MitchHedberg:
I like to go on long walks and always have, but I've noticed that since crossing around 200lbs I'm more likely to feel a tenderness in my shins (especially on my non-dominant leg) after a while, or if I have to stand for a very long time.

I also feel an occasional stiffness of the knee, which I presume is some kind of weight-related arthritis.

Any tips on how to avoid this issue while continuing to walk? I've been trying to do more leg-muscle strengthening exercises recently but I think part of the problem is my "form" when walking and standing. I find myself wondering what the perfect standing form is so that I'm putting the least amount of pressure on my joints, diverting it instead towards various muscles.

Jiggle Junkie:
Feature Request: word count in the mailbox next to messages. That way members can estimate from the word count whether a message is worth opening before they open it for a one- or few-word vacuous message.

FF Team:
Just moving this suggestion to a new thread. I will note that in the past we have considered removing the subject line completely from messages, so that the first line of a message appears in the inbox instead, which would give users more insight into whether they want to open a message or not. Maybe this is something we can re-think about to change in the future.

Cheers.
c00kie

Jiggle Junkie:
Vote against removing the Subject line. That’s removing useful information in terms of judging whether to open a message, not adding to it.

BerlinGainer27:
I really love huge double chins and I am sure some of you do too. Who would be willing to undergo plastic surgery to plump up your double chin? If so what size would you like to achieve. I am thinking that fat grafting should be possible to enhance any body part with fat as you wish these days, not just the common brazilian butt lift (BBL).
Are there maybe any plastic surgeons out there who would love to support feedees, gainers in their quest for the perfect fat body?

Hellobelly12:
hi! I'm a pretty new girl here, but I enjoy this fat community so much! I've been wondering so much if it would be a good idea to open an of as a nude model/content creator or whatever... I would be very scared tho of my family, I have no idea how they would react if they saw my nudes leaked somewhere... would you do that? or if someone has an of, how did you get into it? how is it going?

Intrigue992:
Do you get flavor fatigue during stuffing sessions? I need to plan my meals when stuffing so there’s a good mixture of savory and sweet. If not I quickly get tired of eating. I even try to make sure there’s different textures to keep things interesting. Are you the same or could you devour a platter of all one item?

Edxl:
Stomachs can also be quite sensitive, so a lot of people might enjoy attention there even if they are not specifically focused on their fat parts being given attention. (my wife is not in love with her fat bits, but she loves tummy kisses, for example). And youngish guys will not infrequently get erections in the morning, waking up with them or having it just after waking up. So no guarantee that your belly play was turning him on -- but it also didn't turn him off obviously, and even that is a good step.

I'd say keep giving attention to his softer parts, keep the food coming, and see how it goes. Hopefully he'll relax into it over time

Angy523:
Well, about morning erections...I know about it, but thank you for mentioning 😊 But we already had sex in that morning, we went to shower after that and back in bed. Anyway, the erection isn't the weird part here, but the fact he put my hand on his belly surprised me.

Btw, he used my phone and saw I googled this site. Idk if he realised I have this kink or he just ignored it. But yesterday he ate more than before and asked me to cook him a dessert. I wait to see if he keeps eating like this. If he does, I guess it means he knows about my kink and loves me pretty much 😋

CuteFarmer:
Telling men the solution to overcompetition is to compete harder, is only going to worsen the situation for other men. It's like telling poor people to improve their situation by taking money off other poor people, making them poorer. There's no net gain.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
If you see a problem, identify a cause and propose solutions.

There aren't many women active on the site? It's not because there are more men than women in the world. It's not because women want to stay single. It's because the internet and dating sites by extension are a hostile place toward women in general.

If to "compete harder" means making a safe and welcoming place for all people based on a minimum level of appreciation for people, their boundaries, and their individual desires, then yes, it will help.

Pluviophile:
I agree with this.

CuteFarmer:
You suggest there are so few women on this site because of behaviour from men? Leaving aside that this is really sexist.. and I'm sure would be an insult to the moderators.......where would the 90% of missing female FAs/feeders go instead? Another site? Deny their tendencies? Be real. Isn't it more likely that the OP was just right in the 1st place - there are fewer female fa/feeders than there are male feeder&feedees combined? That was his point. Why deny something that's so self evident?
I've no skin in this game, I'm lucky I've had some very nice ladies contact me on here. And I'm always respectful. But I don't think any amount of bashing the OP - or convoluted arguments - would dissuade most sensible readers that the OP just had a point. It's at least 10:1 men:women on here, so supply & demand will mean asymmetric opportunities. Be real. Admit to men the stats were always against them. Or you risk some very depressed men

Gainingbelly369:
I want my belly hang, but when i ever reach that state will my belly ever be flat again if i try to lose weight then. Or will my skin be lose for the rest of my life?