Looks like a big butt and a rather small chest for you. But like others say, you have to wait to see what happens.

Tell him you are tired of watching what you eat, and you don't mind getting fatter. See what his reaction is. If it is a bad reaction, you can say you weren't serious.

Only if they are large in proportion now. If you are an A cup, and have have a small butt, you probably won't get big there. If you are a C cup and don't have a flat butt, you may become large there. It's all genetics. Are your relatives busty and have big butts?

She has to decide how much (if any) and how fast she gains.

You really don't need to tell them about your sexual interests. You are under 200 pounds, so you have a long way until immobility. They will be able to see you are getting fat, and if you make it towards immobility, they will see that too.

Nothing slows the metabolism down more than dieting.

I am sure everyone would have a different take. But I would think that an encourager would be more into having the gainer do the feeding, where a feeder would be buying and feeding food to the gainer.

I know of one SSBBW who had her ice cream cone taken from her and thrown on the ground by a stranger telling her she did not need it.

Here is someone who really had their life ruined. She met a feeder and went from 200 something to 600 something. Her parents did not approve and let her know that, Her feeder left her when she couldn't gain anymore to find another feedee. She was unable to care for herself and had to move back with her parents who kept up with the "I told you so." She decided to have weight loss surgery, which is very risky. She died from it.

for women, it is a size 14