dingoboi:
I'm a 19 y/o guy and I've never met up w someone with a feeder kink as well, do i stand a chance trying to find a girl who wouldn't get weirded out by that? There's 30K people at my school but i feel like I have a decent chance of being the only one
if thats the case, 1 in 30k is crazy
You should come down South sometime. While I wouldn't say it's a fetish, we do feed people a lot. Ours is a very food-centric culture with cooking being it's own love language.
I can't tell you how many times people would feed me just to feed me. It's a wonder I've never been fat, lol.
3 years
newenglander:
After giving this topic some thought, yes college attendees today are indeed heavier than their counterparts from prior generations. But has anyone noticed those in their early-20s becoming fatter in general?
Many cashiers and other workers in my local Dollar Tree, Stop&Shop, and Walmart for example are young but not likely to be college students. This much I deduced from seeing them at work when class would be in session. They seem much heavier than their predecessors from about 20 years ago.
This makes me wonder if college attendance is simply coincidental to weight gain. Could the real culprits be a combination of factors such as poor diet, antidepressant use, video games, and social media?
Also cigarette use is down significantly among this demographic. Nicotine being a stimulant often helped keep the weight off.
Munchies:
I mean, they may be in class. Online, weekend, and night classes are also options. There's also Summer classes, accelerated classes, ect. So, that alone isn't the best way to judge if they are students or not.
That being said, you are probably right about the reasons. But also high levels of stress, the inability to buy quality food, not having the time or the energy to exercise, etc.
The reasons are about as long as my arm.
BradyG:
Not having the time or the energy to exercise is one of the biggest myths that people actually believe…. For one it’s a choice if exercises important to you you make time for it and two while initially it is tiring to exercise exercise gives you energy. But I agree with you about the inability to buy quality food and probably being raised on processed food like so many people these days and then get addicted to the sugar etc. but I think when you have the college experience of being away from home for the first time away from your parents telling you what to do and making your meals and then you have usually the dining hall especially your freshman year when you live on campus and the dining hall is right there and you can eat anything and everything you want I think that Contributes immensely to college weight gain Plus we cannot count out the large amount of drinking that goes on in college. That in itself is responsible for a shit load of calories
As a fit person, I agree with you to an extent about not having the time or the energy to exercise. In most circumstances, if you make the time for it, you're body will thank you for it.
The people I'm referring to simply do not have the time or the energy. I know a lot of single parents in that college age range who have kids, work multiple jobs and squeeze in college classes where they can. Not all of them are fat per se, but watching them scramble around is like a heart attack waiting to happen. They barely have time to sleep properly, let alone exercise.
Thankfully, this isn't a long term situation. Once they get additional support (usually reliable child care) they have time for other things like sleep and exercise.
3 years
newenglander:
After giving this topic some thought, yes college attendees today are indeed heavier than their counterparts from prior generations. But has anyone noticed those in their early-20s becoming fatter in general?
Many cashiers and other workers in my local Dollar Tree, Stop&Shop, and Walmart for example are young but not likely to be college students. This much I deduced from seeing them at work when class would be in session. They seem much heavier than their predecessors from about 20 years ago.
This makes me wonder if college attendance is simply coincidental to weight gain. Could the real culprits be a combination of factors such as poor diet, antidepressant use, video games, and social media?
Also cigarette use is down significantly among this demographic. Nicotine being a stimulant often helped keep the weight off.
I mean, they may be in class. Online, weekend, and night classes are also options. There's also Summer classes, accelerated classes, ect. So, that alone isn't the best way to judge if they are students or not.
That being said, you are probably right about the reasons. But also high levels of stress, the inability to buy quality food, not having the time or the energy to exercise, etc.
The reasons are about as long as my arm.
3 years
Sam19:
I wanna get fat but in the military should I just fatten myself out of the military?
fanedfox:
I didn't start actively gaining until I retired from the military reserves. I kept my weight in check until then, though it was difficult, especially as I got older.
If you can continue your service until you have your "twenty", I would do so. The benefits can't be beat, especially the medical insurance.
Those VA benefits can't be beat. It's hard to get them, but when you do ...
3 years
Hello. I'm a domme female feeder who has a male feedee. Not quite the same situation, but some thing transcend gender.
Honestly, it sounds like your bf needs therapy. This isn't a healthy response and I don't think he is capable of working through it himself. And if you two let this fester, it will cause relationship issues later on down the road.
While I am more than happy to fatten my feedee, I put his comfort and happiness above mine. So even though I am in charge, it is ultimately his choice. This means that if he wants to maintain or lose weight, I will happily support him
It's great that he isn't pushing you to be fat. But that's only one side of the coin. And he, as a grown man, shouldn't sulking in the corner at the very ideal of your losing weight. It doesn't sound like you are trying to lose weight, but how would he react if you lost even one pound?
Again, at this stage, this won't break your relationship. But I must stress he gets therapy. He needs to work on himself and you can't fix him - even if you gain a hundred pounds.
3 years
If you wanna do it, then go for it. Carpe diem!
3 years
I feel like this question is more suited to fair skinned people than darker skinned ones. Because darker skin people do tan (and noticeably so) but the tan lines don't feel as dramatic. At least to me, anyway.
That said, I do notice, but I feel neutral about it. In my experience, it's not fat people specific. It just is. So I am indifference.
3 years
I suppose there's only one way to find out.
3 years
Most certainly. Go slow. Keep your strength up. Protect your knees. Eat quality food. And above all, go to the doctor regularly.
The last thing you want to be is old, sick, and fat. Not a very good quality of life at that point. And even if you get down to a healthier weight, some of the damage is irreversible (i.e. the knees).
3 years
It's possible, but it will take some willpower. And I know you have it because you eat yourself to this point. That's not easy to do.
All you gotta do is let your stomach shrink back down a bit. Depending on how much you stretched it out, that won't take long to fix. Anywhere from a couple of days to maybe a week.
Eat smaller portion sizes. Take time to enjoy your food. Drink water with your food. You'll notice your appetite won't be as strong as it was.
3 years
