Actually, you can probably make up phrases, and people would understand. Things like "a growing friendship," or "someone who likes gain a fun time." Just use words such as grow or gain. It gets past the censors.

Sounds like another "I'm taking my marbles and going home" post.

There is another problem too. I remember when KellyGirl was popular in the feeding community, no matter what weight she was, everyone commented on how she will look so much better when she gains more. That must be frustrating to always be under a "perfect" weight.

Those terms are used more in certain areas. In Baltimore MD, they are used a lot. I noticed here in Southern NJ, they are used in Gloucester County, but not the other ones.

Anything new happening? Still seeing her?

Saying that someone is too thin, and saying they are too thin for their preferences, are two different things. It is rude to say that someone is too anything. However, people are allowed to have their preferences. But people should be civil about stating their preferences.

I don't see why everyone is so pessimistic about this. Finding someone with a very strong physical attraction can lead to something serious. And even if it doesn't, it can be a lot of fun. People are more willing to bend if they really want the relationship to work.

Not all people get all side effects from medicines.

I think it is usually best to keep feederism a secret from one's family and friends. You can just make statements that you are happy fat, but you don't have to say that you are gaining on purpose.

I would keep it going. If it works out, and you can't come to some agreement or compromise on the live for today thing, then at least you have a friend and a F*** buddy. It sounds like she wants to gain more weight,