fatcon is for all genders. there have been bhm keynote speakers and guest in the past. they are the minority, but that is understandable given the body positivity focus (as opposed to feedism). fat men tend to have far less stigma associated with them than women amongst "normies."

triggered kink is a great story:
fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

mirror opposites - pound for pound is by the same author and it is also excellent:

fantasyfeeder.com/weight-gain-stories/view/title/mirror+opposites+-+pound+for+pound/author/Kyzarburner

reversal of roles is a great example of fit to fat:

fantasyfeeder.com/weight-gain-stories/view/title/my+gaining+story+-+reversal+of+roles/author/Giantjay

and the bet by growingsofter is a classic:
fantasyfeeder.com/stories/view

if you look at this new user's profile, and then see this post - i would suggest you are correct, it's not real. this is an anonymous troll trying to be taboo.

this is the best explanation i have read yet of the difference between fetish vs dating platforms!

also keep in mind that if you find someone you are compatible with in a lot of ways, they may come to understand and appreciate your kink, even if they don't share it. my partner didn't even know what feedism was, but we dating because she is into fat guys. i introduced her to this kind of stuff - very gradually! - and over time she found the ways in which it appealed to her.

so not all feedees/feeders are born, some of them transition over time. just don't ram it down someone's throat, let them see what resonates with them.

lol, the first year i heard of this, i said to my partner em, "it's... kind of an awkward name, isn't it?"

whatever - trans people are just people, and as that famous roman philosopher once said, "love 'em all, and let cupid sort them out"

i want to recognize that today is the international transgender day of visibility.

to all of the trans members of ff, i want to let you know that i see you and support you!

to my beautiful partner; i love you, respect you, and admire you for all that you are and all that you do.

is there any reason to believe there are more chapters? or did the author not complete the story (not yet, at least)?

i really struggled at first, i think it was because my fatter, flabbier body was clashing with the mental image i had of myself as a lean, athletic guy. a couple of times i freaked out a little and rushed back to the gym. but the path back was just too hard.

it took me probably a year for my mental image to shift to match where my physical self was heading.

this is a great topic.

i think because a lot of people come to websites like for the fetish aspect they hyper-fixate on the goal - get bigger, faster, now! as a younger, fit feeder, i may have been a bit like that, tbh.

my entry into gaining didn't happen until i hit 40, and it was completely by accident (and at times, a little reluctant), and it was all because i had a partner (now an ex) that helped me enjoy the ride.

she was very large, but with no connection or interest to feedism or gaining. but she *loved* food! she was a true foodie. we went out to eat (and drink) - a lot - and she knew the area much better than i did so i just kind of followed her lead. and she introduced me to a lot of different foods, and kind of taught me how to really enjoy food. flavours, textures, pairing different wine, beer and booze with particular food. it was a wonderful experience in indulgence, and it really did change me.

we were together for a few years before the pandemic, and i stopped going to the gym (mostly due to hangovers, lol) and started to pile on weight... by the time we broke up i was officially fat. i even tried to go back to the gym a few times to "get back in shape" but i was too far gone, and my ego back then couldn't take being "the fat guy" at the gym.

we broke up amicably when i had to move for work... then the pandemic hit and i got really fat, just eating out of habit and lack of anything else to do!

every now and then i will use the search function to see if a topic has come up in the past (it's great that there is such a long history to this forum, btw!). i may have necroposted in the past because i wanted to comment directly in relation to the thread already posted.

but usually, for the reasons described already, i would opt to start a fresh thread... the link to the past would have to be very specific, very niche, and completely pertinent to whatever i wanted to talk about.