My wife knows her weight turns me on and allows our eating habits to remain normal for this desire. We’d have each other no other way ;-)
3 years
falcor:I love the idea of body change.
I love gaining for someone and seeing my abs melt away and having them grip my soft "love handles" at the same time I also love working out for someone and having them enjoy my fit muscular body

I love seeing the woman I am with gaining and becoming softer and softer... I seeing the change
I am really into contrast, and luckily so far the lovely ladies I had a relationship with ether liked feeding me while keeping their firm bodies in shape, or, what happened in most cases was that once they settled in they let themselves go, steadily gaining while encouraging me to work out... which in some cases ended up of them having an extra 100 lbs of pure fat (which was occasionally pressed against my rock hard body

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To be honest, I love gaining and/or having the women I am with gain, as long as the contrast between us is remained and one of us ends up with a body change... I love it so much that when I did date some skinny women, I started gaining intentionally, just so that we have some fat between us as a buffer (before they settled in and let go or encouraged me to gain more

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Awesome indeed :-) It’s a dream come true when your mate gains with ya. My wife has been fat most of her adult life so that part has been pretty easy. We’ve happily gained a lot of weight together :-)
3 years
Pretty much thin until I hit my thirties. I’m still mostly a beach ball belly and bird legs, but it’s getting bigger. Hit 200 recently and I’m quite enjoying it ;-)
3 years
Wife and I can relate to this. We’ve stuck to concerts and ballgames where there’s either elevators or escalators involved. My girl is 330 pounds and can’t do stairs too well.
3 years
mattycakes:
So I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year now and she’s always been pretty actively fit and outgoing. She’s had six-pack abs and would always be judgmental about her figure. Well she knows when we started dating that I’ve dated bigger girls in the past but I had never said anything about my fat fetish or that I wished she would gain weight for me. I love her whatever size she wants to be and am always supportive to her. A couple of months ago she had noticed that I used to have a Feabie account from before we met. Not going to lie I was a so nervous and scared she’d leave me. I told her that I’m into thicker bigger girls but that I’m into thin girls like you too. Of course I still prefer a chubbier girl more. She kind of just gave me the “Mhmmm” with a little sly smirk and went back to doing what she was. I didn’t know what to think at that moment.
Now as of recently, like six weeks ago I starting noticing that she wouldn’t go to the gym like she always would, practically everyday she would. When we go out to eat and she’s full, she’ll at times lift her shirt up and start rubbing/holding it saying that she looks so pregnant right now and she’ll smile with a little giggle as well. It’s the same way on the way home when she’s in the car. When we’re laying together and we have a tickle war, I go for a little of her newly-added pudge and she just laughs and says “Baby, that’s my fat” I would just tell her that I like it on her and that I think she’s hot as always. I’ve told her once that i you’ve been even more beautiful and attractive to me. Not to mention that sex has been a lot better with her new curves. Her butt has gotten much bigger and her tits have even grown a bit too. Not much of a change though. There’s been more pudge to grab in places. There’s no question that we’ve been more fun and adventurous lately in the bedroom.
I’d like to see her gain a bit more weight, I feel as if she’s been enjoying it but then again I’m not sure if she’s just trying to tease me about it cause she knows I’m into bigger girls than she is. I’m wondering if I should approach it with her and ask if she’s noticing these things or if I should just sit back and see where it goes for another couple months?
I’d let it go at its current pace. Sounds like she’s stealthily gaining for ya :-)
3 years
Dalchemist:
I just got back from the beach last week and let me tell you there was no shortage of larger individuals not afraid to flaunt their extra weight.
I don't know if they were explicitly going out with the purpose to do it but it was nice to see.
I think people are less self-conscious about it now, which is a good thing :-)
3 years
Not been yet this summer, but I’ll have a growing belly to show off once I do ;-)
3 years
Big soft jiggly bellies are the best ;-)
3 years
Wife and I talk occasionally about it. She’s confident with her size despite some mobility issues. And she surely doesn’t mind my belly becoming fatter recently. We accept each other’s kinks and fetishes without judgement :-)
3 years
Ditzy:
I have been here at least 12 years over all and in the beginning I met some real nice guys but that has changed over the years.
Not a fan of Dr Phil but those videos are right on point about narcissistic people.
You Tube is full of people with narcissistic personality disorder that create channels just so they can talk about themselves and feed their egos.
I know a few people with that disorder and I won't have anything to do with them.
True about much of YT. I have a few fave channels, but most of the YouTuber community is folks without the skills to land real jobs.
3 years