What age did you discover you were into this

CookNFeedin:
Solid advice there. Talking to her is THE solution. That said, it's possible she's into this for her own kink, but I think the more likely cause for her being so quick to want to gain weight is the reason she was trying to lose it. If her only real reason for wanting to lose weight was just so she'd feel attractive, then this may be a bit of stress relief for her and she's just leaning into it. Either way talk to her clear the air, get motivation, and if this is something she really wants to pursue, remember informed consent is a thing. Make sure she knows what she's in for.

Yeahlikethat:
She defo wasn't looking to gain weight before, she wanted to lose it but as you said that was just to feel attractive (probably in instagram/ societies eyes). I would low key love it if this developed into a kink for her, but I doubt thats even possible and I dont want to force it.

The conversation has to happen, i'm quite an outgoing guy normally but when it comes to talking about this with her I kind of shrink haha. Thanks for your input, appreciated.


Feeder here. I'm glad you decided to have a conversation with her. This is good. I have some advice on how to go about it.

When you talk, I recommend going about it in a "I'm just curious" kind of way. Keep it light. Maybe, when you guys are cuddling or chilling together, ask her what she enjoys about gaining weight. Depending on what she says determines how the conversation will go.

Remember, don't put her one way or another. Let her be honest with you. And make sure you are actively listening to what she says.

Also, make sure your actions line up with your words. If you will love her at any size, make sure to show her that. Don't make all of your dates food related. Don't just feed her junk food. Keep her active by going on walks together. Nothing major. Just enough to show her that if she reversed course and decides she wants to loose weight, she knows you'll support her.
3 years

Faceless eating videos

Justagrowingboy:
Hi All,

I’m looking at making some videos stuffing myself to share within the community but I’m not looking to be identified in them so don’t want to show a face. Anyone have any tips to producing said videos and do you think people would be interested in them?

Thanks!


If you look at belly stuffing videos on YouTube, most people on there don't show their face. My favorite gainer is Daniel Keaton (sadly no longer active), and he never showed his face.
3 years

Sugar or carbs

Ney:
As I know it sugar is a type of carbohydrates. So if you talk about sugar or carbs it's actually the same. Carbohydrates are the most unhealthy type of food and alosothe type of food which is not actually an essential for the human body. That's why you won't find any or only few high-carb diets. Most are high protein, cause it's the building material of the body, to say it simple. Fats are also important for survival, but some are more healthy than others.
So if you wanna be as healthy as possible possible keep some distance from carbohydrates.

In the end it's as simple as that: If you wanna gain, you have to be in a caloric surplus. You can calculate your body's daily intake for keeping the weight (just do some research) or you could track your calories every day for a week or so. That way you'll get a feeling for how much your body needs. Therefore you can use several apps (also here just do some reseach).
If you know your intake just reach it everyday and add more calories and you'll gain.

Munchies:
It's the other way around. Carbs are a type of sugar. There's two types of sugars: simple and complex.

Simple sugars are easy to absorb. This would be things like fruit or cane sugar. Complex sugars take more effort for the body to absorb and break things down. This would be things like starches or carbohydrates.

That being said, carbs are 100% necessary for the human body to function. It's just that people tend to eat way more carbs than they actually need to eat. For more information, check out this:

www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/161547

Also, most people these days eat a lot of refined carbs. These are carbs that have most of the nutritional value stripped from it. This is why you hear people say things like "eat whole wheat bread instead of white bread." Sure, white bread may taste better to most people. But whole wheat bread has numerous health benefits to it.

Of course, everything in moderation. Eating too much of anything will negate its health benefits.

PolyPinoyPuppy:
Agree with everything but the semantics; Ney was right. Sugars are water-soluble carbs.

To return to the topic, there is a lot of research linking excess carbohydrate consumption with the development of type 2 diabetes. As with all things, do your research and take steps to mitigate the risks you want to avoid.


www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/161547

Please read the first sentence.
3 years

Reducing sweating

Louiefat:
I don't know how you can be into super fat bodies and NOT be into sweat. My girl's folds are constantly wet and it's the hottest thing ever


That's not good. You can develope rashes or even infections that way. That girl needs some powder in her life.
3 years

Sugar or carbs

Ney:
As I know it sugar is a type of carbohydrates. So if you talk about sugar or carbs it's actually the same. Carbohydrates are the most unhealthy type of food and alosothe type of food which is not actually an essential for the human body. That's why you won't find any or only few high-carb diets. Most are high protein, cause it's the building material of the body, to say it simple. Fats are also important for survival, but some are more healthy than others.
So if you wanna be as healthy as possible possible keep some distance from carbohydrates.

In the end it's as simple as that: If you wanna gain, you have to be in a caloric surplus. You can calculate your body's daily intake for keeping the weight (just do some research) or you could track your calories every day for a week or so. That way you'll get a feeling for how much your body needs. Therefore you can use several apps (also here just do some reseach).
If you know your intake just reach it everyday and add more calories and you'll gain.


It's the other way around. Carbs are a type of sugar. There's two types of sugars: simple and complex.

Simple sugars are easy to absorb. This would be things like fruit or cane sugar. Complex sugars take more effort for the body to absorb and break things down. This would be things like starches or carbohydrates.

That being said, carbs are 100% necessary for the human body to function. It's just that people tend to eat way more carbs than they actually need to eat. For more information, check out this:

www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/161547

Also, most people these days eat a lot of refined carbs. These are carbs that have most of the nutritional value stripped from it. This is why you hear people say things like "eat whole wheat bread instead of white bread." Sure, white bread may taste better to most people. But whole wheat bread has numerous health benefits to it.

Of course, everything in moderation. Eating too much of anything will negate its health benefits.
3 years

Should i give into obesity or go on a cut

Ditzy:
It seems decision making is something people can't do these days.
Whats the best for you in your mind?
I have no idea what "cutting" is so no help there.
If you are an adult don't worry what others think.


Cutting is when you reduce fat after bulking up. Gives you more definition.

Still, OP, if you are leaning towards cutting, you should cut. It sounds like you aren't ready to get fat at this time. And that's ok. It's your body. You should be happy in it.
3 years

Perks of being fat

Fatty2022:
- eating how much i want
- eating what i crave
- not having to maintain a diet or do sports
- just being lazy
- my body feels softer, all that fat feels nice
- i dont get cold easily
- it doesnt hurt as much or not at all if i bump into things
- i can use my belly as a stress ball
- warming hands between my big thighs
- food never goes to waste, my appetite is big enough to eat all
- i dont get catcalled or harassed on the streets like a lot of slim women
- using my belly as a table while im sitting and putting a small plate or a bag of chips/snacks there

Monadic:
does being lazy feel good? i never really enjoyed it. it always makes me feel very anxious


Depends on the person, really. My feedee is content to be lazy. Meanwhile, my best friend (who is also fat) is very active.
3 years

Tips for drinking heavy cream?

TubbySlug:
I've been struggling to maintain my weight this summer, as my work has me on my feet a lot. I've been thinking about drinking cream for extra calories, but am a bit unsure. Anyone have some tips?


Drinking heavy cream strait is hard. My feedee mixes chocolate milk in his.

I have a gainer friend that prefers to cook with heavy cream instead of drinking it.
3 years