Fantasy Feeder

Advice needed

Jsmjsm:
Thank you for your reply,

Sorry I was a bit emotional when I wrote my post.

Let me start from the beginning.

With my girlfriend we always had a very good relationship especially in the bedroom. We have start a while opening to each other our kinks and we had a lot of fun. It was mostly dom/sub fun.

A few weeks ago she admit to me that one of her customers was hitting on her quite hard and even if she don’t like the guy she was really sexually attracted to him. A very fit, muscular and masculine men. After discussion I told her that she should sleep with him, thinking that she will turn the page after that. She slept with him twice, sex was very average and she move about this fantasy she had.

The problem is that I did not, since she told me about him, I am obsessed with that, not in a jealous way but in a turned on way. Like a bomb in my libido I can only thing about that, nothing else matter.

She do not feel comfortable to continue having sex with other guy.

Before that I never thought of something like that even will all the fantasies and kink we have experienced or talked about.

How can I get over it ?

You don't necessarily need to get over it. If you can be happy with the fantasy aspect of it, and your girlfriend is comfortable with it, then that's fine.

But it sounds like you aren't as dom as you think you are. You may be a switch. Try being more submissive in the bedroom and see how you like it.

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Did my scale broke

Quink333:
Sooo i weight myself.
I gained 1 whole kg in 2 days ??
O was 73.9 three days ago and 75 yesterday ?

Is my scale broken or how is this possible 😭

I wouldn't really worry about it.

For my fellow Americans, 1 kg is roughly 2 lbs.

Your weight can fluctuate a lot for a variety of reasons. Fluid retention, constipation, being full, etc. That 1 kg can leave just as easily as it came.

It is better to weigh yourself less. At least once a week. That way, if you put on 1kg, it's more likely to actually be 1 kg of fat than something else.

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Advice needed

Jsmjsm:
I am a big dom guy,

Recently and after a chain of events I found myself really turned on by the idea of my fit girlfriend going with fit guy.

Nothing else turn me in since we have talked about. She did it twice with the same guys but she doesn’t want to be the only thing between us.

I am scared of loosing her

I am so lost

So, let me make sure I understand you.

You're a dom, but you get turned on being cuckolded by fit guys. Your girlfriend indulged in this fantasy for you a few times, but ultimately decided it's not for her.

You don't know how to indulge in this fantasy and keep your girlfriend at the same time, correct?

Kink negotiation is super important. And you need to realize not all kinks will be shared. Sometimes the other person is open to the kinks. Sometimes they aren't.

Your girlfriend seems to love you. She probably feels uncomfortable sleeping with someone else while she's with you. But she gave it a try to make you happy.

You're cuckolding fetish is best left in the fantasy realm. Have a talk with her. See if there's any way to incorporate that with your bed room activities. Do not try to persuade her. Just see what she's open to doing.

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Experimentation

Big_smoke96:
I have been looking to experiment with this feeder kink for a while but I get the impression it's not one I can dip my toes in with ease.

Any insight/advice that anyone can offer?

Domme feeder here.

It really isn't that difficult to feed someone. On the more vanilla side, it can be as simple as making a big meal while to tell your feedee how happy their gluttony makes you. Massage and play with their belly too.

Is there something more specific you wanted to know?

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Deathfeedism

Louiefat:
I haven't heard anyone mention this but this is mostly a role-play experience. My partner is actually losing weight but when we're having sex we like to talk about how I'm gonna make her 700lbs and immobile. It's kind of like how most people into CNC don't actually want to be raped.

I have met people who want to do this for real. It isn't completely fantasy.

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I may have a weird case of body dysmorphia

Munchies:
Welcome back. We are happy you're here.

I'm curious. Have you spoken to a professional about your body issues? A therapist could be very helpful.

Thiccbell:
I am seeking therapy. Unfortunately our sessions are usually two or more months apart.

As a person who has struggled with body dysmorphia and depression, I just want you to know that you don't have to keep feeling like this. And that it can get better. Don't resign yourself to self-loathing.

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How big is your belly ?

23%

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Who are the doms and who are the subs?

Sfemde:
Definitely a sub, with a tendency to please and make others happy therefore.

Domme

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Stuffing for hours

Sam19:
I need advice for an all day stuffing. I wanna not throw up

I know many things about many things. I've done all day stuffings myself during my gainer days, and I've had my feedee do several too.

I think the most important thing is don't keep yourself at max levels of full. Eat to the point where you are stuffed, but still comfortable. Try to stay at that point all day. I personally recommend eating every two hours with lots of snacks in between.

If you wanna go out with a bang, have your last stuffing right before bed. Just eat as much as you can without feeling sick. Then let the food coma take you.

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Something you wanted to know before you started gaining

CustardCream:
Thank you Munchies!

My job is fairly active and physical, often moving weight around and walking maybe 3 - 8 miles a shift depending on needs. I probably need to work on my cardio, but whatever that is, has to be low impact as I smashed my right knee to bits 4 years ago, and I'm under doctors' orders to not doo high impact stuff.

What sort of lotions should I be using? I've not got a skin care routine, and have no idea what should be done! I never found my stretch marks to be itchy.

Munchies:

CustardCream:
Thank you again. I don't have a Fitbit, but I couldn't wear one, I can't stand things on my body like watches or lanyards (I'm gearing up to get tested for Autism) I do have a blood oxygen thingy though that reads the pulse. Usually 70 or so, but a few times its been 65, usually after a busy period at work, so I know I need to work harder to get the resting rate lower. As an aside, both Mum and I have 94% oxygen levels. This was first discovered when I smashed my knee up, but the doctors didn't find anything on the x-rays of concern. I don't think I breathe properly, especially when nervous/stressed at work.

Thank you for your tips on the lotion. I do have oily skin so that link gave me some pointers.

As an autistic woman, I understand. If you have something that checks your oxygen or pulse, that's good enough.

I'm glad the link helped!

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