Munchies:
It could be a few things really:

He wants to get in shape for himself and it has nothing to do with you.

He wants to see himself as worthy to date you.

He's insecure and thinks slimming down is in his best interests.

Still, you should talk to him. Internet stragers can only help so much.

That being said, it seems he tries to match your eating habits. Are you slim or in shape? If so, it might be best if your gained along side him.

Angy523:
Thank you for your answear, it is actually really helpful. I guess I can try eating more while I'm with him and maybe this will make him eat even more. I remember that in the past he was buying me sweets and he was joking about the fact that he will make me fatter and I will have a belly like his. I don't know if I should consider this as a sign he might have this fetish too or not.

Also, we are still at the beginning of our relationship so it's not that easy to talk with him about this topic. If he's not into this, it will be really weird if I tell him that I woul like him to have a belly again and I want him fat.

Zampano708:
It is interesting what resonance such a controversial text causes. Nobody has to justify themselves here 😀 It actually only referred to most of the contacts I had here... everyone should do as they want... So stay cool ✌️😀

Munchies:
Oh, honey.

If you were ranting about *only* the women you had interactions with, that would be one thing. I doubt anyone would have cared.

But no. You decided to lump *all* women into the same category. And that's why everyone is dog piling on you.

What's worse is that you started backpedaling when people of all genders started calling you out.

Sorry, love. You can't gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss your way out of this one.

Zampano708:
Oh, that they throw themselves at me doesn't bother me at all. I find it rather amusing. 😀 Apart from that, I didn't approach all women, but most of them... and just like you say, if I had only addressed my contacts, nobody would have been interested😁
Admittedly, I also knew a bit that I was biting into the hornet's nest and maybe wanted a bit of trouble . Not always just blah blah topics.

In real life, I can also deal to taking the contra part. 😀 I can handle that…
But arguments as I know this and that... or I do this and that... not verifiable...😉
and they weren't all that bad😀

Munchies:
And now you are trying to show you're "a nice guy actually". Nah, honey. You've let the mask off and shot yourself in the foot. Now, if any decent woman shows and interest in you and scrolls through your feed, they'll see what you typed. They'll know who you really are.

And enough people have quoted you to save everything you said even if you delete.

Do yourself a favor. Stop being terrible and start being a decent person. You'll find more people will like you. Who knows? Maybe someone will treat you as more than a sex object if you return the favor.

Zampano708:
Lol… no woman here is interested in me🙈🙏 before and after I was a asshole… that’s why I don’t care about my hole in my feet😉

Munchies:
Smh. You're just a sad little man, ain't ya? You're the reason no woman is interested in you, you know it, and refuse to do anything about it.

It's pathetic really. You're the problem, but you'd rather blame women for your short comings. Maybe if you sucked a little less, you could have the life you want.

You have the power to fix it and refuse to do so. Pathetic, really.

Zampano708:
Oh, I'm dealing with a master psychoanalyst... maybe you could put it that way... hit dogs bark!!! And the way you're barking you feel somehow particularly hit😉 Well... and I'm not that small... I don't feel that way either... and I just said that nobody here is interested in me... oh yes, you 😀

Munchies:
Nah, I just enjoy shreading jerks to bits. Keep going. I'm having a grand old time.

Zampano708:
🤣🤣 believe it

Zampano708:
It is interesting what resonance such a controversial text causes. Nobody has to justify themselves here 😀 It actually only referred to most of the contacts I had here... everyone should do as they want... So stay cool ✌️😀

Munchies:
Oh, honey.

If you were ranting about *only* the women you had interactions with, that would be one thing. I doubt anyone would have cared.

But no. You decided to lump *all* women into the same category. And that's why everyone is dog piling on you.

What's worse is that you started backpedaling when people of all genders started calling you out.

Sorry, love. You can't gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss your way out of this one.

Zampano708:
Oh, that they throw themselves at me doesn't bother me at all. I find it rather amusing. 😀 Apart from that, I didn't approach all women, but most of them... and just like you say, if I had only addressed my contacts, nobody would have been interested😁
Admittedly, I also knew a bit that I was biting into the hornet's nest and maybe wanted a bit of trouble . Not always just blah blah topics.

In real life, I can also deal to taking the contra part. 😀 I can handle that…
But arguments as I know this and that... or I do this and that... not verifiable...😉
and they weren't all that bad😀

Munchies:
And now you are trying to show you're "a nice guy actually". Nah, honey. You've let the mask off and shot yourself in the foot. Now, if any decent woman shows and interest in you and scrolls through your feed, they'll see what you typed. They'll know who you really are.

And enough people have quoted you to save everything you said even if you delete.

Do yourself a favor. Stop being terrible and start being a decent person. You'll find more people will like you. Who knows? Maybe someone will treat you as more than a sex object if you return the favor.

Zampano708:
Lol… no woman here is interested in me🙈🙏 before and after I was a asshole… that’s why I don’t care about my hole in my feet😉

Munchies:
Smh. You're just a sad little man, ain't ya? You're the reason no woman is interested in you, you know it, and refuse to do anything about it.

