Witchy friends? Why?
Its strange you are trying to find her friends why can't she do it?
I will say having "friends" that walk all over you are not friends.
Two reasons people walk all over people is they are not nice people to start with and you let them.
I came here almost 14 years ago knowing very little about feedism or what a feeder and feedee were and I was able to make some friends that I still have today.

My Uncle uses the term wide as a barn door.

People here assume I am into feederism and BDSM but I am not into either of them.
I say so in my profile but guys generally don't read profiles before sending me a PM.
Heck I don't have any kinks or fetishes and some here can't quite grasp that.
I understand why tho' and I support people no matter the kink or fetish..

I played girls softball in high school ( 110 lbs) and tried to play on a company team at work @ ( 220 lbs) I was too out of shape.

I'm curious why that would be more a masculine thing?
I find both male and female fat bodies as very sexy in their own ways.
Big guy bellies has always been a thing for me.
I dated mostly fat guys in high school but I was really skinny at the time.

I would try it but pretty sure I am too wide to fit in it
The weakest part of those chairs is the bracket that help it recline.
I have broken a few of those kind of brackets on car seats.

Thanks Jazz.
Up 10 down 10 seems to be normal for me.
I feel huge lets just say that LOL

When your "fat cousin" comes to visit and she has lost 190 lbs and now weighs 110 lbs and you used to be 300 lbs last time you saw her and now weigh 448 lbs.
She had to snap a few pics and email them to her husband.

Making I'm gay or trans the first thing said off puts a majority of people to be honest.
If you are either makes no difference just imagine if straight people started off with Hi I'm straight nice to meet you.
I will be be honest and say its the activist types that have made it harder for trans people that only want to fit in.
That statement came to me from a 79 year old trans woman I have known for over 20 years and she has been trans for over 50 years.
Girl there are plenty of people just like you so never feel you are all alone.
Find a trans group local to you and join.
Ask a local LGBT in your area and find out if they can direct you to a trans group close to you.