Angy523:
Thank you, it looks like a good idea 😁 He already knows I don't like skinny guys and since I explained to him that I will always prefer a man with a belly than one with 6 packs and 60-70kgs he didn't tried to lose weight anymore. Idk if this was the reason or something else, but I'm happy he's not losing weight. It would be nice to gain some, but I hope it will happen soon. He's not doing any sport anymore (he used to) and started to eat fast food more often. Also he eats more snacks and sweets than he used to when he wanted to lose weight.
Next week he's coming to my place and will stay for a month, so I'm planning to talk to him and tell him about my preferences. Also, I'll make sure he will have enough snacks in the house and I'll try to cook his fav desserts. Maybe he will enjoy this 😋[/quote]
Oh, he's gonna get fat. His fate is sealed at this point. The only questions are how big and how fast.
He's no longer active and has developed a taste for fast food and sweets? Ma'am, if you cook all of his favorite foods and make him cum, he will get as big as you want him to get. It doesn't even matter if he's into the kink or not
He already wants to please you. First he kept his six pack for you. Then, he grew a belly for you. This man is smitten with you. And if you show him how good it feels to grow even bigger for you, he will stuff himself silly.
3 years
CustardCream:Thank you Munchies!
My job is fairly active and physical, often moving weight around and walking maybe 3 - 8 miles a shift depending on needs. I probably need to work on my cardio, but whatever that is, has to be low impact as I smashed my right knee to bits 4 years ago, and I'm under doctors' orders to not doo high impact stuff.
What sort of lotions should I be using? I've not got a skin care routine, and have no idea what should be done! I never found my stretch marks to be itchy.[/quote]
RIP about your knee man.
Yeah, cardio is a must for a lot of things. There's a lot of low impact cardio you can do. Heck, even walking quickly at your job counts so long as you sustain an elevated heart rate. If you don't have one, get you a fitbit or something similar.
As for the lotion:
Assuming you don't have allergies, there's a lot of different options for you to choose. Here's a helpful guide:
www.webmd.com/beauty/features/moisturizers,Sensitive%20skin.
3 years
CustardCream:
For me, I found that my capacity for food declined once I started to get bigger. Perhaps I should have forced my way through that, but I started with double cream and it helped.
If you are into stretch marks, the pure joy and euphoria I had when I found mine must have been the happiest of my life. Now I want more and deeper ones, but for me it mean't I had succeeded.
Good luck on your journey, and I hope it will be quicker than mine was!
Munchies:
Speaking as a very intense domme feeder, rapid weight gain is super sexy. But as someone who used to gain, I advise everyone to go at their own pace and let their body adjust to your new bulk. You gotta live in your body 24/7. It's best to be comfortable.
Since I know you aren't into health complications, please make sure to be somewhat healthy. Regular exercise helps offset some complications (and increase your appetite). Eating healthy foods also decreases some of those risks as well. (Junk food is fine so long as you don't live off of it.)
Don't become so goal oriented that you forget to enjoy the journey. Enjoy your food. Explore your body. Admire your growing form every chance you get.
Also, if you don't have any, get some lotion. Rubbing it on your belly after a good stuffing feels so nice. It's also good to regularly put on lotion to keep your skin soft and stretchable. It won't save you from the stretch marks, but it makes them less itchy.
Quink333:
Tbh i even tho i find it erotic i never understand how belly rubs can feel good.
Guess i need to try them
You do. You don't even need to be full and/or fat to enjoy them. It's basically a massage. You can give yourself one right now.
It's even better when your full. A good belly rub gets out all the trapped air and helps the food settle and digest. If you've really overdone things and stuffed yourself until you can't breathe, it also soothes your overstretched stomach muscles.
3 years
CustardCream:
For me, I found that my capacity for food declined once I started to get bigger. Perhaps I should have forced my way through that, but I started with double cream and it helped.
