Chimneychonga:
Male attraction works a bit differently. Although I can appreciate someone with intellect and personality, sometimes that doesn't translate to the guy downstairs. Believe me, ED wouldn't be a problem if that's what all guys needed, much to women's chagrin.
I guess my thought is, if a fetish is interfering with your life to the point where you can’t have a normal relationship with a partner, and if that’s a problem (it might not be), sex therapy might be a solution. Maybe I’m wrong, but finding a partner who checks all the boxes (except physical looks) and who ALSO doesn’t want a sexual relationship might be a tall order. I mean, if someone told me they loved me and wanted an intimate relationship but they were unable to have sex with me because of how I look … idk. Not saying they don’t exist, but it’s an extra hurdle.
1 year
X_Larsson:
Kind of a serious question...
In my daily life, I see virtually ZERO women I am attracted to, and it is primarily their looks/size/body type I am not appreciating, but often also their personality, morale or view on life.
However, occasionally I meet a woman with whom I share at least some intellectual and psycological common ground, and where things are fun and drama free.
Soooo.... If the first option is to NOT date at all (as in never finding a feedee of suitable age and personality), is it better to set upp some semi-platonic date with an otherwise suitable woman, even if she is not fat, feedee, foodie, or gainer?
I am not talking about some sort of fake sexual relationship (yuk), but about enjoying the romantic side of things, but with no assumption it will lead to sex.
Yeah, that was the odd scenario... Are there aspects of mental health, self preservation and sanity that can be so vital that they outweigh (I had to write it) the consequences around not being sexually compatible? At least not when entering into the dating phase?
Or is it even worse to actively setup a relation that is a fast track to some sort of "friend zone".
Are you saying you can’t have a sexual relationship with a person you’re compatible with and are attracted to in many (of the most important) ways, like their personality and intellect? What if this woman wants a sexual relationship with you?
1 year
Eyez:
I'm 190 lbs and my appetite keeps growing the more it grows the more I eat and all I wanna do is stuff my face
And when in full I get hungry again an hour later
And when I have a bag of chips I just wanna sit down and eat all of them at once
Letters And Numbers:
Definitely not normal. And definitely don’t look at any of the other threads on here with people saying the exact same thing. All an illusion.
Eyez:
Too late
I guess you just need to finish the bag of chips now.
1 year
LydiaFatOttter:
We already have a verification system why is the verification logo not more visible around the site
That’s a good point.
1 year
Stevita:
Probably my biggest comfy fantasy is having a feeder/feedee picnic outdoors, with a basket full of all their favorites, maybe some wine, compete with talking, joking and cuddling on the blanket out in the outdoors.
For solo ideas: I'm a feeder not a feedee, but even I like this: pamper yourself with snacks in the bath. I used to do this when I worked mornings, I'd just grab my breakfast and eat it in the bathtub, and it was usually something basic like a poptart or a toaster waffle, and I'd do it for time economy rather than enjoyment, but I did enjoy it. I would imagine myself somewhere fancier, with waitstaff or something to bring me my breakfast in the bath instead of the run-down apartment I actually live in, and sometimes...sometimes that got me through the fkin day.
I had a really lovely time with a friend many years ago feeding them strawberry ice cream while they took a bath. We talked and relaxed until the water got too cold and the ice cream had lost its magic. Not a bad way to spend an evening.
1 year
Eyez:
I'm 190 lbs and my appetite keeps growing the more it grows the more I eat and all I wanna do is stuff my face
And when in full I get hungry again an hour later
And when I have a bag of chips I just wanna sit down and eat all of them at once
Definitely not normal. And definitely don’t look at any of the other threads on here with people saying the exact same thing. All an illusion.
1 year
I think it’s a mental thing. It’s about how you feel more than any number or measurement
1 year
Happy Friday the 13th, story club!
1 year
Yeah, I would like all sorts of weird vegetarian stuff plus handmade ice cream plus maybe a good buttered roll, plus an Indian buffet. And happy hour.
1 year
SSBBW Summer:
Full of your favourite foods and snacks. Everything you like in that one shop. Wouldn't that be great!
It would be a really weird shop but it would be great.
1 year
