Ditzy:
Kitsune I never suggested anything about you personally or your situation.
Claiming You were hurt by what was in my comments is a stretch so please do things like that.
All I did was relay something I went thru nothing more. It had nothing to do with you personally.
I do hope you can get your life sorted out and have a happy life.
I've seen reactions like this before. Hell, I used to
be this person back when I was being actively abused.
I might be preaching to the choir here, but when you are being abused, you end up bottling up all your negative emotions and exploding them where you feel it's safe. That might be towards yourself, strangers, or friends and family you deem safe. It's a way to gain some level of control over your life.