Dreamcrowblackdream:
I’ve been thinking of telling my story on here but not sure which forum or if it would be appropriate for the story section (is it fiction only?).
great to see another veteran of the dial-up days of feedism!
i think the story section is perfect, the non-fiction stories people have posted there are among some of my favorites.
4 months
Kitsune:
I understand the frustration but please refrain from using that degotary word against women. It's hypocritical when you were advocating for plus size women yet you use language that is frowned upon these days.
Sadly, we live in a patriarchy and this website has a ton of sexism so I shouldn't be too shocked. Just disappointmented that a moderator would say something like that.
i am not sure what this is referring to? did the offsensive comment get deleted?
4 months
Kitsune:
It'll be nice if there was a convention for BHM and FFA but I guess we are in the minority.
fatcon is for all genders. there have been bhm keynote speakers and guest in the past. they are the minority, but that is understandable given the body positivity focus (as opposed to feedism). fat men tend to have far less stigma associated with them than women amongst "normies."
4 months
Letters And Numbers:
None of us need to assume this story is real, either. We can all go on with our lives without fighting over a fake story.
if you look at this new user's profile, and then see this post - i would suggest you are correct, it's not real. this is an anonymous troll trying to be taboo.
5 months
Munchies:
FF is not a dating site. Yes, you can find love here. But it's much the same as you can find love at a farmer's market or a bowling alley.
this is the best explanation i have read yet of the difference between fetish vs dating platforms!
also keep in mind that if you find someone you are compatible with in a lot of ways, they may come to understand and appreciate your kink, even if they don't share it. my partner didn't even know what feedism was, but we dating because she is into fat guys. i introduced her to this kind of stuff - very gradually! - and over time she found the ways in which it appealed to her.
so not all feedees/feeders are born, some of them transition over time. just don't ram it down someone's throat, let them see what resonates with them.
5 months
Munchies:
I celebrated Trans Visibility Day the way I do every year - staring at my trans loved ones. This joke will never die.
lol, the first year i heard of this, i said to my partner em, "it's... kind of an awkward name, isn't it?"
whatever - trans people are just people, and as that famous roman philosopher once said, "love 'em all, and let cupid sort them out"
5 months
i want to recognize that today is the international transgender day of visibility.
to all of the trans members of ff, i want to let you know that i see you and support you!
to my beautiful partner; i love you, respect you, and admire you for all that you are and all that you do.
5 months
is there any reason to believe there are more chapters? or did the author not complete the story (not yet, at least)?
5 months
Ultimateaaron12:
I want to start taking gaining seriously but something is holding me back from fully committing if anyone could share some words of advice or personal success stories to boost motivation and help me fully get into the mindset it’s very welcome
Beansy:
you can take your time with it, it's a slow and gradual thing + just really learn to love food!
i really struggled at first, i think it was because my fatter, flabbier body was clashing with the mental image i had of myself as a lean, athletic guy. a couple of times i freaked out a little and rushed back to the gym. but the path back was just too hard.
it took me probably a year for my mental image to shift to match where my physical self was heading.
5 months
