Romantic Feedee.
I guess I'm soppy, haha.
2 years
Think totally depends on how they gain. I also find if someone is significantly heavier than me (like 200lb+), it can be a little off-putting until I have a chance to catch up. Contrast can be attractive, but too much is a bit odd.
2 years
Think prefer a fat feeder by a little bit as like to have a body similar to theirs, but, definitely wouldn't be against a thin feeder too!
2 years
Usually it's when I get a burst of gain to my face (like it rounding out, my double chin being more pronounced) it kinda really sinks in how fat I am growing to be. Which kinda makes me doubt I'll ever hit a point where I'll want to stop honestly.
4 years
There's some ways to minimise health risks I've found, but often it will slow down the speed it will happen.
Like focusing on savoury non-greasy foods definitely will help lower the chance of things like diabetes and heart issues. So like some of my earlier gains were with cold foods and pasta, often with some cheese draped over.
Doing some exercise will also help. It will keep some muscle underneath the fat (which may or may not be a good thing depending if you like to be soft or not), decrease the chance of early immobility due to your knees or back messing up under the weight as you'll have muscle to carry yourself and just general good health. That said, if you want to gain you'll have to go over the calorie count massively compared to what you're losing, so it's definitely tricky to balance the two. I do think I'm as mobile as I am despite my weight due to cycling to work which has given me thigh muscles to help carry my weight.
That said, if it's anything like me, as you gain you may find yourself relaxing your health risk concerns. On the other hand, you may hit a point where you'll need to work out if you're going to gain more or if you're going to avoid health risks. After all, if you're 20 stone, you're prime target for a lot of health issues. For some, like me, it's no problem, but others try to stop before then.
5 years
gym bunnie:I sometimes worry about the "why" it turns me on, I'm quite hyper aware and overly critical about at on my own body, but turned on when I hear things said to others who are fat about how fat they are - into the territory of harsh teasing and humiliation. It makes me worry I have a mean streak. And i wonder if it's some kind of sexualisation of shame (i heard that on a podcast) but I think if the other person is enjoying that embarrassment too and the kinks are compatible, then it can be a lot of fun, and pleasurable for both....
I still kind of get a bit confused if I appreciate teasing or not about how big I'm growing to be. On the plus side, consensual teasing/humiliation makes me hyper-aware of just how big I'm getting, which then turns me on. It's when it crosses the line into being vindictive and not accepting no when I think it's a mean streak.
5 years
Never had a strict goal, but just general vague "more".
Yet, I suspect if I knew how fat I'd end up getting when I first started, I'd think I had gone too far.
5 years
Definitely, yes.
It's really hard not to look at how far I've come weight-wise and how far I'm willing to go and not feel intimidated by it. Like, I know what it'll mean to my health. Then I get even slightly horny, and the pros quickly begin to outweigh the cons as I begin to kinda feel intoxicated by my kink.
Usually I'm kinda increasingly growing to learn to just go with it. Just quelling the nagging voices that say otherwise.
5 years
I'm bi and a gainer, but I do tend to enjoy feeding other guys as well. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to stay thin though. There's a gay gaining website that's filled with feeders who are thin, so I kind of think it's a little more common than you think among the fetish.
5 years
Ignoring really! As long as I'm happy with my weight, I don't tend to care about others who don't like it.
5 years
