Steps

Katriona:
How do you all manage so much steps 😂😂I work and I never walk more than 2k a day 😂. Weekebd I'm at 300 steps at my best 😁


I'm a very active person, lol.
3 years

Fat guys and facial hair

MariaAlive:
It really depends on the face shape and how the beard grows. if it's a neck-beard, please shave it, there's no point in hiding a double chin. If you do a beard, do it well ot shave it off and donate it to the high heavens above.
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Dear, lord. It *moves*.
3 years

Fat guys and facial hair

I like beards. Just in general, though. Doesn't matter how fat or thin a guy is so long as he has decent facial hair. Otherwise, it's best to shave it all off.
3 years

Best way to get followers

doublefrosted:
Getting followers here is going to be the same as getting followers anywhere else on the internet: time + effort. You need to be making content that people want, and it needs to be frequent or quality enough that people don't want to miss it.

Content can be pics, videos, stories, gaining updates or forum posts that are entertaining, educational, or appealing in some other fashion. You also need to be contributing with some regularity so that people know that following you will be worthwhile.


Couldn't have said it better myself. Why should anyone follow a person if they aren't worth following?
3 years

Bhm web sits

Bigwideland:
Do the ladies want or go to BHM paid web sites. Do any BHM run them with any success? I have never seen any so think that BBW sites are just a male thing.

Sorry heading should be sites not sits, d'oh.


Someone once said to me that porn is for men. Erotica is for women. And while that isn't a hard and fast rule, most of the fat porn I've seen is with the male gaze (straight or gay) in mind.

The handle of BHMs I've seen that *are* straight mostly sitting/standing with their belly on display and eating/drinking. They don't really make a show of it either. And even then most of their audience is gay men.

Meanwhile, I've read a lot of erotica that's made for women, by women. Yes, guys will read it too, but a lot more women read erotica than watch porn. There really isn't porn made for straight women - fat kink or not.
3 years

Should i keep gaining

Depends. Are you happy with your size? Do you want to gain, or do you just want to eat a lot?
3 years

Steps

On a bad day? 3k-ish. On an average day? 5k-ish. Occasionally I hit 10k.
3 years

Best way to get followers

You ask this question a lot, huh?

Like I told you before, if you participate in the forums and/or chat, have something to contribute, and be an overall decent person, you'll get followers.

You also need to be patient. You've had your profile for about a month now.
3 years

Feeding/eating homework

Munchies:
How much does she normally eat?

What state do you want her to be in by the time you come home?

Will she be at home all day? Or is she going to go out from time to time?

Is this going to be a stay at home wife who eats a lot situation? Or is her only job gorging herself?

guestoflegend:
The condition for her not working, is she has to eat for me. She will likely stay home most the time.

I'm always gonna be there for dinner so she just has to boost her calorie intake the first half of the day.[/quote]

Ok, that answers some of my questions, but not all.

What is she going to be doing all day? Like in general? Is her only responsibility eating? If so, that's going to wear on her mentally.

Is she going to be taking care of the household? If so, she can't be glutted out of her mind every day. And if not, then who is going to take care of it?

How full do you want her to be when you come home? Do you want her hungry for dinner? Or are you more focused on her hitting x amount of calories by the time you get home?

And with that said, how much is she already eating? Because that also influences how you continue from here.

If you can answer those questions, I can better give you advice on how to do things with your feedee so you both have fun.
3 years

Feeding/eating homework

guestoflegend:
Gf has decided she wants to be a stay at home feedee. Until this point she's basically just been passively gaining with her natural appetite.

The deal is she has eating homework to do while I'm out "making bread". Essentially I need to assign her an amount of food to finish before I get home for the day.

Need some ideas of a metric of food, or way to measure how much I should assign for her to eat.
As well as how much I should start her off with/increase over time


How much does she normally eat?

What state do you want her to be in by the time you come home?

Will she be at home all day? Or is she going to go out from time to time?

Is this going to be a stay at home wife who eats a lot situation? Or is her only job gorging herself?
3 years