Femme Calories:
I've browsed on here for a while and I notice that most feedees land on the submissive end of the scale. I understand why (the inherent powerlessness of being that heavy), but I wanted to ask the question nonetheless: are there any dominant feedees/gainers on here?
For me, at least, being heavy and well-fed is strongly associated with the means of obtaining food - richness, opulence - thus creating a mighty aura around the gainer in question. That's why I'm personally attracted to chubbier guys, anyways, because of that association. Anybody in here who can relate or have something to add to the list of speculations?
Sounds like you are looking for a dom feedee/gainer. I've run into several guys who initially claimed to be such, but as a domme feeder, most of them switched up and became submissive around me.
I'm not sure if it's because I exude that much of a dominant vibe, they are desperate for a female feeder, or what. Just be aware that not every dom is worth your time.
3 months
My partner isn't a very gassy person, but he is lorge. About 410 last we checked. However, when he was actively gaining, I noticed they went from kinda quiet to deep and brassy. However, I think that's more to do with stomach size and less to do with fatness. When he stopped actively gaining and let his stomach shrink up, his burps got quieter
3 months
I also wanna add that not every culture expects or even wants dainty frail women. Rural cultures tend to favor women who can do hard labor. A lot of black and brown cultures prefer thicker women with curves.
OP is French, so it makes sense for delicate, frail women to be the preferred norm for her. But as a black American woman whose parents were in the military, I've experienced cultures that look down on those women.
I'm not saying this means fatness is preferred (although there are some places that prefer very fat women), but there are scores of other body types besides fat and thin.
3 months
Munchies:
When you delete your profile, your stuff goes too. This includes your stories.
Canuck:
i know the functionality makes sense in some ways - if you want to delete, you don't necessarily want to leave anything behind. but in terms of stories, it really is a shame to see so many stories vanish. it would be nice if there were an archive like there used to be on the old dimensions site.
As Hiccupx explained it to me, it's a legal thing in Europe. And I know from my time in old jobs that they have the strictest internet privacy rules.
4 months
LittleEater:
How do you people feel about girls being heavier than guys?
I mean it's something that really turns me on. As i've been skinny my whole life (less than 110lbs), i've been used to the idea of being a lightweight, always the tiniest and lightest person in the room.
In our society, girls are always supposed to be frail and gracious and light.
Now, since i've gained weight, it's getting more frequent for me to be the same weight or even heavier than guys, even from guys taller than me!
This is a massive turn on for me, as I feel like i'm doing something really naughty breaking the traditional representation of the frail girl!
I don't know if that's clear but I wanted to know if others feel that way about it. Let me know your opinion
I'm a cishet muscular female feeder who isn't fat, so it's rare to come across guys who are lighter than me. But when I do, I feel even more domme than usual. I keep thinking about how small and cute the guy is. And how I could pick him up and take him on lil adventures if I wanted to.
I only tell the guy these thoughts if he's pissing me off. I do not think most people want to be told that.
4 months
Cmffa:
Howdy y’all!
Curious if anyone has any suggestions for feederism centric Discord servers? I’ve joined a handful, but most seem kind of dead, which sucks because I’m looking to meet friends.
Otherwise, has FF considered making their own? I’m sure there are plenty of people here that use Discord and would like that.
Munchies:
Honestly, it would be more of the same.
Don't get me wrong. There are certain times when people are mega-chatty. Unfortunately, a lot of people on here are shit with communication and extremely boring.
Cmffa:
Wondering if a lot of it is tied to people only coming around for personal ads. Perhaps a discord focused more on content and discussion rather than a dating service would make for a more comfortable space?
A lot of people come around kink spaces to be horny. Even if you banned content or personal ads, people will still be horny and/or creepy. I can't tell you how many people I've run into that are clearly typing with their left hand.
4 months
Cmffa:
Howdy y’all!
Curious if anyone has any suggestions for feederism centric Discord servers? I’ve joined a handful, but most seem kind of dead, which sucks because I’m looking to meet friends.
Otherwise, has FF considered making their own? I’m sure there are plenty of people here that use Discord and would like that.
Munchies:
Honestly, it would be more of the same.
Don't get me wrong. There are certain times when people are mega-chatty. Unfortunately, a lot of people on here are shit with communication and extremely boring.
AgaMcBees:
and all the interesting people go silent after some innocent discussion
Munchies:
Honestly, a lot of them tend to nope out after encountering some of the sleazier users.
AgaMcBees:
i know and it demoralizes me because im genuinely trying to be polite and just have good talks. I'm here for the real shit yk.
I understand. But there are people you can befriend if you are patient
4 months
Cmffa:
Howdy y’all!
Curious if anyone has any suggestions for feederism centric Discord servers? I’ve joined a handful, but most seem kind of dead, which sucks because I’m looking to meet friends.
Otherwise, has FF considered making their own? I’m sure there are plenty of people here that use Discord and would like that.
Munchies:
Honestly, it would be more of the same.
Don't get me wrong. There are certain times when people are mega-chatty. Unfortunately, a lot of people on here are shit with communication and extremely boring.
AgaMcBees:
and all the interesting people go silent after some innocent discussion
Honestly, a lot of them tend to nope out after encountering some of the sleazier users.
4 months
Cmffa:
Howdy y’all!
Curious if anyone has any suggestions for feederism centric Discord servers? I’ve joined a handful, but most seem kind of dead, which sucks because I’m looking to meet friends.
Otherwise, has FF considered making their own? I’m sure there are plenty of people here that use Discord and would like that.
Honestly, it would be more of the same.
Don't get me wrong. There are certain times when people are mega-chatty. Unfortunately, a lot of people on here are shit with communication and extremely boring.
4 months
Munchies:
Usually the damage it does to their internal organs, but an overall rapid decline in health paired with diminishing social lives usually does it.
Softernow:
Really scary that it could cause damage to the internal organs. What organs are usually affected?
The usual suspects: stomach, intestines, gall bladder, liver, kidneys.
In extreme cases, I've seen it cause spinal issues and nerve damage from the sudden rapid weight gain. There's a reason why I keep harping on certain things.
4 months
