For lack of any answers yet....but I assume you may have thought of this. Set an appt. or find out from friends of a Fat friendly place to wax or groom tht area.

Don't women do this all the time?????

Exactly......I have always liked these.

I remember one I think it was Hydroxycut many years ago with a tan doing dark haired woman in a red bikini walking up from the beach. She wasn't Fat by my standards at all but looked great but she probably was carrying 30 extra Lbs. in the before video vs. the current.

I though she looked so sexy in the before but wanted her to gain another 30-50 Lbs. from there to make her really Hot.

Anyone remember this commercial....it may have been a print ad as well.

Well...with my wife.

When I was intentionally gaining a while back and eating a ton my wife was following along with me and we would eat some great huge fattening meals every night followed by huge bowls of ice cream and other fattening deserts.....I usually washed it down with several huge glasses of milk (Love milk for the extra distending of the gut after already full to the max). After showers we would get to bed and our sex was so amazing always being so full, bloated and getting fatter day by day. At this point I wasn't aware that my wife liked the bigger bellied me....but the sex was amazing and she couldn't seem to get enough with our bellies squishing and bouncing off one another having to maneuver a bit more to get deep penetration because of our bloated fat bellies getting in the way. She would tell me to get on top of her missionary after her being on top for a while because she said she liked to feel my weight on her...(Is this a thing with you girls?) because up until then I didn't even think she liked me being bigger. Like both of you....we both began to crave being stuffed and bloated before sex.....although we generally have sex at night it seems and by then both of us were always stuffed and bloated back then.

Yea I know what you mean. I think it's a kind of a elephant in the room kind of thing. My wife has done this for years mostly in front of her girlfriends (when I have been around) after she has gained a good amount of weight. She doesn't do it with the subtle 5-10 Lbs. that I know a lot of women do just to get reassurance or a compliment that they are not to Fat but she does it with a 20-30 Lb. gain. After not seeing them for a long time she will look for an opportunity to work her weight gain into the conversation...and a lot of the time it seem's it is centered around food or especially desert which they all know she has a huge sweet tooth. As we are serving food buffet style she will almost over emphasize the amount she takes and say something like, "it's not like I skip any meals as she piles on a huge amount on her plate" or when a friend asks her for desert she would say "I will have one of each and make it a big slice" when they are cutting a cake or pie. Then comment, it's not like I won't eat all of this.....as she put's a bite to her mouth and moans so seductively. She kind of put's it out there to her friends like ....yea I have gotten Fat again as if to let them know she is well aware she is Fat and this is how she got Fat again.

Like you said it drives me crazy with arousal when I see this. But to most people it's just kind of funny or a joke.

of course....it can be shocking

unfortunately I think people can notice with certain clothing speaking for myself.

In certain looser type t shirts I have even glanced at myself and can totally tell there is softer fatter moobs. After I had intentionally gained a lot of weight ......my wife came up to me after dinner for a smooch (she was slightly intoxicated) and then grabbed and jiggled both of my moobs ......up until that point I didn't even realize they had turned into soft fat moobs.

Not really a Fan of mine!

It is kind of crazy because I have lifted weights for so many years that now when I don't work out for a month my pecs turn soft and even find much accumulated fat below my armpits as well.

I happened to catch myself in the mirror the other day while sitting and turning slightly and my moob on the side I was turning looked like a soft Fat D cup breast hanging to the side. I am not a fan but with that said if my wife were to like them I might find a way to get into them as well. I feel kind of embarrassed that they became so soft and Fat without lifting for only a month.

I think your right! I will throw out a quick list some the same and a few others.

* Confidence (Not overly confident but confident)
* Humor
* Hygiene
* Clothing (nicely dressed, especially nice shoes)
* Good conversationalist
* Attentive

These are a few.....there are definitely more. Remember women think ahead and if they plan on dating you more than once they think ahead and they assume that you must show up good in front of their friends as well. So to get the highest percentage of potential women you must do all the necessary things.

Speaking of my wife in this example: I will speak of her *ahem*. As she has gained she has accumulated a slight hanging belly that sticks way out in front of her now, with a defined belly crease directly above her new puffier slight Fupa....which is so damn sexy. Her outer lips have become much puffier ( I mean a lot) almost swollen looking but very soft to the touch. I literally love the new appearance as well as love the difference in fuller softer feel. I guess you can say it feels tighter but in a soft "suction cup" type way......definitely not looser. Definitely nothing for you to worry about.....it is so much better.....trust me. She happens to be much more sensitive in that area, gets aroused much easier, gets wetter much faster and seems to not only enjoy sex more but seems to crave sex more. She happens to wear tight designer jeans quite a bit when she isn't working and wearing her dress pants. Both of which her lower belly and her *ahem* really fills up her pants in such a sexy full way....not that you can see anything but it is much more full in there if you know what I mean......so damn so sexy.

I hope so! I just dream of her getting to a size or weight and her eating takes over where she just continues to gain and there is no stopping her.