KCGrowForMe:
agreed! she has been but. guess we shall see.

KCGrowForMe:
sounds like offsite for now, until she can gauge the vibes and try on here.

KCGrowForMe:
no thats the thing, we aren't able to cause i cant talk about it that way with her, but I want to see her flourish with someone who can, its too weird for me. Im sure someone here would bring her right out of her shell though

Munchies:
It's super common. You are the average of the company you keep.

The best way to avoid it is to eat healthier and exercise more often. Easier said than done unless the two of you get off on contrast.

For example, I'll exercise while my feedee makes a pig of himself.

Angy523:
I wish we did the same, but if I will exercise, he will do the same. In the past he used to eat less when I did it, but I hope it won't happen again because I want to lose weight and make him gain at the same time. The bad thing is he has more self control than I do. If there are sweets in the house, he can just ignore them, I can't. If he would be more like me, it would be really easy to make him fat

Angy523:
Does it usually happen to gain weight as a feeder because of your feedee? Is there any way to avoid this?

Rio67:
Heavy cream works really well right before bed a pint a day in 2 weeks you’ll need new pants I bet

Docp:
I can’t drink heavy cream by itself without gagging. It would also be tough to bring so much heavy cream in the house without raising suspicion (I live with family) idk, maybe I should just go to the store and buy heavy cream+chocolate milk and just down them at the end of the day

Munchies:
Again, if you tend to put on muscle over fat, this may not have the intended effect.

What are you already doing?

Docp:
I haven’t been doing much besides overeating what food is already at home. I stopped actively gaining after I quit my fast food job a while back. The only way I have gained is when I made myself addicted to fast food for a month and had a lot of edibles which gave me the munchies. The reason I don’t continue to gain with fast food is because it’s super expensive and if I eat too much of it in a short time span, I won’t crave it anymore.

Munchies:
Ok. What sorts of foods are you eating? What does your fitness regimine look like?

Docp:
I usually eat pasta or chicken. Sometimes steak. I get rice and beans with steak and sometimes chicken.
I don’t really exercise at all anymore because I’m trying not to gain muscle, I also sweat really easily even when I was in shape, so I don’t want to sweat and lose a bunch of weight so I just sit at home usually.