i have found through the course of my adult life that new things turn me on, on a whole bunch of occasions.
part of it is just getting exposed to new things and you learn, oh, i like that! but the other part - which i think is more what you're describing - is that you become more "tuned into" yourself over time (or i hope most people do!), and if you keep yourself open and paying attention, it opens you up to different responses... eating is such an ordinary thing, but if you really pay attention to it and how it feels, it's not always the same...
6 months
we used to have several community meet-ups here every year here in toronto before the pandemic. since then there's been fewer, but i've been to two. i think for large cities they aren't uncommon.
6 months
congrats to the winners!
(i think the link to the picture needs to be fixed, though)
6 months
yes, happy boxing day! i hope everyone is having a great holiday!
6 months
Dolkite:
I doubt I'm the first to notice this, but my fat parts are so sensitive. Having a woman rub my belly or cup my boobs makes me shudder involuntarily.
this is big for me, too... being touched, held, squeezed, it is totally different than when i was thin.
the feeling of weight, of my body resting on itself, the feeling of how my flesh moves... all of it is such a wonderful thing. one of those things that, before getting fat, i had no concept of.
7 months
FatChaser111:
You like being on the other side?
initially i resisted it, but quickly it turned into a bit of a humiliation turn-on... like, "you used to be so fit and strong, and now look how weak you are, look how easy it is to control you."
i find the contrast with a fit body against mine really hot now, just like how i loved the contrast of my fit body against a soft, fat one before.
7 months
FatChaser111:
I don't know what it is but when I see them I wanna pounce, tackle, dominate, wrestle and overpower. With my skinny agile bod. I wanna make them giggle and get excited as I'm dominating and wrestling and putting them into position and to love the hell out of it.
And its confusing I've always been a meek kind caring little angel its out of character for me to have this extremely powerful urge. My energy levels and drive are higher now than in my teens. Anyone else experience this?
when i was younger and fit, like you, i had some of the same feelings with fat partners. i enjoyed being able to dominate them by being quicker, having better balance, being more flexible and a better reach. it's amazing how much physical advantage there is in just being able to rise quickly!
now, as a fat guy, i am experiencing the opposite. my average-sized partner often takes advantage of how easy it is to put me off balance, and how limited my reach is when my belly is in the way.
7 months
i think water and liquid in general is less effective at stretching your stomach than just eating more food. i don't know the science behind this, but i suspect it is both absorbed into what you've already eaten, and is also absorbed into the body much more quickly than solid food.
so my advice is not to play with trying to keep a jug of water down, just push yourself to shovel in a few more mouthfuls!
7 months
