "transgender" and "no gender".
3 years
