I can't believe I'm actually doing this, but, everyone on Fet in the area is insane and I miss cuddling. (Copying and pasting bits of info from my ad on fet along with site specific stuff)
About me:
I live part time in Plattsburgh NY. I enjoy playing video games, watching SciFi shows, and pretending that snow doesn't exist. My other hobbies include reading, gardening, and learning for fun. I'm fat, and that's not going to change any time soon. I love the feeling of falling in love and submitting to someone that I trust. I'm in an on-again, off-again long distance relationship. I'd safely say the following labels could apply to me: sub, masochist, brat, little, and pet (to some extent).
FF specific stuff: Sub FA. Not into gaining, not really into feeding, not really into skinny people.
What I'm looking for:
I am seeking a D-type (or a pre-existing couple/household/etc) between the ages of 20-29 (preferably under 25) for a non-sexual relationship. I've had a little bit of experience with impact, wax, and electrical play, and a tiny bit with bondage. I might potentially, depending on who I talk to, lift the sex hard limit; but it will only be after a long period of communication, meeting, and trust.
What I'm not looking for:
I'm not looking for an online relationship. I will not tolerate people who just want a quick lay and consent violators. I'm not really looking for a casual hookup. I will also not tolerate anyone who wants to change who I am fundamentally.

Yeah but here's the thing. When anger stems from being objectified without consent, from seeing man after man complain about how his girlfriend isn't fat enough for him, from being hit on repeatedly because you dare be a fat woman on a fat fetish site no matter what your fetish is or what you have listed on your profile, from being insulted because if you're fat and a woman, your feelings are irrelevant, and so on and so forth, saying that an expression of anger has been avoided because a post was deleted is kind of patronizing.
The thing is, most "anger" is closer to "hey, women are people and deserve respect" and not "oh my god a man, let's attack it."

So I somehow ended up being in Plattsburgh. Just wanted to say hi again and best of luck!

Everything ended up being cool. Which was surprising because it was a clearance bike from Walmart. But yeah everything went well and I highly encourage everyone to not be afraid!

(330 lbs here) Personally, I'm on Depo provera, aka the shot. I prefer it for the convenience of being once every three months, since as a student, my schedule isn't stable enough to take a bc pill daily anyways. I'd definitely recommend talking to your doctor about your options.

I remember reading about how diabetes can cause a maple syrup smell in the sweat and urine.
Or you could have spilled some somewhere? Because I've honestly done that.

I was a virgin when my partner and I first dated. He's larger than I am, so I was so afraid. Honestly, experiment. Be prepared to laugh and be completely stumped by physics.
I will say this: we never thought we could do missionary. But after time together, well...