Yea I know what you mean. I think it's a kind of a elephant in the room kind of thing. My wife has done this for years mostly in front of her girlfriends (when I have been around) after she has gained a good amount of weight. She doesn't do it with the subtle 5-10 Lbs. that I know a lot of women do just to get reassurance or a compliment that they are not to Fat but she does it with a 20-30 Lb. gain. After not seeing them for a long time she will look for an opportunity to work her weight gain into the conversation...and a lot of the time it seem's it is centered around food or especially desert which they all know she has a huge sweet tooth. As we are serving food buffet style she will almost over emphasize the amount she takes and say something like, "it's not like I skip any meals as she piles on a huge amount on her plate" or when a friend asks her for desert she would say "I will have one of each and make it a big slice" when they are cutting a cake or pie. Then comment, it's not like I won't eat all of this.....as she put's a bite to her mouth and moans so seductively. She kind of put's it out there to her friends like ....yea I have gotten Fat again as if to let them know she is well aware she is Fat and this is how she got Fat again.

Like you said it drives me crazy with arousal when I see this. But to most people it's just kind of funny or a joke.

of course....it can be shocking

unfortunately I think people can notice with certain clothing speaking for myself.

In certain looser type t shirts I have even glanced at myself and can totally tell there is softer fatter moobs. After I had intentionally gained a lot of weight ......my wife came up to me after dinner for a smooch (she was slightly intoxicated) and then grabbed and jiggled both of my moobs ......up until that point I didn't even realize they had turned into soft fat moobs.

Not really a Fan of mine!

It is kind of crazy because I have lifted weights for so many years that now when I don't work out for a month my pecs turn soft and even find much accumulated fat below my armpits as well.

I happened to catch myself in the mirror the other day while sitting and turning slightly and my moob on the side I was turning looked like a soft Fat D cup breast hanging to the side. I am not a fan but with that said if my wife were to like them I might find a way to get into them as well. I feel kind of embarrassed that they became so soft and Fat without lifting for only a month.

I think your right! I will throw out a quick list some the same and a few others.

* Confidence (Not overly confident but confident)
* Humor
* Hygiene
* Clothing (nicely dressed, especially nice shoes)
* Good conversationalist
* Attentive

These are a few.....there are definitely more. Remember women think ahead and if they plan on dating you more than once they think ahead and they assume that you must show up good in front of their friends as well. So to get the highest percentage of potential women you must do all the necessary things.

Speaking of my wife in this example: I will speak of her *ahem*. As she has gained she has accumulated a slight hanging belly that sticks way out in front of her now, with a defined belly crease directly above her new puffier slight Fupa....which is so damn sexy. Her outer lips have become much puffier ( I mean a lot) almost swollen looking but very soft to the touch. I literally love the new appearance as well as love the difference in fuller softer feel. I guess you can say it feels tighter but in a soft "suction cup" type way......definitely not looser. Definitely nothing for you to worry about.....it is so much better.....trust me. She happens to be much more sensitive in that area, gets aroused much easier, gets wetter much faster and seems to not only enjoy sex more but seems to crave sex more. She happens to wear tight designer jeans quite a bit when she isn't working and wearing her dress pants. Both of which her lower belly and her *ahem* really fills up her pants in such a sexy full way....not that you can see anything but it is much more full in there if you know what I mean......so damn so sexy.

I hope so! I just dream of her getting to a size or weight and her eating takes over where she just continues to gain and there is no stopping her.

Just two years ago my wife's appetite and will power with portion control was totally different than now.

If I were to grill Burgers and all the fixings, she would usually cut one of the big burgers in half and have small portions of the fixings. Since that time I have bought over sized plates, bowls and silver ware for the house. Just last night I grilled some Burgers & cooked some Beans & fries and my wife made a great salad. When I brought in the grilling she prepared the over sized plates. She serve me and everyone and then came back with her own plate. She had two Huge burgers on her plate along with her complete plate over flowing with the huge helping of the fixings along with a huge bowl of salad.

It is just so sexy to see her appetite and her pattern of eating so much more now. I honestly believe the key to her gaining a lot of weight is increasing her capacity like she has done because she has always been a great snacker and never forgets her sweets.

I really can't wait till she blows up from all this eating. Anyone want to take guesses on how soon she will blow up from all this eating and how much she will gain?

Quick update......My wife has been eating good still, just not as much as last week. Although .....I have never seen her not clean her plate....I do think if I loaded her plate with a 10 egg omelette hash browns etc. she would possibly say how many eggs are in this omelette....but still snarf the whole plate down.

I am still waiting to see some big gains on her figure from all her over eating last week. I did notice as she approached me after her shower the other night with her pajama bottoms on and her tank top in her hand still that her once looser pajama bottoms now are extremely tight across her hips and belly. In fact the fabric being loose and thin is so tight and straining....as well as quite a bit tighter in the butt as well. I mean these bottoms were the type that were looser and baggy for comfort during sleeping. I also Imagine she is going to be buying new bras pretty soon because her current ones (36 DD) have her breasts squeezing out the top of the cupps making a very cute boobie bubble.

I am hoping that all of a sudden in another week it is becomes really evident that she balloned up with all her over fattening eating these last two weeks. How long does it usually take to see a nice gain from huge over indulgence?

My wife has changed fattening areas with age and weight lost and re-gained.

I wouldn't say she went from a Hour glass to a Pear with a lot of weight gained to an apple shape most recently............ but they were definitely body parts that gained into those directions not necessarily extremely though.

In the last two years and definitely in the last year she has been accumulating a lot of fat into her lower belly, upper belly hips and love handles.....but that goes along with her age as well as her diet.

There seems to be a lot of variables mentioned above which makes it fairly general.