I'm not sure I fully understand the question. The most you can possibly gain in a day is probably around 0.5-1 lb, and you can't quite keep up a pace of 1 lb a day, day after day. So you can't wake up suddenly a whole lot heavier.

But at some point, I suppose you do start to discover that you're developing a more substantial gut. You look in the mirror and then, wow.

It feels different when you feel it in your hands and you haven't even stuffed yourself, or even had much to eat just yet.

I'm not even technically overweight yet, but I'm close.

Sometimes it feels like that's exactly what many here want to have.

A few times when I've tried to talk to some folks on here, they seemed to clam up when I try to ask them things about life, things they find fun (besides eating), and so on.

This is strictly anecdotal, and shouldn't be interpreted as a blanket statement. However, it's frustrating. The fact I like big women, or the fact I'm also trying to gain a little weight myself, is only a small part of me.

Gaining won't last forever, but hopefully the relationship (whether friends or romantic) does.

This isn't exactly over a single holiday season, but one I met again a few years later.

In high school, I remember a teacher I once had, and I guess she was new that year. Initially, I didn't think much of it. I never really spoke to any of my high school teachers outside of business, and when I left, I couldn't get away fast enough. Later, I forgot about most of them. I'm also convinced that anyone who willingly, even prefers teaching at the high school level is mentally ill and insane, but that's a topic and stories for another time.

However, I did see her at a bar a few years later, and it appears she gained a considerable amount of weight. It must have been at least 50 lbs, since if it was 20, I'm not sure if I would have noticed with staring to the point of being almost creepy.

That's where the story ends. I didn't ask if she had a kid, how her overall life is doing, or if she even worked at that school anymore. Just said "hello" and that's about it; I had nothing to say to her. Or for that matter, any current or former high school teacher who taught at that level willingly (as opposed to desperation and those were the only such teaching jobs available). Such a turn off.


There were no other such stories from my college days, and they were teachers I may have talked to again for one reason or another. The thinner ones remained as such, and that fat ones stayed the same amount of fat.

In a similar vein, when in college I once did meet a college student who gained from 125ish to 175ish in about a year, and she seemed completely unashamed of this and not the least bit apologetic. She also had what seemed like a lot of frozen pizza in the fridge, though that alone isn't going to explain the gain. I only noticed the pizza in the fridge because of a house party that was at her place.

Unfortunately, she was also an unpleasant individual and didn't like me, which meant there was no potential for me to try starting a relationship. Instead, I had nothing to do with her. That was the only individual I met in person who both gained a considerable amount of weight, even mentioned the weight, and wasn't apologetic.

Kind of. It's been a slow process, but so far it seems that the older I get, the bigger and heavier I would like her to be.

It's not a hard and fast rule, but I know I will be quite disappointed if she doesn't weigh at least 200 lbs and is solidly plus size. When I was a teenager, I would have been content if she had probably 25 extra pounds for just that slight little bit of extra thickness.

However, I think it's due, at least in large part to the amount of self denial I had to overcome from that time, and even into my early 20s. That I really do prefer big women, and I don't mean a size 10 or 12. So I'm not sure if anything really changed at all.

There was also considerably less size acceptance in general around that time, so it seemed harder. Stores didn't have any plus size mannequins, and fewer clothing brands had sizes above 12.

Nowadays, there's so many fat people that it doesn't stick out anymore. There is no real shame. It's the bone skinny who stick out now.

You say he's not your type, but are you sure?

You seem to be paying a fair bit of attention to his body. Not saying you should be a homewrecker though; that's bad.

Is his girlfriend/wife an FFA as well, or perhaps a BBW?

It's a pretty well known fact that being in an LTR with a fat woman is likely to be a fattening experience, unless he's already fat. So if she's fat, there's a good chance he'll continue to expand and get even fatter.

1, 2, 3, and 6.

1. Fattening food is often the most delicious, so of course I want it.

2. I love eating more. When I eat more food, so I can gain more enjoyment from the taste. When I start to get full I actually get a little disappointed, because I'd like to eat more. Creamy shakes are also quite delicious.

3. For a long time I was far too thin, and I had a really weak appetite. For a long time I lacked the courage to change this, but after gaining some weight I like it. I want to gain some more.

I'm also trying to increase my appetite so I can eat more in one sitting.

Curiously enough, I feel more manly, bolder, and more confident with the weight I've gained. Most men are overweight, and the average white man in the U.S. now weighs 200 lbs. So it's better if you can weigh closer to there, or more. There's no discernible advantage to being a skinny man.

If you look too athletic like a Chippendale (I never did, I just mean in general), I figure this means you live in the gym, which means you probably don't have a job.

4. I know that what was meant by this was hating a restricted diet that consists of boring, tasteless food that doesn't satisfy, in an attempt to lose weight. I have never attempted such a diet, but I hate the thought of it.