If you are into stretch marks, the pure joy and euphoria I had when I found mine must have been the happiest of my life. Now I want more and deeper ones, but for me it mean't I had succeeded.
Good luck on your journey, and I hope it will be quicker than mine was!
Speaking as a very intense domme feeder, rapid weight gain is super sexy. But as someone who used to gain, I advise everyone to go at their own pace and let their body adjust to your new bulk. You gotta live in your body 24/7. It's best to be comfortable.
Since I know you aren't into health complications, please make sure to be somewhat healthy. Regular exercise helps offset some complications (and increase your appetite). Eating healthy foods also decreases some of those risks as well. (Junk food is fine so long as you don't live off of it.)
Don't become so goal oriented that you forget to enjoy the journey. Enjoy your food. Explore your body. Admire your growing form every chance you get.
Also, if you don't have any, get some lotion. Rubbing it on your belly after a good stuffing feels so nice. It's also good to regularly put on lotion to keep your skin soft and stretchable. It won't save you from the stretch marks, but it makes them less itchy.
3 years
Thiccbell:
So I took a little break and I think I figured out something. way back before I was into the kink, I was going trough a very low point of my life with depression, devolving into hating myself. The fetish helped me accept my body for who I am. and I think my psyche and personality evolved a lot since then.
Thing is my self esteem and self image never changed. I still don't like my body nor the way I look, I just started using my chubby belly as a stress ball since its the only part that I can bear to look at in the mirror. So chances are that there are still things that I left unsolved just because my astonishment with growing tummies was so fervent.
as with most things I don't have much else to do about it except keeping ignoring this and let my life continue without ever really solving it. its not like its essential to my survival after all.
Welcome back. We are happy you're here.
I'm curious. Have you spoken to a professional about your body issues? A therapist could be very helpful.
3 years
It's not really about body positivity at all. It's about, from what I understand, relishing in all aspects of feedism to the extreme. This includes the positive and negative aspects.
I find it personally triggering, but there are a lot of people on this site that are into this as either fantasy or reality.
3 years
Quink333:
Fat femboys are the source of my joy.
There's nothing cuter than a fat boy with a nice little belly in his lap. Fleshy thighs and wide hips. A fat pad in the front that ideally hides sex and two balls of fat in the back. On the chest, two modest pouches of fat called breasts.
Ahhh I'm so gay for a fatties where you can't tell their gender
I'm a straight woman, but gender-ambiguous/girly bhms are just ...
3 years
Chubby Fatboy Blob:
Ive just been at this for a while with no luck and ive run out of ideas and at my wits end
This is sadly not specific to feedism. You are gonna run into time wasters. It doesn't matter who you are. It will happen. Heck, most people you run into won't be around for a long time.
My advice? Go slow. Don't give someone your devotion until they've earned out. Get to know a person before you deem them worthy of your efforts.
3 years
Spoop Skerry:
PS: is crotch a dirty word?
Munchies:
Sir, this is a fetish site.
Spoop Skerry:
I just meant in general, everyday use. I'm not gonna get banned for it, I know.
I know. I just had to do it to you, lol.
Imo, while crotch isn't a dirty word, it isn't one to be used it polite or professional company.
3 years
Bismarck1889:
For sure, and thanks for the advice. Insecurity doesn't have to mean you think your not good looking or anything, in my personal experience it's mostly been from similar feelings to what you described, i.e. feeling like I'm "too skinny" at times. Obv though I don't want to put words in your mouth, so if those feelings weren't from a place of insecurity specifically that's totally understandable.
I am aware, but I really was too skinny. I was underweight, prone to getting sick, and wasn't very strong. The smallest size in women's pants were too big for me.
I was never anorexic, but people often thought I was until they saw me eat. It was that bad.
I will say that once I finally slowed my metabolism down (or maybe it slowed itself down) I stopped getting sick as much. I went from getting sick at least once every three months to about once a year.
I also could find clothes that fit me well (I hate belts), and finally got some strength.
3 years
