AskDrFeeder:
Been reading about the "soft girl" trend. I know it's not "soft" in the sense that fat bodies are soft, but I wonder if there's any overlap between soft girls and feedees. Anyone?

Munchies:
For those not in the know, the "soft girl" trend is a Gen Z lifestyle/aesthetic that is a response to and rejection of the girl boss lifestyle/aesthetic.

While the girl boss is all about being cool, dominant, and self-sufficient, the soft girl is cute, preppy, and pampered. The idea behind being a soft girl is that life sucks, so it's best to find someone to take care of you instead.

To answer the OP's question, I will say that some feedees certainly ascribe to the soft life, either in whole or in part. But that has less to do with being a feedee and more to do with traditional gender roles.

Stevia:
I think I would kinda consider myself as so. But I am pretty much fine on my own terms. 😅

BallooningBelly:
This makes it easier for people to chat with the same country or gain preferences. Easier to share photos with each etc.

SirMurphy007:
It’s tough out here. All the women just seem to throw cash apps and paypal around… I have no problem feeding the big cuties everywhere.. I just want to see the some of where the money is going. Luckily I havent been scammed out of much. Y’all would get more from me if you just sent the stuffings to me. You’re going to do it anyways and Im willing to pay for it, I just want to see. Does that seem fair? Or am I wrong

Munchies:
Yeah, no. That's not even close to what I'm doing.

JN_TumLover56:
Denial huh? That’s usually how it starts with most problems.

Munchies:
In this weather????

I think the fuck not!

But in all seriousness, I am very confused as to this whole "I gotta win against Munchies" thing you've got going on. I'm not trying to "win" an argument with you. I wasn't even aware we were having a fight.

From my perspective, this has been a case of me explaining something I know a lot about to someone who has a passing understanding. I feel like you have some kind of beef with me, but it's very one-sided.

Like, what are we doing here? I have no quarrel with you. The list of people I have actual beef with is very short, and you aren't even on the list.

JN_TumLover56:
Ha ha! Well I am Canadian so it doesn’t bother me as much. 😜

All jokes aside thought, I think everyone knows when someone tells them to “touch grass” as in a way to get off the internet and devices and experience the outside world… maybe talk to someone IRL. There’s more to life outside of our devices than it is on the inside. Self-improvement people have preached about this. Heck, I have seen you tell other users to touch grass. You should know that.

Now I respect you and your advice and opinions. But recently it seems like you just haven’t been giving me a break from some of the recent forum discussions. It’s almost like you don’t want people to have a different opinion even if it’s something quite similar to yours.

To save this particular forum discussion from being chaotic, I’ll have to write you a note when I can.

Munchies:
You mean like a type A kinda person?

JN_TumLover56:
Ahh… sure you can say that. It’s like when I am saying a “softie” I’m trying to say as to describe someone who is humble and kind or even down to earth. Instead of someone who’s very uptight to a point where they come off as a rough person.

I’m essentially saying something similar to what you said earlier but saying it in my own way y’know?

Munchies:
I see.

Yeah, no the soft girl doesn't exclude those kinds of women.

It should. The lifestyle champions being gentle, delicate, and carefree. But having interacted with a great many of the soft girl girlies, I can confirm most of them are mean.

Like ... meaner than me by a significant margin.

JN_TumLover56:
Seems like I can’t win no matter how much I try to counter you, even if I may have a point. Anyways I’m going to head out to touch grass now. Highly recommend! 💯

Munchies:
To be in community with someone means to be in fellowship. You don't need to be a woman to be in community with women.

Enas:
Damn it, i dont know if i understand fellowship either xD

Do you mean, i dont often hang out with women, im not in their company, i dont socialize a lot with women?

PhoenixChimera:
Thank you, I didn’t expect anyone to respond and have had a difficult few days with the Police and crisis team.