Definitely super hot!
I have done this to skinny boys too tho.
Gender fuckery is high on my list of kinks.
3 years
juicy:As someone who did not adore breastfeeding, even though I sometimes have mutual ANR fantasies, let me remind you of the downsides.
A. you suddenly find yourself in public with a wet t-shirt.
B. you ache if you aren't emptied regularly.
C. I thought pumping hurt like a ... well, you know.
Just some realities to check in on before flying with the fantasy!
These are some of the things I love most about ANR!
A wet shirt! Oops! I guess everyone knows I’m lactating now and even more aware of my huge tits!
Give me the ache! It feels so good and reinforces the bond and need for my partner!
Pumping is how I think I was able to put on weight! And it feels good! Hook me up and give me snacks and I’m in heaven and often touching myself before I’m done!
Everyone’s perspective is going to be different about the downsides.
To me there are SO many positives about ANR… the only clear negative is the amount of time you have to devote to it can keep you limited and you have to plan ahead a bit more which for a spontaneous person like me can be a challenge. With a supportive invested partner it makes it worth it tho!
3 years
Something not mentioned yet, I love a big fupa. 🥵
This fetish is pretty sexual for me and so that it obscures the sex organs adds a notch of naughtiness for me.
Big soft thighs 🤤
Soft squishy belly 😍
But it’s also very individualistic. Confidence and enthusiasm are to me, the sexiest characteristics someone can have.
4 years
Arame:
In my personal experiences:
1. Yes women do that. Contrary to popular belief, women do and say the very things men that they claim they hate for men to do and say to them when they find the man attractive.
2. As long as you don’t send dick pics or say something really weird or offensive, it really doesn’t matter what you say. If she likes you, she likes you. Obviously, use common sense, but There is no right or wrong thing to say.[/quote]
On point 1- I wonder if women have the same intentions and motivations when sending these types of messages tho…? I will send a man a message if I like their vibe… because I do think men deserve more positive feedback my intention isn’t just reeling him in… but I’d never send a more lewd message without asking permission to do so…
(Have definitely had lewd thoughts about people from this site and messaged them and asked their permission before sharing what they actually were)
I really like and prefer initiating conversation but usually in order to do so a profile needs to be fleshed out, there needs to be evidence of authentic community interaction or else I have nothing to work with. I want to know people’s thoughts and feelings before messaging them.
Point 2- I’d agree but only to a degree. My inbox gets SO repetitive. And I can usually tell when messages are just copy pasted and probably sent to an untold number of people… that’s not flattering at all.
I think if men focused on quality over quantity we’d all be happier.
If you just want to tell me I’m hot, just comment on a picture, sending it in a message feels like you’re hiding the interaction and/or have expectations of more interaction but literally gave me nothing to work with. It’s honestly really annoying especially with the message limitations on this site. I honestly block repeat offenders.
And there’s a balance for men of not going overboard and putting too much energy into sending the first few messages until interest has been clearly reciprocated…
Sometimes I get long diatribes and I’m not interested for whatever reason… which is totally valid, nobody is entitled to my interest no matter how long a message they send…
And people talking about women who are just here for the $$… those profiles are so totally obvious are they not? And if women wanting $$ is so awful then why do I have guys constantly approaching me and their first offer is about $$? But yeah if we interact and then you mention that you would love to see me specifically do X, Y or Z… yes I’m going to expect you to contribute in some way to making X, Y, or Z happen. That’s just fucking fair, otherwise just appreciate me doing what comes naturally for *me* and don’t make specific requests.
Again, quality over quantity… look for profiles of women that are obviously interested in this fetish and not just about making content… do you know how to distinguish between the two?
Also if you want more women to be present make it a safe and welcoming place for them… y’all fail at that pretty damn hard. Js.
Ok rant over. ✌🏼
4 years
I don’t know if I was stick thin as I always had some tits and booty but there were times when I was in the military and had visible six pack abs… those days are long gone and never coming back.
4 years
bv333:
Pretty much every conversation ends up with them sending their cashapp information.[/quote]
Funny. I’ve never asked anyone for money. But nearly everyone I interact with says they want to buy me things.
Or they start asking for specific content etc… y’all do realize that takes time and money yeah?
I see a lot of men on here quick to criticize women but rarely hold a mirror up to themselves.
4 years
I do like the visual of and the mind fuckery of a very fit partner vs a very obese partner.
Same with young and old.
4 years
fatadmirer2021:
I been on here over a year, and I am not really impressed with the site. Tried Feabie and even worse. I try to be myself and its like people just about themselves and not take an interest in just having a conversation with me. Thinking of deleting my profile and go away again for a few months or even a couple of years and then maybe come back and see if its improved. Can't believe in this day and age people do not want to have one on one conversations anymore and kill some time in a positive way. I even paid for one month the full month price for premium membership and not much of an improvement. Too bad I cannot find some like minded people out there that like to just sit and conversate for a simple couple of hours on whatever is on their mind or open about their fantasies. I guess I become too old fashioned.
Maybe your sense of entitlement is what is driving people away?
I get bombarded with messages. I rarely ever respond to them because there are just toooo many.
But I do observe the forums and see how people navigate on them and when someone catches my attention with interesting perspectives that they share I tend to reach out to them…
Without any expectation that they respond!
Sometimes people do and sometimes they don’t!
@Canuck would be a perfect example! He shares his experiences in really authentic ways and contributes his own interesting perspectives! We don’t interact a lot but when we do I always enjoy it!
There’s a book called The Four Agreements, I’d highly recommend it.
4 years
Oh this is definitely me!
4 years
