Munchies:
I hadn't expected to see you for a bit. I thought you were in boot camp.

Enas:
I did not anticipate that they would allow smartphones!

Also, im not just in the boot camp, but im ill in the bootcamp! Which means they allow me time to rest!

Enas:
So, i tried this that Munchies linked out and here are the results:

Logician INTP-A

Energy: 72% Introverted
Mind: 74% Intuitive

... I forgot the rest...

Anyways, i find some of the things it says to be correct but others to be not.

I enjoy thinking a lot and in depth, although my thoughts are often chaotic and, seemingly unconnected. I do get lost in them. Having said that, i think i oftentimes arrive at incredible ideas.

The downside of my personality is that im always lonely, i oftentimes feel a desperate need to share these ideas in order for them to be, lets say, respectfully criticised and primarily because i genuinly think they can help people (and thats something i really love doing). But i dont feel comfortable with sharing them with people who i dont trust to a high degree. And the only way, i have found, with which i can begin trusting someone is them demonstrating their intelligence to me, regardless of if that is direct or indirect.

I think im also in a constant state of anxiety due to my thoughts, and the worst, about this part, is that the only way to get out of this anxiety is to stop having these thoughts, which is something i percieve as incredibly unethical, so i would feel really bad and anxious about doing it! :c

Squishbelly:
Shiiit, INFPs, INFJs, ENTJs, ANOTHER INTP!!!

Sounds like a type of place that can't exist in the really world, but can on the internet.

Mp31221:
This one might be for the fellas, but feel free to give your insight whomever you may be.

I've been on and off here for years. Seems like whenever I get on here I delve into extreme gooning and fetishizing. Because of this, I end up hating myself and the kink and immedtly fall off and disappear for months until the cycle loops again and again.

It's a terrible feeling to just use this site and the individuals on here as a wank bank while still expect some sort of romantic connection as well.

Even in this strife of extreme sexual subjugation, I still do visualize a modest and loving life with a woman I've enabled to extreme sizes.

My question to you all, is how do you control your sexual urges when entering a strictly sexual space? How do you dance the fetishistic dance without being a one handed keyboard maniac?

Munchies:
I'm a woman with an extremely high libido. I have yet to meet a man who is anywhere close to being as horny as I am.

I handle things by always keeping the fact that I'm talking to real people in mind. When you do that, it's really easy not to objectify people.

On top of all that, this is not a strictly sexual place. We talk about a lot of non-fetish stuff all the time.

Mp31221:
I believe my view of this site comes from years of conditioning to use it as I stated. My best course of action is just coming on here as little as possible and trying to talk on the fourms. I would generally come on here for the pictures and videos and then take my heated vibes into the chat. In the forums it's a lot slower paced and replies can be personally moderated and reviewed.

Jacen1008:
When we first met my husband was fat and I was the thin one. He is losing weight and I decided I want to gain

However I am not looking to do anything drastic

What are some things to do to gently gain weight over the course of the next 12 months

Is whole milk a good start

HectorBalloon:
I just took a long myers briggs test.

It says:

"Uncover your Personality type!
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Personality Report +
Development Program
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7-day full access


Get My Results"

Yeah, fudge off.

So I'll determine my type myself:

I am type MGPH-T

"Money grabbing people hater, Turbulent".

(As in, I hate money grabbers, not that I am a money grabber, quite the opposite).

Squishbelly:
I know this isn't technically related to being a chubby chaser, but it's fun to learn about people, so I thought I'd post this question.

Shangrila:
I'll start by giving the obligatory please make sure to prioritize safety, consent, and clear communication.

That said, these are the tips I've found to be helpful:

1. You've made your first good step by joining FantasyFeeder

2. Add Social Media Groups: Look for groups on Reddit (e.g., r/Feederism), Tumblr, or Facebook where folks are discussing feederism

3. Remember To Be Clear About Your Intentions
When engaging with potential feeders, be upfront about what you're looking for. Whether it's a romantic relationship, a casual dynamic, or just someone to share your interests with, clear communication is key.

4. Again, Prioritize Safety and Consent
Consent: Ensure that any interaction is based on mutual consent and respect. Discuss boundaries, limits, and expectations early on.

5. Look for Compatibility
Finding someone who shares your specific preferences is important. Discuss your goals to ensure you're on the same page.

6. Attend Events or Meetups
These can be a great way to meet potential feeders in a safe and social setting.

7. Use Dating Apps
Use dating apps that allow you to specify your feederism interests. Mention your interests in your profile

8. Build Trust Over Time
Take your time getting to know each other. Trust is essential, especially in a dynamic that involves physical and emotional vulnerability.

9. Respect Boundaries
Respect others' boundaries and be prepared for rejection. The right person will appreciate your honesty and shared interests.

Good luck!

Butter On A Pop Tart:
A robot programmed to be a domme feeder who loves to bake would be interesting. 😂

Munchies:
I feel like having a domme you control makes it less ... domme.

Butter On A Pop Tart:
Ha, set it and forget it?

Or maybe have someone else set it for you?

Munchies:
I'm going to assume you have limited to no experience with dommes.

Then again, anyone who prefers sexbots tends to have limited to no experience with the real thing. I'm not anti-sexbot, but I do not know anyone who prefers them to the real thing unless they are unable to experience the real thing.

Butter On A Pop Tart:
Why are you being an asshole?

Christ. I said the idea was interesting, with a 😂 emoji - and you proceed to make snide comments and assumptions about me. You must be a lot of fun in real life.

Don’t bother responding, I don’t care to talk to you. You come across as a rotten person.

Mp31221:
This one might be for the fellas, but feel free to give your insight whomever you may be.

I've been on and off here for years. Seems like whenever I get on here I delve into extreme gooning and fetishizing. Because of this, I end up hating myself and the kink and immedtly fall off and disappear for months until the cycle loops again and again.

It's a terrible feeling to just use this site and the individuals on here as a wank bank while still expect some sort of romantic connection as well.

Even in this strife of extreme sexual subjugation, I still do visualize a modest and loving life with a woman I've enabled to extreme sizes.

My question to you all, is how do you control your sexual urges when entering a strictly sexual space? How do you dance the fetishistic dance without being a one handed keyboard maniac?