Why do you think so many feeders become feedees?

Since I've come to FF, I've found a lot of people (mostly men) who started out as feeders and either became mutual gainers or strictly feedees.

I'm a feeder, but I started off as a gainer. When I see my feedee pig out, I know what he's feeling because I've felt it. But I don't miss it because I've already finished my journey. Plus making him fatter feels so much better than anything I did to myself.

But most people haven't gone that route. I think they see their feedee enjoying their hedonism and crave that for themselves. Then that 5 or 10 lbs they planned on becomes 50 and growing.
3 years

Transgender and gaining

Gorochu:
Fun fact, don't panic if you lose weight at some point, you are going to lose muscle mass.

May your transition goes as smooth as the curves you'll grow!


That actually depends on how active you are while you gain.

You can gain both muscle and fat at the same time. You can also maintain it as well. Body composition is truly fascinating.

While you don't need to get buff, I do recommend all feedees and gainers to have at least enough muscle to lug yourself around.

Also, cardio is important for heart health - something to keep in mind as you grow.
3 years

How recommendable would it be to take contraceptives for women to enlarge the breasts?

Danieeelo:
How advisable would it be to take contraceptives to enlarge the breasts?


It's a waste of time. Yes, contraceptives cause breast growth, but it's temporary, and the change isn't dramatic.

And do not take more than the prescribed dose as you will run into complications.

For more information on the subject, check this out:

www.healthline.com/health/birth-control/does-birth-control-make-your-boobs-bigger
3 years

First feeder experience

Mikk707:
Thank you so much for all the great advices, I’ll make sure to buy double the amount

We agreed to go shopping for snacks of her choice, but I’ll make sure what ever she orders at McDonald’s I’ll order two of them

And perfect, I’ll make sure to not only rub her belly but all over, and should I wait until she’s almost finished eating to pleasure her ?


Depends on her. I personally prefer to edge my feedee until he's about done or finished eating. I also enjoy making him cum as much as I can, but that may be too much for a first time.
3 years

Fashion help needed - looking for short-sleeve, bodycon jumpsuits, preferably 3x+

Not making a recommendation, but I assume you mean something like this:

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3 years

Fashion help needed - looking for short-sleeve, bodycon jumpsuits, preferably 3x+

Zora:
I don't like wearing anything with a waistband, so I wear bodysuits as underwear as well as an undershirt.

When I weighed 269 pounds, I noticed that I was experiencing skin irritation from skin-on-skin contact on the back of my knees. I think I'm going to need to switch from a bodysuit to a bodycon jumpsuit, but I'm having difficulty finding what I'm looking for.

I just need a basic, figure-hugging jumpsuit, with a top that looks like a regular t-shirt. I would prefer it have short sleeves, and a plain, flat design. The colors can be either black or white.

I have been amazed at my inability to find a jumpsuit that fits these requirements. It's as if it's too plain compared to what's on the market.

Does anyone have any good plus-size online stores they would recommend? I tried Fashion Nova, Lane Bryant, and Torrid. None of them had what I was looking for.


A *plain* jump suit that looks like a basic t-shirt on the top? And is figure hugging? In *women's* fashion?


You'd have an easier time finding women's jeans with useful pockets.

Most women who wear form fitting jumpsuits are looking to be flashy. So brands will sell things for flashy people.

Jumpsuits that are more practical tend not to be form fitting.

You may want to switch gears and check out the sportswear section instead.
3 years

First feeder experience

Mikk707:
I found the one, she amazing and even wants to try letting me stuff her silly and rub her belly, but I’ve never tried to do it before, any advice for a noob ?


Congrats! I'm happy for you!
For you're first time, I recommend going the sweet and caring route.

Make sure you get all her favorites. Find out how much she normally eats and get at least double.

Ask her before hand if she wants to feed herself, have you hand feed her, or some combination of the two. Also ask her if she's okay with being pleasured while she eat.

Make sure she's comfy - perhaps even put on some music. Have all the food in easy reach.

Worship her while she eats. Don't just rub her belly. Rub her anywhere she lets you - make her feel good. Tell her how honored you are that she's letting you do this. That you want to make her feel good.

Go at her own pace. If she taps out, that's fine. The first session should be about finding her limits and figuring out what she likes.
3 years

Transgender and gaining

Ditzy:
Try to not say the word like so much.
Not being mean or putting you down but people say that word too much and in sentences where it doesn't belong grammatically.

Happy gaining !!

Sburbsiee:
Totally fair. I’ve been mostly focused on other things so I wasn’t thinking about my writing.


A few things come to mind:

If you have a high metabolism, it can be hard to start gaining. This is normal. Once you figure out what works for you, it will get easier.

Take care of yourself. Getting fat doesn't mean you can't eat healthy foods or exercise. You can, and you should. If you build healthy habits during your gaining journey, you'll face fewer complications as you get bigger. Nothing will cap a gain faster than health issues.

Adjust your gaining to your wallet. Getting fat is expensive. There's the cost of food, clothing, and other various things that might pop up depending on how big you get and how you gain weight.

Have fun. Don't get so caught up in gaining weight that you forget to enjoy your body. And don't let other people put their expectations on you.
3 years

Transgender and gaining

Sburbsiee:
Like stuff people wish they had known I guess


Looking for trans-specific stuff? Or general weight gain stuff? I can help with the second. No clue on the first.
3 years

Transgender and gaining

Sburbsiee:
Hey y’all,
I’ve been transitioning for a little over 2 years and I finally decided to gain properly. Due to medication side effects (not related to HRT) I’ve already gained 50 lbs. Do y’all have any recommendations for like survival tips or fat survival guides. Thanks!


What do you mean by "survival"?
3 years