Scoooter:
...and that swingin and rubbin, is that a good feelin?😉
Absolutely
1 year
Curiousv:
You know what's asinine? Your unwarranted ASSUMPTIONS that I don't consider them as human beings. Does it make you feel better or elevated to constantly accuse others of this?
I never thought you don’t consider us human beings just that there really isn’t a general answer for all fat people for instance not all fat people are fat because they are big eaters, some fat people are fat by circumstance things like this will never be the same for every fat person
1 year
Curiousv:Is this degrading, patronizing, and accusatory tone really necessary? All I asked for was some personal experience about what to expect, and what someone who did not experience being with someone of that size might not realize, and it was hypothetical anyway. And of course I'm not 5 years old and I know that a date is not a pet and I should be communicating with her, duuuh.
And all I got was accusations, personal attacks, and wild assumptions. This community is really getting toxic by the day
Is it toxic or are you just asking asinine questions and didn’t like the response you got? Plus size+ are human beings just like skinny people, each with very degrees of needs and wants.
1 year
I’m almost as heavy as a hippo 🫣
1 year
NoMoYoYo:
Funny enough we got a new mattress last fall. But that was 30+ pounds ago.
I don't feel the strain walking or anything, just when waking up in the morning and its gone shortly thereafter. If it got to that point, I'd probably see a doctor about it.
However, we know their recommendation would be to lose weight hahaha.
Yeah to me it just sounds like overweight/obese + age aches if they go away like that. I get them too but I’m a lot bigger and younger but I’ve worked manual labor for the last 10ish years tends to do a number on your back
1 year
I sleep with my belly stretching towards the heavens sorry yall can’t sleep like that or have a tough time falling asleep I’m out the second I touch the pillow most of the time
1 year
When was the last time you and your wife got a new bed? Might be time to replace the old one.
Other than that there’s the simple matter of your belly putting strain on your back just how like women have strain on there backs when they have large boobs. Might be worth talking to a dr or something
1 year
MarshmallowMinotaur:
This is partly from getting fat and partly from back surgery and loss of flexibility. After dropping a deuce I have to use the handheld shower head on the stream setting to clean myself. I can’t reach back and under. I don’t really go anywhere to worry about being out and having to use the bathroom. I don’t know what other people do.
Get you a squatty potty brother makes it easier and I’ve found it to be easier clean up also if reduces the ammount of surface area you’re sitting on the toilet I know when I just sit I’m not fitting quite right. Also get you bidet super nice they just mount to the side. I’ve heard of traveling bidets but I just try to poop at home if at all possible
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
I’ve heard good things about tumblr but I feel like I’m to old for that stuff
Munchies:
I wouldn't go to Tumblr looking for love.
Tumblr is a place for memes, shitposting, and discourse.
Noted I remeber people posting about it just not sure what it’s all about myself
1 year
I’ve heard good things about tumblr but I feel like I’m to old for that stuff
1 year
