I used to have than problem when I was 400+ and I would massage my belly about where my colon is located in a circular motion.
Moving across the belly from my right to left.
It really did help to move the gas bubble on down the line.
I learned this from my chiropractor.
She said sometimes motion and a little nudge will get it to move and release.
Worth a try but then possibly cut out the foods like beans and cabbage that are known to cause gas.

I agree with Lora.
If you are attracted to them only because of their body how do you think that will make them feel?
No need to say anything at the moment.
If you are going out off and on then I think they would know you are attracted to them in some way.
Relationships can be tricky so no sense it making it harder just let it grow naturally.
At this point saying you are an FA makes it all about you and your kink, they may not understand and be put off by it.

I have bought some really cute maternity tops in the past just because they fit perfectly.
When I started getting a lower belly I wore maternity jeans just for comfort while I figured out what size I should be buying with all the new weight I had been gaining.
It did feel weird buying them and sales ladies would always comment is this your first baby?
I guess I probably looked pregnant at the time.
Wide with a fat belly.

I miss Courtney (PP) she was such a sweet person to chat with.
The girl had no ego and so very nice to everyone.
Most girls as pretty as she is have ego issues.
I do miss her for sure.

You should understand 80% of what you see on TV isn't the truth.
The people in the ads are actors.
I stopped watching TV back in 2007 because nothing was worth watching.

Depakote and dilantin both made me gain weight

A big fat plump bubble butt is awesome on a guy.

I quit cigs back in 2014 and weed a long time ago.

Everybody is different so don't get discouraged.

Comic con events or even hanging out in a comic or video game store.
I never got into that stuff but I did get into food challenge events.
I never competed but there were plenty of cute fat guys to look at.
Watching a fat guy stuff/eat large amounts of food in a set time frame I get all tingly.