Munchies:
What I wanna know is why do people wanna tell their family about their kinks?
Ngl, that's weird. Even if you were vanilla, your fam ain't wanna know what revs your engine.
Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t think he wants to explain his kinks, I think he just anticipates criticism for putting on lbs cause he’s always been skinny. Obvi I’m not him so I can’t say if that’s what he means but I’ve encountered enough people who ask questions like his.
Munchies:
Makes sense, even though I don't agree with telling your parents about your sexual interests as a general statement.
I dunno, maybe I'm just built differently. When I was gaining, I just bullied my family into not talking about my body.
100%
1 year
Faust:
Personally while I’ve gotten comments on my weight gain, nobody has asked me about it so far. I feel like it’s a bit taboo to ask things like that typically
While I have received comments, unsolicited diet advice etc no one has out right ever asked why I’m getting fat, suggested I was doing it on purpose or anything of that sort.
You’re exactly right it’s inappropriate and rude to put someone on the spot like that, and generally people don’t or aren’t out to cause other people distress unless there’s an ulterior motive
1 year
Munchies:
What I wanna know is why do people wanna tell their family about their kinks?
Ngl, that's weird. Even if you were vanilla, your fam ain't wanna know what revs your engine.
I don’t think he wants to explain his kinks, I think he just anticipates criticism for putting on lbs cause he’s always been skinny. Obvi I’m not him so I can’t say if that’s what he means but I’ve encountered enough people who ask questions like his.
1 year
Also you don’t need to explain how people understand if you eat more than you burn you gain weight lol
1 year
I wouldn’t sweat it, trust me.
We fetishize being fat so weight gain to us is naughty but to most people it’s just something that happens
1 year
It sure is! Just follow your appetite and make sure you’re hitting the gym. Just know you’ll burn way less calories an hour on a treadmill than you consume in a single cheeseburger
It will be quite easy to build mass if your working out and eating everything you want
1 year
