Anyone else fantasize about all this? outgrow seating and more.

TheUltimate323:
I am not fat and I have never been, however now I am starting to gain weight and be a fat person. I have certain fantasies in my head that I imagine myself experiencing one day and they turn me on a lot.

Having to occupy two seats instead of one. For example, arriving at a waiting room, and while everyone else only occupies one seat, I arrive with my fat body and my butt sticks out when I sit down, needing two seats. This turns me on a lot.

Having to go shopping for clothes in plus size stores. The fantasy of thinking that one day I will be so fat that I can no longer go to conventional clothing stores and I have to go to stores for plus size people. I compare the pants I wore when I was thin and the ones I wear now when I am obese and you can see a lot of size contrast.

What do you think about it? Anyone else fantasize that?


My partner is a very large man - about 430 with a peak of 500. He's not two seats wide, but there's other fun things he's experienced because of his size. For example:

Replacing a metal bed frame due to the legs starting to buckle.

Sitting at a restaurant and having the chair collapse under you.

Breaking a shower door to squeeze inside.

Being unable to close the door in a tiny bathroom because he was too big to fit inside fully.
4 months

Necroposting question

Munchies:
Hey all!

I've noticed an uptick in necroposting lately, and I'm curious as to why. When I say necroposting, I'm specifically talking about posting to threads that have been dead for a year or more.

I've seen people necropost to personal ads long after OP left. I've seen people bump 14 year old threads where the majority of the users either deleted or are no longer on the site. Just last night, someone bumped a 4 year old post to leave personal medical data.

This is not a call out post. I'm genuinely curious as to why you do what you do.

I appreciate all of your responses!

Enas:
Well, ill suggest the first thing that comes to mind: statistical anomaly.


Okay, but that doesn't answer my question. It just acknowledges that necroposting is a thing. Yeah, most people don't do it, but it still happens.
4 months

Ensure drinks

ILuvChubbyChix:
First of all, are you sure? I think you may have read the label incorrectly.

Ensure Plus, and any of it's related knock-off products, are about 350 calories per bottle, which contains 1 cup (8 fluid ounces, about 237 mL).

There is something called Boost VHC (Very High Calorie) that's 530 calories per 1 cup bottle, but it's extremely expensive for what you get, at a staggering more than $2 USD per bottle. I'm about 99.99% sure there is no product of a similar type that has a higher calorie density than that.

What you described would contain 580 calories per cup, which so far as I know doesn't exist. If you can provide a link to the exact product in question, I would be very curious. I feel like if such a thing were to exist, I would already know about it.

That said, I do like Equate Plus, which is Wal-Mart's knock-off brand of Ensure Plus. I know Wal-Mart doesn't exist in the UK, but the point is I'm familiar with those types of products. For any American readers, Kroger also has a similar knock-off product called Fortify Plus, which is almost as cheap as Equate Plus.

Not really an answer, but more of an idea. One very simple recipe is to mix 1 cup of Ensure with 1 cup of heavy cream (or double cream in the UK). Stir with a straw, then enjoy. It tastes kind of like a melted milkshake, except thicker and less sweet.

The catch of doing so, is it can have an effect of suppressing appetite, which is why I say to only have it before going to sleep.

It's also a pretty high fat diet, so you might not want to do that every day, although I think you'll find yourself skipping some days.

I also must emphasize, for anyone reading, that most of your calories should not come from these sources. Also, for some reason, it seems to work best shortly after you ate something. So for example, drinking this after eating say, a couple double burgers or a proper meal yields better results.

In 2023, I gained about 20 lbs. While I don't know if I can credit this exclusively to these shakes, but they likely helped.

Anyway, if you drink these straight, not mixed in with anything, at least the chocolate flavored ones, can taste a lot like chocolate milk, though might be slightly oily, and quite sweet, maybe almost too sweet. I don't know how many of those you can drink in one sitting, though I'd expect anywhere between 2 to even 4 of them shouldn't be too hard.

88BeckyBB:
My bad I’m forgetting myself these that I have are the fortisip compact which are 306 Cals in a 125ml bottle I was thinking as part of my meals as a cheeky extra pudding hehe


As a general rule of thumb, don't go crazy with those kinds of drinks.

Nutritional drinks are made for those struggling to get all the nutrients they need for one reason or another. As such, they are chock full of protein, vitamins and minerals.

I know I usually harp on people to get more nutrition in you, but it is possible to get too much.

At first, it won't be a big deal. Your body largely pisses out what it doesn't need. But over time, you can end up with things like vitamin toxicity or your kidneys shut down from consuming too much protein.

This is one of the reasons gainers that use this method either drink it occasionally or in small amounts over time.
4 months

Necroposting question

Hey all!

I've noticed an uptick in necroposting lately, and I'm curious as to why. When I say necroposting, I'm specifically talking about posting to threads that have been dead for a year or more.

I've seen people necropost to personal ads long after OP left. I've seen people bump 14 year old threads where the majority of the users either deleted or are no longer on the site. Just last night, someone bumped a 4 year old post to leave personal medical data.

This is not a call out post. I'm genuinely curious as to why you do what you do.

I appreciate all of your responses!
4 months

Necroposting

Kitsune:
On an old account, I created a thread about finding the original photo of a magazine photo. Which consists of a famous BHM celebrity in a suggestive pose. It isn't lost media per say. However, the existing copy so far is a low quality phone capture found on Pinterest.

