Bigdj1977:
I completely understand that sentiment you expressed at the end of this post. I too started out in a field that has some physically demanding jobs but as I got bigger, I was lucky to find positions that are much more desk bound. You may have to get some additional training or credentials but if it allows you to live life more according to your preferences that is a small price to pay. Also, keep in mind that for many people, myself included, there comes a size where they have to eat a satisfying amount of food to just maintain or gain very slowly (this is the mid 400s for me) and are still reasonably mobile.

FattMatt:
My backup plan is to start teaching when I’ve gathered a few years of experience in my field. Maybe that wil open up the possibilities of gaining to an more extreme weight. And I know I won’t be bed bound by the time I hit 500 pounds. I think however that the image of a 400-500 pound hospital worker, isn’t widely accepted in society…

Ayumi Orihime:
Many people in the medical field are very fat phobic. As a pharmacist, when I do continued education, the non pharmacological advise for most health problems include "weight loss".

I wish they'd really get educated on the subject. Research shows that voluntary weight loss isn't sustainable in the long run and that the weight cycling is the real danger, not the fatness itself.

Maybe they feel "safer" assuming all fat people are greedy and lazy, this way they are "protected" from becoming fat themselves.

Blaming fat people for their fatness and assuming health issues such as high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, etc are caused by obesity (as opposed to "associated with being fat", which isn't the same at all) is very common in health professionals and it's been shown that many have a really bad perception of their fat patients.

Just suggesting that these issues could be linked to other factors also associated with being fat (stress, lack of exercise or weight cycling for example) is seen as controversial!

It's just ridiculous and I don't want to me a part of it. I've never told a patient of mine they should lose weight and I never will.

Munchies:
I think it depends on what health issue they have. I agree that weight loss isn't the end all be all. A lot of health concerns can be resolved by doing something else.

But some medical conditions can be helped by some level of weight loss. For example, my grandma has osteoporosis. While losing weight will not fix the problem, it can be helped by maintaining a lower weight. To put it simply, she had to lose weight because her bones are not strong enough to support her.

This also doesn't take into account the more extreme forms of obesity such as immobility. I don't think most immobile people will tell you that they are as fit as a fiddle. But on FF, I believe that is part of the appeal.

Ayumi Orihime:
I agree for osteoporosis (although being too skinny is even worse for it).

K M Joyce:
My girlfriend wants to keep packing on the pounds but wants to be strong enough to carry it. She was wondering what kind of workouts she could do to build strength but also keep plumping up. Should we increase her calorie flow if she works out? Thanks in advance anything helps!

DollGirl:
How big is she now? And how much bigger is she hoping to get? I'm 5'4 and went from 130-200. I walk for miles. I will sometimes do some basic strength training stuff. Either with bodyweight or with dumbbells.
I am all for healthy gaining

Ayumi Orihime:
You walk this much and don't lose weight? How is that possible? 😳

Quink333:
Months ?! How long have you been doing this ?

Amazingem:
About six months now, give or take!

I think he's only had 2 or 3 instances where he's cum from having his shaft stroked in that time. And I am still making him swallow his own cum, too.

After concentrating on the bottom of the head of his penis (the hypospadias) for so long - a number of months - the first time his shaft was gripped he came super fast! Lmao! It totally changed the level of sensitivity.

This has been a really fun experiment and I plan to keep going for awhile as long as he is willing!

Quink333:
Do you have like a goal ? Somthing you'd want to train him for ? Developing some habits

Fatty2022:
I noticed something and wonder if you have exeprienced this too.

Since ive gained weight and got in the obese range, i get sometimes really tired after eating a normal meal and wanna take a nap. this never happened to me when i was just chubby.
so does the added weight make the difference or is it cause im getting older (im just 22 though😅).

did you experience that? whats the science behind it if somebody knows, im interested

Quiver:
I agree with Munchies here, there could easily exist a future where you say “both? Both. Both is good.” Obviously, not recommending doing anything without his actual knowledge and consent. But with a wink in your eye you could say, “you need more protein for all that muscle!” when he thinks he’s full. Because athletes do fully need that calorie intake…. But, you know, so do sweet soft boys ☺️ Hope you had a nice day with him yesterday!

Angy523:
We had a nice day, yes, but I was also disappointed...I expected to see my growing boyfriend, but this time I saw the opposite. He also checked the scale yesterday...he only gained 1kg since last month. I think it was more at some point, but he lost a little those days. He didn't eat that much, idk what's happening...well, maybe because we had a fight just the day before (I also find out he went fur a run after we fight that day...the nice part is that he wasn't able to run as much as he used to). Anyway, he still enjoys when I play with his belly...he let me do this almost all day.

DustyLovesBBWomen:
My partner is filling out nice she's 389 right now most weight goes to her tummy which is quite big and hangs pretty well it already covers up her special area but she loves how she can swing back and forth and rest it on a table or on my chest she wants it to hang even lower she has no problem putting on weight but is there a way that you can actually help out gravity and increase the rate that gravity stretches her belly downward besides continuing to gain obviously because that's not a problem going at about a rate of 25 lb a month so just curious

Fattylover2:
Hi!
So, my gf knows about my fa and feeders fetishes, but I don't think she quite understands. I would like to find some material that helps her understand better. Whether it be informative articles or videos with explanations, I feel weird explaining and want someone eloquent with words to explain.

I'd say I'm a sub (and i like most anything related to that) and into mutual gaining or contrast gaining, if that helps with knowing what materials to provide.