My experience is a bit different from yours.

I am, and always have been a straight man. I simply don't have any kind of attraction to men. I also find body hair repugnant on myself or others, and men still usually don't remove it.

I too, started off as an FA, who likes to see when women gain to at least 200 lbs. I have some feederism tendencies, but they're only kind of intense if I think she's too thin, which would be anything under 200.

At a certain point, I think it was both a combination of being too thin (horrible that I used to be 120-125 at one point) and curiosity. Gainers seemed to be having so much fun, and surely... 10 more lbs wouldn't really be a game changer, if I didn't like it. There's also the fact there's no social advantage to being a thin man, and the average American male now weighs 200 lbs. I was sick of being too skinny, and decided to do something about it.

35 lbs later, I really enjoy it and I only want to gain more, grow thicker, and get a softer, wider butt. Sitting down is even more comfortable than it used to be, and I like how I can eat more than I used to, although I still want a larger appetite.


But, I've noticed something else. If anything, my desire for heavy women has only become more intense, almost more of a need than a want. Like how it's almost not even an option anymore.

I try to keep an open mind, and I know it depends greatly on her personality and who she is as a person, but if she is far too skinny, I just can't see it happening anymore. And I feel slightly terrible for saying this.

Under 150 really is far too thin now, unless I know for a fact she wants to gain a lot of weight. Like I said earlier, what I really want is 200-250, possibly more (give or take some). Has a bit to do with how she carries her weight, but it's got to be substantial.

I wonder if this will become even more intense as I get closer and closer to my weight gain goal. Only one way to find out!

Does this make any sense?

I most like it when my limbs get thicker. Can't wait until my thighs are 24" (two feet) around, and more (30"+). Or when my arms are over a foot around (so close now!). Or when my ass increases in circumference and width.

Of course, as I do this my gut grows more substantial.

Time will tell if this results in B-cup moobs or not.

Not sure if I already posted in this thread, and it's 32 pages. Things change with time, anyway. I might even post again later. Although so far, every time I gain weight I've wanted to gain more and be able to eat more.

The near term goal is 170 lbs, but I don't think I want to stop there. That's just about when I should be officially overweight according to BMI, so that seems like as good a milestone as any.

After that, 200 lbs. It's a psychological milestone, and 200 seems like a good, round number (no pun intended). It's also the average weight of an American man as of this writing, so any higher and I would be heavier than most of the population.

After that, 222 lbs. I know this sounds arbitrary, and it kind of is, but that's also 100 kgs, which like 200 lbs, seems like a nice, round number.

Of course, who's to say I'll stop there? Part of me wants to be 250, 270, or even larger.

Doesn't that *burn* ?

Then the burning sensation lasts for days, made worse if boxer shorts or other underwear brushes against it for even a brief moment. Nothing else hurts so damn much. Plucking and threading is not even 1% of that discomfort, with waxing being even lower. Then when the pain does subside, the damn hair is coming back.

That's what often happens if I try to use hair removal cream down there. It's some sort of cruel turn of fate as I really dislike, and even disgusted by body, pubic, or armpit hair. I can't even look unless it's being removed.

So far I use a safety razor but I think I will want to try this at-home laser hair removal thing I recently acquired to see how well that helps. Even on the top setting it doesn't really burn at all; it's just slightly warm.

Definitely #2.

Being an FA doesn't require her to be into this explicitly. It's also much easier to find someone who clearly doesn't mind being fat.

If anything, if she's the sort who's worried about not being skinny, it may even be a relief for her.

It also seems quite unlikely I'll meet someone who's into this, or will admit it, even to herself. But there's plenty of fat women out there, so they're far easier to find.

Also, for a relationship to work, a lot more things would have to shared. That I like to see weight gain is a pretty small part of who I am overall. She doesn't have to be into feederism in particular for it to work.

Depends on the pizza, since some are much thicker and more substantial than others.

I'm going to talk about proportions since in theory, a pizza could be cut into any number of slices or worse, squares.

If a CPK (California Pizza Kitchen) thin crust frozen pizza, I can eat the entire thing in one sitting. But CPK thin crust isn't much at all, and even when on sale it's still a bit costly for what it is.

A large size Pizza Hut pan crust (assuming Meat Lover's), usually about 3/8's in one sitting, sometimes a little more. Depends on what else I eat along with it.

Eventually, I would like to be able to eat an entire large size Pizza Hut pizza in one sitting so a large will become my personal size. That way, additional pizzas will be needed when others are around and hungry.