It's pathetic really. You're the problem, but you'd rather blame women for your short comings. Maybe if you sucked a little less, you could have the life you want.

You have the power to fix it and refuse to do so. Pathetic, really.

Zampano708:
Oh, I'm dealing with a master psychoanalyst... maybe you could put it that way... hit dogs bark!!! And the way you're barking you feel somehow particularly hit😉 Well... and I'm not that small... I don't feel that way either... and I just said that nobody here is interested in me... oh yes, you 😀

Zampano708:
It is interesting what resonance such a controversial text causes. Nobody has to justify themselves here 😀 It actually only referred to most of the contacts I had here... everyone should do as they want... So stay cool ✌️😀

Munchies:
Oh, honey.

If you were ranting about *only* the women you had interactions with, that would be one thing. I doubt anyone would have cared.

But no. You decided to lump *all* women into the same category. And that's why everyone is dog piling on you.

What's worse is that you started backpedaling when people of all genders started calling you out.

Sorry, love. You can't gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss your way out of this one.

Zampano708:
Oh, that they throw themselves at me doesn't bother me at all. I find it rather amusing. 😀 Apart from that, I didn't approach all women, but most of them... and just like you say, if I had only addressed my contacts, nobody would have been interested😁
Admittedly, I also knew a bit that I was biting into the hornet's nest and maybe wanted a bit of trouble . Not always just blah blah topics.

In real life, I can also deal to taking the contra part. 😀 I can handle that…
But arguments as I know this and that... or I do this and that... not verifiable...😉
and they weren't all that bad😀

Munchies:
And now you are trying to show you're "a nice guy actually". Nah, honey. You've let the mask off and shot yourself in the foot. Now, if any decent woman shows and interest in you and scrolls through your feed, they'll see what you typed. They'll know who you really are.

And enough people have quoted you to save everything you said even if you delete.

Do yourself a favor. Stop being terrible and start being a decent person. You'll find more people will like you. Who knows? Maybe someone will treat you as more than a sex object if you return the favor.

Zampano708:
Lol… no woman here is interested in me🙈🙏 before and after I was a asshole… that’s why I don’t care about my hole in my feet😉

Zampano708:
It's indicative of our society and is very evident in this fetish community. Most of the women who like fat guys or when a man gains weight and gets fatter would never act it out in real life. They couldn't handle showing themselves with a fat man because they would be embarrassed. They come to these sites, mostly anonymously, and then offer online encouragement or online feeding sessions so they can masturbate because sex with their real live partner isn't satisfying for them. The best thing about it is that they appear completely natural and self-confident behind their anonymity. I've been on different sites for a few years and most of them are no different from this variety. Can actually only advise the gentleman here that they attach money to them and not the other way around

Zampano708:
It is interesting what resonance such a controversial text causes. Nobody has to justify themselves here 😀 It actually only referred to most of the contacts I had here... everyone should do as they want... So stay cool ✌️😀

Munchies:
Oh, honey.

If you were ranting about *only* the women you had interactions with, that would be one thing. I doubt anyone would have cared.

But no. You decided to lump *all* women into the same category. And that's why everyone is dog piling on you.

What's worse is that you started backpedaling when people of all genders started calling you out.

Sorry, love. You can't gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss your way out of this one.

Zampano708:
Oh, that they throw themselves at me doesn't bother me at all. I find it rather amusing. 😀 Apart from that, I didn't approach all women, but most of them... and just like you say, if I had only addressed my contacts, nobody would have been interested😁
Admittedly, I also knew a bit that I was biting into the hornet's nest and maybe wanted a bit of trouble . Not always just blah blah topics.

In real life, I can also deal to taking the contra part. 😀 I can handle that…
But arguments as I know this and that... or I do this and that... not verifiable...😉
and they weren't all that bad😀

Angy523:
I know there are already some topics with the same subject, but maybe I'll find some similar situations with mine.

Soo, long story short, I would like my boyfriend fatter, but he is losing weight. Ofc this doesn't change how I feel about him and I won't force anything, but I don't understand why. When I met him, he was 10kgs heavier than he is now. He actually was joking about his belly and he always told me even I don't like his belly, I will get used to it. For some reason, he thought all my exs had 6 packs and he still thinks I would prefer a boyfriend with abs, but I assured him all my exs had bellies and I don't care about having abs. He started losing weight on purpose and he wants to get abs now. I tried to tease him telling him he'll have a belly in the next years and he always told me he doesn't mind that.

It should be easier for him to gain weight since his eating habits are pretty much helpful. He likes sweets and sometimes he drinks just soda (or at least he used to, now he is drinking less soda...he actually didn't drink it for some weeks, now he started to do it again). The only problem is that when he is around me sometimes he skips meals because I do so (lately I convinced him to eat even when I don't, but I still think he is eating less than he needs). I know in the past, when he was 15kgs heavier than he is now, he used to eat even 2 pizzas, but now he said half of one pizza is enough for him. Also, during these months he has some important exams which keep him busy and he doesn't always have time to eat.

Any suggestions?