Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

BigBootyBoy:
So recently ive been pushing more and more to put weight on and im very nervous on how to come out to my loved one and family about it. grew up super fit and have been till recently so i have no clue how i would explain to them why im putting so much weight on as a known fit person. any tips?


What I wanna know is why do people wanna tell their family about their kinks?

Ngl, that's weird. Even if you were vanilla, your fam ain't wanna know what revs your engine.
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Can i be healthy while chubby?

Morbidly A Beast:
It sure is! Just follow your appetite and make sure you’re hitting the gym. Just know you’ll burn way less calories an hour on a treadmill than you consume in a single cheeseburger

It will be quite easy to build mass if your working out and eating everything you want

MrOverstuffed:
Interesting, that’s true. A lot of the time, feedee’s live a risky life because they do 0 working out and tons of eating. A healthier approach is eating tons and working out tons as well.
Thanks!


Also, don't eat mostly junk. You can still have a high calorie diet with nutritious food. Your body needs all its macros and micros to function.
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How would this experiment go?

Sketchbook1000:
I think something like that would be cool; I'd wear a shirt like that out on the weekend or to a club (before I moved out of the city). Maybe not in front of people I know closely.

Someone tried started something like that a long time ago with a riff on the McDonald's logo a but it never really took off.

I've recognized feedists and FAs (in theory) by noticing they have sort-of a clique with larger people or gain a substantial amount themselves or both. I think it's great!


As a Southerner, that wouldn't work. But it's a fun idea.
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Ff user who ruins people?

Boops Boops:
It's like you come on here just to be angry with people. Take a break. I will not entertain your moral outrage.

Morbidly A Beast:
There’s valid expressions of a fetish, mostly in the realm of fantasy and then there’s just out right fatphobic bigots.

Theres people who do sa scenes between two consensual people, which is clearly in the realm of fantasy. But there’s a fine line between that and literal sa.

The people who fetishize ruination of total non-consenting fat people are blurring the lines.


This is true. I mean, I'm a sadist. I get off on torturing my partner and making him suffer. Hell, I've had partners with ruination kinks. Like I said before, there's a way to indulge in kink while keeping it safe, sane, and consensual.
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Trying to help find patriotic witchy friends in indiana for my feedee wife!

Twig Bug:
My wife has really wanted to find people she can hangout with discuss metaphysical things and witchy stuff and girly stuff.
She needs someone who is like a sister to her...for some reason every time she thinks she meets a friend who is a girl they eventually just walk all over her and treat her like garbage...plus hoping to find her a friend that is a feedee that can help root for her.

Munchies:
Bring her onto the site. Don't go shopping for friends for your wife - even if she's fine with you doing this.

All it will do is make a bad situation worse.

MrOverstuffed:
True, she'd be able to directly put herself on here in a safe environment to make friends


OP's heart seems like it's in the right place. Love that for him. But a lot of times, people will act one way with you and another way with someone else. I've both seen and experienced this.

You can introduce people until the cows come home. But it's up to the relevant parties to foster that connection. Plus, some people feel pressure to stay in a friendship they don't like because they don't want to disappoint the person that introduced them.

Again, no shade to OP, but it's super common.
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