Anecdotally, pretty much all happy couples I see where the woman is big, the man is big too. Just something I've noticed.

You don't have to give up exercise, and why should you? It doesn't really burn that many calories anyway. But what if, you prioritized weight lifting as well as eating much more? You'd end up much heavier, but still in good shape.

And if you do get a gut, well.. you know what they say. Who needs a 6 pack when you can have a keg!

Most of the time, when folks talk about setting weight gain goals, they're usually just the number on the scale.

I wonder if anyone sets goals besides just a number on the scale, and if so, what they are? Here are some examples.

- 40" waist or more (this is the average waist measurement of the American male)
- At least 24", or two feet around as thigh circumference.
- 44" ass, or more.
- Or fitting into larger clothing sizes.

I think you get the idea.

Other goals could include appetite milestones. For example, being able to eat an entire large pizza in one sitting when previously, you couldn't. Or eating two large triple burgers from Whataburger in one sitting (they're pretty big, much bigger than a Double Quarter Pounder from McD's), when previously you couldn't.

Or being able to suck down an entire quart of cream without getting sick, when before you couldn't.

These are just examples. What are yours?

I don't know about failing, but I suspect others may have noticed and just didn't say anything.

I get mesmerized, and I almost can't help it. Especially if she's wearing a snug, form fitting dress. Or when they wear shorts, short skirts, and sleeveless tops. And in Texas, women do that all of the time, including fat women. It's otherwise just way too hot, especially during the summer. The best part is that there's no real shame to speak of. It can sure be highly distracting sometimes, though!

I still remember the other day, this sexy middle-aged woman, probably late 40s or early 50s. She wore a snug sleeveless dress, everything from the sausage fingers, arms so thick the arm holes almost barely fit, huge boobs, a bit of belly, a big ass supported by huge legs with a little bit of cellulite, all on top of cankles wedged into 4 inch heels. She quivered with every step, and I couldn't stop staring. I only hope my future wife would be this sexy.

I almost can't walk past a Lane Bryant or a Torrid in an indoor shopping mall without glancing inside. It's difficult not to glance and stare for too long.

The absolute worst, but perhaps also the best is when I'm getting takeout food, or otherwise have to wait around in a place, and on the other side of the counter is a beautiful, deliciously fat woman. This happened to me just last week, at a Starbucks. She must have weighed at least 250, maybe 300 lbs. The armholes of the t-shirt barely fit, and was snug over her very large boobs and gut, which was peaking over her jeans. It didn't hide her shape at all. But I had to wait around because I ordered a sandwich (yes, it's freakishly expensive but I thought I was gonna pass out from hunger so I needed something).

It was almost torture, and I had many impure thoughts.

Sorry pal, that's not gonna happen. The business case simply doesn't exist.

Arguably, in essence that's what Feabie is, with some Facebook / social media garnishing bolted on top.

However, such an enterprise is doomed to failure.
Same for frankly any highly niche web site.
Someone who would actually admit to it is rare to begin with. I live in the DFW, which is one of the top 5 largest metros in the U.S. Despite this, there aren't a large number of members active within the last month on here. Same on Feabie, for that matter. The market simply isn't large enough (no pun intended). In fact, I'm under the impression FF is almost barely hanging on, in spite of a worldwide audience that actually has a reason to come back; to talk to others of like mind. A term for this is "network effect," which basically means a product or service that becomes more valuable, the more users there are.

Add in preferences such as age range, race, occupation, and so on and the already very small shallow pond that passes as a dating pool becomes a likely filthy puddle akin to one caused by a leaking water pipe. You likely have better odds of winning the state lottery, maybe even Powerball.

With already such slim odds, why would anyone pay for a membership?

The whole dating web site business model is also highly flawed and reeks of a scam. It's one of the very few business models where customer satisfaction results in no more sales from the customer. They can either run out of potential customers, or they can deliberately cause customer dissatisfaction and false hope that something may come from it, so they keep paying. The whole business model depends on your being frustrated so you keep paying. They also promote unrealistic results.

However, the dating web site scam only works when it's intended for the general public, for the largest audience possible. This ensures a steady new stream of suckers to join and replace those who get so frustrated they give up, or take a break.

On rare occasions I have met couples who admitted to first learning about each other this way, but they are rare. Probably just enough to keep the scam alive. Odds are, you won't be one of them.

If you must participate at such a site, stick with ones where you don't have to pay to send messages, and have extremely low expectations. Otherwise, it'll only make you sad, frustrated, and perhaps angry.