Totally agree with you. It's difficult enough to find a partner who you get on really well with, if you try to hold out for someone who also has the same fetish as you it's nigh on impossible, especially with feeding where only a few people are into it.

My partner doesn't have exactly the same fantasies as me, but we indulge each other in our various kinks and it works out great. I've found with feeding and weight gain the fantasy is as much in the mind as in reality as she can turn me on massively just by pushing my buttons without actually gaining a pound.

The only thing I would say it that she is a BBW and this it critical. I've dated slim women and despite trying with great effort it hasn't worked out, for me I have to be physically attracted to my partner as a starting point.

Yeah it's a bug. Thanks for pointing this out. I'll get onto this once I've finished the chat updates.

Sorry about that. It should now be fixed

Many of your older avatars have been re-sized to fit in with the new profiles format.

This means that it may have been enlarged making it less clear or part of it may have been cropped.

I've tried to re-size the avatars in the best way possible, cropping from the center outwards etc. and most of the avatars should have turned out fine.

If however you don't feel your avatar looks quite right the way around this is to upload a new one. Many of the older avatars were uploaded over ten years ago, so perhaps this may be a good time for an update, unless of course you're particularly well preserved

Text chat crashed but should be working again now.

I'm pleased that you like it overall, it's not like the other chat so takes getting used to but a few more people seems to be using it now.

As you say it still needs some tweeks. I'm planning to have another session working on it shortly which will hopefully sort some of the more major bugs.

I've just fixed a bug in the Who's Viewed Me section that was causing some users to disappear from the list and also giving the wrong number of total views. It was showing the total number of views of all profiles, instead of the total number of views for your profile only. To fix this I've had to reset the total number of views back to 1, so from today each time a user views your profile it will start to increment again. It does mean that any views by that user before today will not show in the total.

Forget whether it's cheating or not since this is just a word, and what might be considered cheating in one relationship might be ok in another. It depends on the type of relationship you have and the understanding between you. So the issue is more like would you're partner would be upset if they found out. In your case I guess they would or you wouldn't have asked if it was cheating in the first place.

Yup, it just stops them contacting you.