Nerdzilla wrote
I can not imagine that feederism has a home within the BDSM community. It tends (as far as I can see) to be a monolithic activity - it has no intrinsic bondage, power exchange, giving or receiving of pain.
MollyRen:
(emphasis mine)
See, all this time I've been thinking of a feeder/feedee relationship as a kind of power exchange. As a feeder, I'd be given (consensual) control over someone else's body...and if that isn't toppy, what is?
They may think of BDSM as more extreme. I agree with your point of view.
7 years
Nerdzilla wrote
I can not imagine that feederism has a home within the BDSM community. It tends (as far as I can see) to be a monolithic activity - it has no intrinsic bondage, power exchange, giving or receiving of pain.
MollyRen:
(emphasis mine)
See, all this time I've been thinking of a feeder/feedee relationship as a kind of power exchange. As a feeder, I'd be given (consensual) control over someone else's body...and if that isn't toppy, what is?
They may think of BDSM as more extreme. I agree with your point of view.
7 years
Adamspet:
I'm lucky enough to have this. I've fantasizes about it for a long time. My fianc�, who is my feeder prepares everything for me. We eat separate foods and I feel bad he has to cook 2 separate dinners all the time but he enjoys the control and I enjoy him having the control. It works for us, but this weekend we decided to take a step further and have him force feed me. I would normally have seconds but yesterday when I was so full he came over and rubbed my belly and fed me even more. I didn't think I could do it but his calming touch and voice was enough to make me eat more.
How did you get lucky enough to find a feeder like this? Please keep us posted.
7 years
Ffox:
Lol was looking for something on eBay found this
My problem is finding a feeder to secure this on me
and then....
7 years
Ffox:
Lol was looking for something on eBay found this
My problem is finding a feeder to secure this on me
and then....
7 years
How about a way to match feeders and feedees?
If someone list their self as a feeder, perhaps they could go one step further, and list their preferance for males or females. When doing a profile seach, it's unclear as to what they seek.
7 years
Thanks for posting EvilFeeder, always glad to learn.
7 years
This should be required reading in the reference section.
7 years
inevitable:
You will get best results from Heavy Cream used WITH sugar.
Try mixing your heavy cream with chocolate syrup and sweeten it more with clear corn syrup.
The combination of fats and sugar make both more effective.
Learn something new everyday. I'll have to give this a go.
7 years
Marina:
I don't think it's possible to get rid of. I was able to quiet it in myself for a couple years, but with the unfortunate side effect of quieting my entire sex drive... it was to the point where I barely even wanted to self-indulge in pleasure. It wasn't worth it.
I'd advise finding a way to make peace with it.
Could you expand on "it wasn't worth it"? No pun intended.
7 years
