Trying to help find patriotic witchy friends in indiana for my feedee wife!

Twig Bug:
My wife has really wanted to find people she can hangout with discuss metaphysical things and witchy stuff and girly stuff.
She needs someone who is like a sister to her...for some reason every time she thinks she meets a friend who is a girl they eventually just walk all over her and treat her like garbage...plus hoping to find her a friend that is a feedee that can help root for her.

Munchies:
Bring her onto the site. Don't go shopping for friends for your wife - even if she's fine with you doing this.

All it will do is make a bad situation worse.

MrOverstuffed:
True, she'd be able to directly put herself on here in a safe environment to make friends


OP's heart seems like it's in the right place. Love that for him. But a lot of times, people will act one way with you and another way with someone else. I've both seen and experienced this.

You can introduce people until the cows come home. But it's up to the relevant parties to foster that connection. Plus, some people feel pressure to stay in a friendship they don't like because they don't want to disappoint the person that introduced them.

Again, no shade to OP, but it's super common.
4 months

Ff user who ruins people?

Boops Boops:
It's like you come on here just to be angry with people. Take a break. I will not entertain your moral outrage.




Someone doesn't know me as well as he thinks he does.

Bless your heart, darling.
4 months

Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

Justinboo0313:
I don’t know. She won’t really tell me. I love her and have even tried to suppress it but it usually just comes back even stronger. She doesn’t like the thought of me looking at porn. And a lot of people on her want something more than just some playful role play. And some just want you damn money.But what kinda of games?


Try asking her this:

What am I doing that you like? What do you wish I did more often? What's something you wish I'd stop doing?

Start with the basics, and you can expand the conversation from there. It sounds like she feels put on the spot. I'm not saying you are doing this on purpose, but she seems shy about this topic. Focus on intimacy rather than pleasure and go from there. She sounds like the sort of person who values the emotional connection more than being adventurous.

As for the games, it depends. Not going to make any recommendations, but you can check out DeviantArt and Itchio.
4 months

Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

Justinboo0313:
Well she’s not into feeder/feedee stuff. So I try to get some role play or dirty talk or even wearing smaller clothing to set a mood. The older I’ve got the harder it is to finish without some feedism play.


What is she comfortable doing? I can't see someone who isn't into feedism being comfortable with some of the things you are suggesting.

Is she fine with you engaging in your kink outside of her? I don't mean finding a mistress, but there are other things you can do.

I have a much higher libido than my partner as well as having kinks he isn't interested in. I channel this in a lot of ways. I play fetish games, watch porn, fantasize about things during my me time, and write erotica.
4 months

Ideas for incorporating erotic weight gain and feeding into your relationship

Justinboo0313:
I believe she is. She just doesn’t understand the kink no matter how I explain it to her. She has know about it since the beginning of our relationship. She has gave it a try a few times. I’ve told asked her a lot about what I could do to help her enjoy herself more while still satisfying my side. I want to compromise and give her whatever she needs. But can’t get anything from here on how she feels sexually.


What do you need sexually?
4 months