However, diet just means what you eat. I for one love having a diet that consists of fattening, savoy, tasty foods and more of them.

5. This doesn't yet apply, I'm single.

6. Hell yes it has been erotic. I actually get slightly turned on when I overeat. I try to count calories and it's hot when I know I have went past the requirements, which means each extra bite, every morsel, every gulp will, in whatever small way, cause me to expand and grow heavier. To feel bolder and more confident.

7. It really does look better. Skinny women look more frail, whether they are or not. I really do prefer some meat. Gaining enough weight will also make it easier for me to get a larger woman.

Oh no... 36% of the weight is dairy fat. The rest is water, I think. But you are right in the sense that 100% of cream's calories is because of the fat.

Link to Wikipedia that has a table of various liquid dairy products and the milkfat content for each to be marketed as such:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cream

Though of the five items listed on that table, the only products I've seen for sale are half and half and heavy whipping cream.

If you scroll up a little bit on that link, you'll see a similar table for the UK.

As mandated by the FDA, the Roese-Gottlieb method appears to be used to determine milkfat content in the U.S., where it measures by weight. I'm not sure what method the UK uses. The correct section of the Food Labelling Regulations of 1998 in the UK is not immediately apparent, and I don't currently have time to read the entire thing.

The following link describes the Roese-Gottlieb method:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cream

What? Heavy cream in the U.S. is typically 36% fat, though yes it's 100 calories for every fluid ounce.

There's something called manufacturing cream, which is 40% and 120 calories for every fluid ounce, but I don't know of any shops that sell it.

In the UK and much (all?) of the EU, there's something called "double" cream, which is 48% but so far as I know, isn't available anywhere in North America. It's also the most calorie dense substance that's still a liquid and sort of drinkable. Oil isn't drinkable.

It's also important to note that fat can take longer to digest. It's one reason I tell folks to go high on the fat in the evening, so they can sleep it off. If you have a lot of fat in the morning, this may cause you to snack less and cause fewer calories to be consumed.

While it's true that fat is indeed more calorie dense per gram than carbs, it's not as simple as that.

I'm almost convinced that most fatties into feederism know almost as much about nutrition as a dietician or nutritionist, as they often study how to fatten up, or fatten others up the most effectively.

I'm surprised you've kept that up so far for 3 whole days.

Most folks can't manage a quart day after day, every day. Or, they have to build up to it. Myself, I find it difficult to drink more than a pint. But, you are starting off larger which may be part of it. I've found that after gaining about 30 lbs, a pint of cream goes down easier than it did before.

If you really can keep that up every day for 3 weeks, I expect a slow gain for the first week, and then you will really blow up and gain a significant amount of weight. There's another thread here that talks about a delay effect.

There have also been many anecdotal reports regarding how dairy fat has a more significant effect on your limbs and your ass, than your abdomen. While this does depend on genetics, I expect you to thicken all over. If you have a thigh gap, you will have either a much smaller thigh gap or it will be completely gone.

Some have also reported developing almost an addiction to the cream. More psychological though, no physical withdrawal symptoms.

Sometimes really do look forward to drinking one of my heavy cream shakes after making myself full from dinner, which takes some more food than before. It's to the point that I make sure there's always cream I can drink, which lately I've been trying to do 3-4 times a week.

If your clothes are already tight now, I think you should go shopping for new clothes now, before it's too late. I would expect that you will soon find yourself with an extra couple inches around your waist, ass, and thighs, and at least another inch around your arms.

The recipe for my heavy cream shake is so simple, it isn't really a shake but it's basically the recipe for chocolate fondue. 1 pint of cream to half a cup of chocolate sauce, like Ghirardelli. Or 4 parts cream to 1 part chocolate sauce. Mix with a straw that you will later use to drink it. If you like milkshakes, I think you will love this, except it's over twice as fattening.

If you find the chocolate sauce hard to mix, as you might if you store the leftover sauce in the fridge, microwave it for about 25 seconds before you mix in the cream.

Skip the chocolate milk, since it seems milk has a tendency to go sour and bad. Probably because over here, it's only pasteurized whereas cream and half & half are ultra pasteurized.

Eventually, you should be able to work up to a pint of cream to half a cup of chocolate sauce (e.g. Ghirardelli). Stir it with the same straw that you will use to drink it. Not chocolate syrup like Hershey's since that seems to be hard to mix in. I'm not sure why that is.

That's 20 fl. oz., the same size as a large Starbucks coffee and there's just over 2,000 calories in it, and you can suck it down through a straw. It's so sinfully delicious, basically the recipe for chocolate fondue only you're drinking it, and if you drink that almost every day, you are going to get so fat.

If you drink that even somewhat regularly, you should start planning on larger clothes, because you're going to need them.


If this recipe seems to rich and high fat at first, you can start off with half & half, that pretty much almost anyone should be able to drink straight.

Slightly off topic, but you should also give up milk and drink half & half any time you may otherwise drink milk.