On the other hand, if you want the experience of gaining with a feeder, you may want to wait until you meet that feeder!
11 years
I doubt she'd joke about it if she didn't like the idea. Maybe it's you who hasn't realized the depths of her fetish.
You should ask.
11 years
Yes, of course, plenty of people fear this. They usually defer gaining until they find a feeder.
11 years
MakeFatter is right. The reasons some people don't get enough to eat are political and economic. No amount of fasting on your part will make any difference.
Let me also point out that many feedees are vegetarian and consume much less food than meat-eaters (even thin ones!), if you count all the livestock feed the meat-eaters put away indirectly.
Also some athletes put away lots of calories. Tour de France riders eat around 8000 calories a day. I don't hear anyone complaining about them.
11 years
growing4love wrote:
My boyfriend tells me all the time how sexy it would be if I grew a pot belly, thick thighs and fat round ass.
Next time he says that say "Well, you'd better feed me some doughnuts then!"
11 years
Looks like quite a chore to eat!
11 years
Anyway, I really think you should have a heart-to-heart talk with him about this.
I've noticed that a lot of people go ahead gain without discussing it with their partner and just keep their fingers crossed and hope it works out. It's kind of a crap shoot. Possibilities:
1. The partner never says anything about it and is to be okay with it or even learns to like it.
2. The partner never says anything but is not okay with it. It becomes the elephant in the room.
3. The partner doesn't say anything until the feedee has gained way more than they're comfortable with. The partner demands that the feedee diet--of course that's not always possible or acceptable.
I would say that both people in these relationships are being remiss. Weight issues on are very often hard for people to discuss, regardless of which partner is doing the gaining.
So I understand that it's hard to talk about, but I still don't really get why people don't do it. Can you even enjoy gaining if you're so worried about the consequences?
11 years
Tough call.
If you love each other, and your gaining would kill your sex life*, and your sex life is crucial to your relationship, consider putting the gaining thing aside.
Feedism is great but love is better.
*some men have trouble getting it up for women who are too far from their ideal weight range. Of course he might not even know his own limits in this regard.
11 years
pumpui wrote:
all I can think of is the Simpsons episode where they time homer how long his blubber jiggles for.
"woohoo look at that blubber fly"
Requires a "standard poke" as mentioned previously.
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