As of now, I think I found the lead to the photo. A few days back I was curiously looking up magazines of said celebrity and there was similar photos in a magazine. Which I think is where my holy grail came from since the style is pretty similar.

Now, enough with my rambling and onto the topic. I was wondering what is considered necroposting? I know it is frowned upon here to revive dead posts. I thought of bringing back my old post about the aforementioned findings and personally to me I think it should be ok because I am the original poster. Afterall, I've seen this happen in the Lost Media Wiki where people who find new leads update their threads.

It makes me ask a question. What is considered old? When is the discussion officially over?

There doesn't seem to be a dead-set rule regarding necroposting. But then again I have never read the TOS. If there isn't a rule, I hope it get implemented that way we won't make any mistakes. Maybe users can share a link to their previous blog in their new post that way people can get the context.

Also I think there should be a pinned thread about the rules of necroposting. Just make sure the tone is friendly for us ND folks.

FF Team:
In my opinion, posting on an old thread means you might miss the full context due to deleted posts from inactive accounts, which can take away some of the nuance. I don’t necessarily frown upon it, and it’s not technically against the website rules, but since there’s no limit to posting on forums, why not just start a new thread? You can always link to an older thread and reference it if you think it’s relevant using the forums bbcode.

c00kie
FF Team


My thoughts exactly. Sure, it's not hurting anyone, but why do it at all?

I saw at least 4 threads that a mod locked for necro posting on account of people replying to personal ads ages after OP deleted their account.
4 months

How to get bad skin?

Kitsune:
I tried looking for options on Reddit. Most responses says therapists would rather talk than write or text since it isn't deemed as professional. I wish us patients can write first that way we can get comfortable once we feel read to see eachother face to face.

Enas:
I would only advice you to prepare before hand, meaning, dont wait for the session to think about your thoughts, do that in your free time & write down stuff! Then give that to the therapists! It will be very helpfull i think!

Kitsune:
Thanks for the idea. I hope it all goes well once I find my therapist.

I am still hurt by Ditzy's comment. I have been SA'd as a kid/teen and abused. Bullied a lot at school as well. Yet I never say people won't survive what I went through. Why the hell would anyone want to go through with that? Don't get me wrong I do feel bad for her but it's like she's implying our lives aren't as flawed and we live in perfect worlds. Just rubbed me the wrong way. I am already in a abusive relationship with my dad. If only I had the courage to tell her that


Hun, you are spiralling. Breathe for a moment.

Do you have any coping mechanisms or ways to self soothe?
4 months

In awe of our own before and after pics

HappyBigBelly:
Like most encouragers here, I love seeing people’s pics from before they got fat, and then admiring their progress. I have to say I’m in awe of mine and my wife’s gain through the years.

I was quite the skinny guy until my 30s and had no belly at all. My ball belly grew during that time to what it is today. I’m in amazement how it’s gone from visible ribs to a big ball of visceral fat :-)

My wife was quite petite when she was a preteen. Then genetics and her first two pregnancies came and her weight blew up immensely. She’s always loved showing off her shoulders, even way back when. One pic has her wearing a strapless halter with these cute little bony shoulders back then. Literally gained about 150 pounds by the time she was 22 and went from just having large breasts to having a humongous belly and soft, luscious arms and legs :-) Neither of us looks like the same person in our befores and afters :-)

Anyone else look someone completely different in their afters?


I used to be a gainer. I went from having supermodel proportions to being thick, muscular, and curvy. I'm very proud of what I achieved.

I also enjoy my partner's before and after.

Mind you, he was always a big guy. But he is a lot jigglier than he used to be. I love his rolls and stretch marks.
4 months

How to get bad skin?

Kitsune:
I hate myself. I am an evil person.

Enas:
Why do you hate yourself?

And what do you think an evil person is?

Kitsune:
Because I misunderstood the post and I think I was being selfish. Even though I was just depressed and I myself have an abusive dad. I am afraid Ditzy was making it seem like I was a wealthy person when everyday I have to work at a physical job while everyone hates me and make not as much money. Now I am planning to run away to Seattle and live with my dad's relatives that way I can risk having a happy life. I even thought of doing self harm days ago when I got in trouble in the office for falling asleep at work. I didn't have the courage to tell them my troubled life at home. I wish I was a famous animator and fullfill my dreams. That's what preventing me from killing myself.

As for why I think I am an evil person. I have mentally hurt people in the past and I have got into arguments online. I am terminally ill because I don't have many friends and I am all alone. I rarely go out. The internet is my only escape.


I fail to see how any of this makes you evil. If anything, these are your abusers' words in your ear.
4 months

Fit female feeders fantasies

Blue Gaia:
I was just wondering how many fit and petite women on this website love fat men. I’m one of them. What are your fantasies about it?


I'm fit, but not petit. I do love me a fat man.

I don't have fantasies with them on account of I do them in real life.
4 months

How to get bad skin?

Ditzy:
In my case having a husband that controlled everything in your life from what time you got up in the morning to the time you went to bed is enough to make spite a very strong thing.
I was his "trophy wife".
I had to dress to the nines any time I went out with him and even if I went to the grocery.
If I failed to do exactly as he ordered he would slap me around and call me horrible names.
I doubt any of you ladies here would put up with that.
My spite was not really self harm to me but to his ego.
I knew it was temporary.


Eh, what do I know? I've never been in an abusive relationship. My mom raised me in one, but I handled it by holding a steak knife to his throat.

That said, I was talking more about OP, who has since deleted her post.
4 months