Discord?

Cmffa:
Howdy y’all!
Curious if anyone has any suggestions for feederism centric Discord servers? I’ve joined a handful, but most seem kind of dead, which sucks because I’m looking to meet friends.

Otherwise, has FF considered making their own? I’m sure there are plenty of people here that use Discord and would like that.


Honestly, it would be more of the same.

Don't get me wrong. There are certain times when people are mega-chatty. Unfortunately, a lot of people on here are shit with communication and extremely boring.
4 months

Training yourself to permanently overeat/binge eat

Munchies:
Usually the damage it does to their internal organs, but an overall rapid decline in health paired with diminishing social lives usually does it.

Softernow:
Really scary that it could cause damage to the internal organs. What organs are usually affected?


The usual suspects: stomach, intestines, gall bladder, liver, kidneys.

In extreme cases, I've seen it cause spinal issues and nerve damage from the sudden rapid weight gain. There's a reason why I keep harping on certain things.
4 months

Training yourself to permanently overeat/binge eat

Morbidly A Beast:
just following your appetite and being consistent is more than enough to gain it doesn’t need to be cramming endless calories into your mouth some of us have actual stuffing fetishes we want to be miserabley full don’t conflate people who do 20k calorie feats with people who are just trying to gain, also no one does 20k calorie everyday consistently that would wreak absolute havoc on just about every aspect of your body.


And don't even get me started on the damage that will do to your wallet. A dollar don't spread as far as it used to. If you got a fat gut and a skinny wallet, that gut ain't gonna stay fat for long.
4 months

Design you dom or sub/ feeder or feedee

BellyNeedsStuffing:
This seems like a rather fun topic to spend some time on! Let's face it, most of us spend long enough daydreaming about it 😆

This could be fantasy, or in real life.

My feeder should be male, physically strong, ideally dark hair.
He should be dominant enough to tame me, but kind enough to love me.
He should enjoy tormenting me with my own senses.
He would train me and mould me into his perfect, fat, glutton.
He would manipulate my natural desire to please a dominant personality by making his high expectations clear.
He would enjoy weighing me, measuring my growth, and showing off his hard work.
He would enjoy watching me grow and feed myself into total oblivion.
He would be turned on by gluttony, by submission, and by physically dominating his fat, growing pig.
He would reward me well by fucking my brains out after every week of impressive growth, or stuffing that left me comatose.
He would edge me into desperation every time even the smell of food entered the area.

Oh its fun to daydream!! 🤤


I hope you find the feeder of your dreams
4 months

Tell me something good

Munchies:
My partner came up to me today asking my opinion on suspenders. He's belly heavy and belts don't cut it. But he's held off on getting them because he was scared of looking "like a grandpa".

Jokes on him. I think guys look dashing in suspenders.

Kacchan:
Lol - I get his take about "grandpa fashion", but honestly - I think suspenders look 🔥, especially with a well-fitted shirt. Tell him to check out the ones with Y braces for fit, and maybe do a quick search on "hidden" button fly suspenders (which go under the shirt instead of on top of it).


He bought them before he came to me. I'd like to think that means he felt confident I'd be supportive and just wanted emotional support.

He just wasn't expecting me to be into it.

The ones he got are the Y fit.

Here's a pic:

4 months

Tell me something good

My partner came up to me today asking my opinion on suspenders. He's belly heavy and belts don't cut it. But he's held off on getting them because he was scared of looking "like a grandpa".

Jokes on him. I think guys look dashing in suspenders.
4 months

What is the sexiest outfit to outgrow?

BigBallBellyGirl:
I'm not sure if this is the sexiest, but I did outgrow the custom wedding dress I'm supposed to wear in a few months. I could barely squeeze my arms into it when I pulled it over my head, and it was slicing into my underarms, when I tried it on again 2 weeks ago. My friend and I didn't try too hard to pull it down, because it became quickly apparent it wasn't going to make it over my bust and belly. I finally had to admit to myself I needed to find an alternative before I'm in a real bind.

After exploring a few options that didn't pan out, I found someone (a seamstress/designer) about an hour from me who agreed to help out. I explained my situation and also was clear that I'm a very heavy woman. I also shared pictures of several styles I like. She was extremely courteous and didn't seem phased a bit, so we set an appointment for me to come to her home.

I'm not sure why I was surprised she is very young (early 20s) but she was courteous and kind. Her little studio was lovely too, and I got to see some of her model styles as well as some things she is working on. We looked through the styles I shared with her, she had fabric samples ready, and she took my measurements. I brought my own tape, because I had a feeling hers might not be large enough even if she is a professional, but she actually had one. With the weight I gained before I had to stop, my bust is 68.5", and the biggest part of my belly is 112" standing. As she measured my girth, she first asked me to hold the measuring tape in front of me while she walked around me, but she quickly realized I can't reach the front of my belly, so she adeptly moved the end around to my side. I appreciated how discreet she was, but obviously, I wonder what she was thinking! I did share with her a challenge I have Is that my sitting girth is much bigger than standing, depending on how my belly rests, so she took that measurement too.

I think she works pretty quickly, because she said she'd have a design for me in 2 weeks, and hopefully a first cut in 6 to 8 weeks. At that point, I'll come back for a fitting.

My Maid of Honor was with me, and we had an interesting discussion on the way home about how I seldom ever get a rude body comment from gen z. I'm a young millennial myself, and my parents are boomers. I think about how freely my mother, her friends and my aunts would comment on my big tummy even when I was a young child. I don't know if younger people are less fatphobic, but I do think we are moving away, in large part, from openly fat shaming. Just a side observation!

On a humorous note, the designer initially offered me a seat on a beautiful, ornate chaise lounge. It looked like an antique possibly, and I wasn't positive it could take my weight. I said, "That's a beautiful piece of furniture. At my size though, I'm careful where I sit." She offered me a very sturdy wooden chair instead. 🤣


I hope your wedding dress is everything you hoped for and more.
4 months

Explaining away rapid weight gain to friends and family

Tightercollars:
im rapidly gaining alot of weight tho ive always been very tiny. ive been thinking about gaslight them about it bc its not that serious haha

Munchies:
If you look anything like your PFP, that's hilarious. Ain't no way they'd fall for it, but the attempt would be too funny.

Tightercollars:
ill take it as a compliment


Well, it certainly wasn't an insult. ♥
4 months

Tell me something good

AgaMcBees:
What's something good that happened to you today?
Getting off work early is my highlight.


Today was a peaceful day.

This is especially good seeing that the world is on fire lately.
4 months

Explaining away rapid weight gain to friends and family

Tightercollars:
im rapidly gaining alot of weight tho ive always been very tiny. ive been thinking about gaslight them about it bc its not that serious haha


If you look anything like your PFP, that's hilarious. Ain't no way they'd fall for it, but the attempt would be too funny.
4 months