Girls just aren’t into fat guys. even on a fat fetish site like this

Fatpeter:
I’m starting to realise there are virtually no female FA/feeders on this site. Ones that are into guys at least anyway. Most fat women on here seem to be into either only thin guys, or thin girls or maybe other fat girls. But not fat guys. There is even virtually no thin female FAs that are into fat guys. They seem to prefer women too. In fact it really only seems to be other guys that are interested in fat guys. Has anyone else noticed this too?


*Stares at you in heterosexual domme feeder with a male feedee*

Lol, what the heck are you talking about? We do exist on FF. There's a lot of us too. But I have noticed some things that may explain your situation.

There are a lot of guys on here that are ... to put in mildly ... insane, gross, and creepy. Not all of them are like that. But there's so many of them that even some of my bisexual female friends have sworn off all the men on this site.

And for the ones that are straight? It's hell, man. If you look through the forums, you can see horror story after horror story. I can even share some of my own with you if you want.

Still, of the male feedees I'm friends with on this site (bisexual, pansexual, and heterosexual) they don't have issues finding female feeders (romantic, sexual, and platonic). It helps that they are all kind, respectful, personable, and bring more to the table than an empty belly.

These are not rich men. They have average looks. But their character plays a huge roll in their success.
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New feeder, advice?

Arden Feeder:
Thank you so much for your kind reply. I really appreciate the advice. He has told me before that a safe space is important and I'm still learning how best to provide that for him.

I'm afraid he has definitely been bullied into not being himself in the past and I definitely want to be that safe space for him. I don't think he fully trusts me enough to open up yet (given his past and how his past partners/family has treated him about this, I can't really fault him for that).

I am still learning what I am enjoy about the community if I'm honest, I grew up fat with people who taught me to hate myself, so I am having to relearn a lot of things about myself. My main priority currently is wanting him to finally be able to be himself and to be able to have that safe space to do so.

Any other advice though is greatly appreciated, I feel like a fish out of water right now. But I can definitely make sure to give him all the love and appreciation that I can.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
The only other advice I can give is to take your time, then; I'm still a fledgling in a lot of ways myself, though I've been lurking for quite a while. The longer you stay in the community and explore what it has to offer and the different viewpoints and perspectives people have, the better you'll be able to articulate for yourself and your boyfriend how you want to pursue feederism. Likewise, it will take time to develop that mutual trust. You've both already gotten past the enormous hurdle of one of you coming out of the closet, as it were, on being interested in feederism; congratulate yourselves and look forward to taking each next step one at a time.

And don't hesitate to post any questions you have on specific things as they come up and talk with people who are experienced. (I'm surprised Munchies hasn't chimed in yet, as she gives good advice and is a pretty experienced feeder.)

I'll ask some questions here if you don't mind sharing on your and your boyfriend's behalf. Do you know what his goals are as a feedee? Any specific ones, like a target weight? General ones, like whether he pursues weight gain for the physical attractiveness or to pursue the excitement of taboo? You mentioned also that he isn't a big fan of stuffing. Is this something he wants to work on but feels ashamed to partake in?


Lol! Believe it or not, I'm usually at work during the bulk of my posting. My brain constantly crave stimulation, so when things are slow, I'll check the forums.

That being said, I don't have a whole lot to add to what you've already said.
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Has anyone tried the “fat bomb”?

Kingwhatever1:
Very much tempted to try it. Wondering if any other cooking oil will do the trick?


Would it work? Yes. Would you also have the squirts, fatigue, and general feelings of blah? Also yes.

If you do this, don't do it on an empty stomach. You need to eat a lot to make sure the oil doesn't completely run though you. High levels of oil can have a laxative effect.

I also do not recommend going this for long periods of time. It will spike your triglycerides if you do. A week or two won't kill you. But it *will* knock you on your butt.
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Munchies

Crossing the threshold of being officially overweight

I hope you get nice and jiggly. In fact, I hope you grow to the size of your dreams.
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Lactose free meals

Arden Feeder:
I have a piggie who is lactose intolerant and who has pretty bad heartburn, any suggestions on what I could fix him that is high calorie/will help him gain weight?


You can swap out most milk based foods with milk alternatives like soy, almond, or rice milk.

As for heart burn, he may want to stay away from greasy foods. Still, high fat foods like salmon, nuts, and avocado should be fine.
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Crossing the threshold of being officially overweight

Pummpumm:
It just happened... Though a bit stuffed I just crossed the threshold of being officially overweight on my scale. I am lowkey freaked out and excited at the same time. I have never been overweight in my entire life before and it is still crazy to realize: "I am an overweight person now."
What did you feel like when "it" happened?


I'm technically overweight. I say technically because the extra poundage is muscle, not fat. The BMI index is a *joooooke*
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Skinny boys must be fattened

BoysRCute:
Does anyone else see skinny teenage boys like just starting college, and want to just fill them up till they pop


Skinny boys that young awaken some times of maternal instinct in me (which is hilarious as they are young enough to be my siblings), and I think that they look so frail.

I want to feed then until I can't see their ribs anymore. So not necessarily fat, but defo not thin.

I'm weird. 🙃
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Sweating after drinking heavy cream?

Lqqqqqlq:
So I’ ve decided to try this 2 week HC thing to gain weight.
I drinked half pint of HWC and soon after that I started to sweat, is this normal and will my body adjust to the cream?


It's not unusual to sweat after drinking a lot of cream. It has high fat content, and that's a lot for your body to process.

You can either grin and bear it until your body adjusts, or you can work your way up to it.

If you are drinking it straight, it helps to mix it in with something. You can also use it in cooking.
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Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
Something weird happened today. I was spooning him and he put my hand on his belly and pressed against his softness. Too bad it was in the morning and his belly was small and empty. But I liked it anyway. I guess he got used with my hand on his belly since I put it there almost every time. After I played a little with his belly, he moved my hand lower and he was hard. Is there any chance that he started to enjoy me touching his belly?

Also, I saw last night some pics with him 2 years ago when he was nice and fat (well, not too fat, but 15kgs heavier than now and it looked great on him) and he told me I wouldn't liked him if I met him back then. Ofc I told him he looked very sexy back then too. He also had some moments those days when he told me he is fat and I told him he isn't (as I said in the past, I don't consider him fat now), but every time I added that even if he will be fat, he still will be very sexy for me and that I would love him like this.


*happy squeals*

I'm excited things are going well!

And yes, I am pretty sure he's enjoying the belly play. It feels good, and it shows your attraction to him.
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Formatting

The Augmentor:
I also post my stories across multiple sites. However, I haven't run into the technical difficulties elsewhere that I've run into here on FF.

I just discovered that DeviantArt also apparently has tweaked its formatting somewhat. I used to be able to add basic HTML tags to get my stories to default to a serif font and to indent each paragraph. But now it seems like that's been replaced by CSS. I tried to copy the CSS code that shows up in the editor so I could duplicate the style of my older posts, but it doesn't work. The CSS code shows up as text when it's published. Another minor annoyance.

I'd have to say that Curvage seems to have hit the sweet spot. Text doesn't retain the emphasis formatting I like so much when I copy and paste it into the editor there, but I guess it's not too much trouble to add it manually with the appropriate buttons.



Archive of Our Own exists and it is free.

It's also a formatting wet dream.
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