Chiame:
Is there a good way to meet dom feeders on here?
My advice would be to hang out in chat. Lotta feeders there. Are you looking for a dom, a domme, or does it not matter? Because the doms will find you while the dommes generally need to be approached.
3 years
Munchies:
A full, plump set of moobs. A well cushioned backside. And a nice, well fed single belly.
Chunky thighs and big arms are a close contender.
karenjenk:
I love Moobs
I wish there was a way to induce these on a guy
Munchies:
There is, but it's pretty much one step removed from HRT.
calciumkid:
I'm intrigued. Could elaborate? I might be tempted to give it a try
Nothing I'd recommend without a doctor's supervision.
3 years
RemorselessEatingMachine:
The real problem is people having conflicting expectations about what this website is for.
If you go to the front page of FantasyFeeder and scroll to the bottom you'll find that the website promotes itself as "Indulge your fat fantasies", "BBW dating" (apparently BHM don't exist...), and "Plus-size social". Or in simpler terms: fetish, romance, and friendship.
I think the OP of this thread likely falls in to the "romance" category, and was (if you're capable of empathy) understandably frustrated when he finally realised that the majority of FantasyFeeder users are only interested in the "Fantasy" aspect, who indeed "only come here to masturbate", who would never actually date an obese person in real life because of the social stigma, and his dreams of romance are likely to go unfulfilled.
While the OP could have been more tactful instead of posting a rant, I don't think he's wrong in a lot of what he said because it's also been my experience with FantasyFeeder. Most of the FFAs I've chatted to aren't interested in getting to know the human being, and just want a caricature of a fat person who will tell them that they've already eaten four cakes today and can't wait to eat a fifth, so they can use it as masturbation fodder.
And you know what? That's fine! It's their fetish, and their fetish is why this website exists. But it's not the only reason this website exists (according to it's own marketing), and both groups need to accept that the other has just as much right to be here as they do.
Tbh, if his issue was just "I'm frustrated because I want an Ffa/feeder girlfriend and every women I've talked to has made me feel like a piece of meet," no one would have cared. I believe most people would have been kind to him.
No, the issue is that he went into incel territory, and got dogpiled for it.
3 years
DustyLovesBBWomen:
Well thank you very much I was hoping you might like to chat if you don't understand I was just helping seems like we may have some things in common I'm here if you'd like to do take care
Sir ... Did you ... change the picture you posted? Are you trying to seduce me?
3 years
DustyLovesBBWomen:
Well thank you very much I was hoping you might like to chat if you don't understand I was just helping seems like we may have some things in common I'm here if you'd like to do take care
Hun, you don't want me. I'm a muscular domme feeder. You prefer BBWs and I have no interest in getting fat.
3 years
biggerthebetter:
When I do a search on my screen name profile Biggerthebetter it comes back with no members found! Is this normal?
That's odd. I tried to search you, but I got the same message you did. However, I can search myself with no issues.
3 years
I'm a built woman who is in very good shape. Usually, I compare their body to mine.
When the person is bigger:
"You're tits are bigger than mine."
"You are such a gluttonous hog. I eat a lot to fuel my muscles, but you put away 3 times as much."
"Look at this gut! It's a good thing I'm so strong. No women would be able to handle you otherwise."
When the person is smaller:
"Look at you, you tiny piglet. You're so small, I could carry you away. Better eat up so I can't."
"You've got a gut, and yet you're still lighter than me? You've got some work to do."
"Better keep eating, piglet. You're so thin I'm worried I could break you without even trying."
3 years
Not fat, but I truly hate running. If you see me running anywhere, you better start running too. Because the only reason I'm running is if there's something to run *from*.
3 years
MariaAlive:It's so old school that saying thanks to the 50's, 60's, 70's and even 80's. 'fashionizing' skinny/lean so it becomes the norm. but so many cultures love plump chubby women and it's considered taboo in some cultures to have a skinny wife
if only we'd have that luck
Sir Mix-alot made the famous "Baby Got Back" song that is - in many ways - a commentary on this. I'm American, so I can only speak for my country. But back in the day, Euro-centric beauty standards extolled a slim figure. Meanwhile, other cultures in my country (Black and Latino especially), preferred full-figured women.
Heck, the women in the "Baby Got Back" music video were supposed to be a lot bigger than the ones we got. But the powers that be made them get athletically built dancers instead.
It's wild.
3 years
