Tough call.
If you love each other, and your gaining would kill your sex life*, and your sex life is crucial to your relationship, consider putting the gaining thing aside.
Feedism is great but love is better.
*some men have trouble getting it up for women who are too far from their ideal weight range. Of course he might not even know his own limits in this regard.
10 years
pumpui wrote:
all I can think of is the Simpsons episode where they time homer how long his blubber jiggles for.
"woohoo look at that blubber fly"
Requires a "standard poke" as mentioned previously.
10 years
I can only think of ways that are too complicated. Anyone?
10 years
It is not a contest
Then what are people being nominated for?
10 years
I think many find ff to be a refuge from a world where their bodies are frequently judged and found wanting. So this might not be the best place for such a contest.
10 years
JustHungry wrote:
I believe the Internet has played a massive part in the new found confidence people have in their fetishes.
No doubt! I mainly wanted to do a reality check, and see if the consensus of opinion was with me.
10 years
Is it my imagination (or my wishful thinking) or are feedees less conflicted than they used to be? It seems more and more of them jump right into gaining and don't look back.
10 years
fanedfox wrote:
I recently saw "Gone Girl" with Ben Affleck and Rosamond Pike. Later in the film, Rosamond Pike's character is pounding down junk food in nearly every scene. Her character is wearing baggy clothes, so she looks bigger, but no detail. I did enjoy the eating scenes.
SPOILER ALERT!
I didn't get that part of the movie, couldn't figure out why she was gaining.
So I read the book.
The conceit of the book is that while the main couple hate each other and make each other miserable, they are each at their best when they're together...a weird sort of competitive blame game is going on.
When she leaves the guy, she is NOT at her best...her overeating and gaining dramatize what a useless slob she turns into when her husband isn't around to spur her to great heights of imitation saintliness.
In short, not a fat positive movie at all. And the weight gain is the cheapest kind of Hollywood pretend weight gain: she starts wearing baggy sweatshirts and sweatpants that suggest she's got something to hide.
10 years
Smallgrowingbelly wrote:
Hello Fantasy Feeder Community,
I have a problem I need help with. so I have a job lined up for this summer and I need to become a lifeguard by then. I worked there last summer, I loved it, and I really want to work there again even if it means losing what little weight I have now... but I hope it doesn't come to that. I need advice on balancing exercise and weight gain so that I will still be strong enough to pass the lifeguard tests but still soft enough so that I can play with my belly when I feel like it. Advice on gym frequency or food habits or anything else would be a great help. Or if you think this just isn't possible and if I really want to work there I should just lose the weight don't be afraid to say that to. Thanks for any help you can give me.
-smallgrowingbelly
Figure out the fitness requirements of the job and make sure you can pass them. Any weight you lose will come back quickly once you stop exercising.
10 years
I'd say it's when they don't let you in because you ate too much last time.
10 years
