It is all based on how you feel about it. If it bothers you say something to them. If it doesn't then don't give it no mind.

I don't know the person, but you said they were also fat. Maybe he said it to show commonality with you. That you are both big guys and it's something you both share. Or they are being a judgemental ass. Personally I wouldn't take it as negative. But it all depends. Best wishes!

I've had great success with heavy cream. 1 quart is 3600 calories. Some can drink it straight, some can't stand the taste or texture. Also, you should only drink smaller amounts at a time thru the day. Or add it to coffee, sauces, etc. It can be used in pretty much any recipe that calls for milk. Eating what you normally eat but with the heavy cream added should get you to 4k calories in no time.

I went from under 150 to about 200 now. I've gained fast at times. Then life gets in the way and it's a while before I gain another decent amount. About 20lbs in a month with heavy cream. Clothes getting tight was a big first sign. As someone else said, fat under your arms when you put them down and rolls forming when you sit are other noticeable bits. A quick way to notice if you gained... brush your teeth and go a little crazy. When you start gaining things start jiggling like crazy when brushing your teeth or even running down the stairs. Careful, don't trip! Even driving a car on a bumpy road will making things jiggle. But it's still a gradual process. Water weight and just eating a lot can cause the scale to show more than is really there as fat. You can also "feel fat" because you are very full. But that's not really being fat.

Communication! Making sure you both are comfortable with what you are doing and to what level. It seems you both know each other's wants. Just make sure to keep it going. Have fun with it! If it starts to become a chore one or both of you may lose interest. But that's OK too. Taking a break from time to time is OK. All of it stems from honest and open communication. So there are no misunderstandings, resentments, or anything else that could get in the way of your friendship and enjoying your journey together. Good luck!

I've definitely gotten a few messages from people more so looking for money. Especially feabie. I can usually tell as they don't read my profile and assume I'm here to hook up or again they are hoping for money. They usually lose interest quick when you don't go along with either sending money or fawning all over them. Whether it's people from outside the community looking for a few bucks or to take advantage. People from in the community looking for the same or scammers pretending to be something they aren't. No matter who you are, just take it slow and be careful. If it sounds to good to be true, it probably is.

I've seen quite a few posts of people looking for a meet up and haven't heard of any being succesful of happening. Maybe if we can get a roll call of who is interested and where they are we can get things to slowly get off the ground. I'm willing to help organize.

I got 80% you should get morbidly obese! I'm getting there! I'm just about to be classified as obese!

I haven't heard of anything. But am always on the look out for anything in New England as I'm from CT and live on the Cape now. Plus NE is one of the smallest areas of the US so it would make for easier meeting with driving not being as far for most.

I too have had the same thoughts of wanting to gain most my life. But for various reasons never did. But as I've gotten older I finally, now in my early 40s have decided to give gaining a try. I'm still young enough that health issues shouldn't be as big an issue as I don't plan on gaining huge amounts. But I'm also old enough that I've done most of the things I'd need to be active for. Also, with age usually comes not caring what others think as much.
So, go enjoy your young active years. Know that someday you'll be able to live your fantasy. Then when youve settled down in life a bit you can then decide if gaining would be the route you wanna take. Best wishes!

There was some weird softcover porn I think I heard about in weight gain forums Ilsa the she wolf of the SS or something like that. Has a scene where a girl is force fed and fattened for a sultan. The main character is a nazi I'm pretty sure and is selling slave girls. Never saw the movie just the scene on the internet.

The Drew Carey Show had a whole season arc with him having a girlfriend named Nicky I believe. Played by the actress who played Dr Shepards ex wife on Grey's anatomy. In it she was a former fat girl and her and drew feed each other and she gets really fat as the episodes go by and I think her parents come to have her break up with Drew because he caused her to get fat again. Or something like that. The old Dimensions Magazine website had a story about it called Drew and Nick's food fun if I recall correctly.
Finally, there is that other TV show, just shoot me, I think it was. Had David Spade in it and they work at a fashion magazine. One of the main characters Maya starts dating a guy who is a feeder. She doesn't gain anything and ends up mad at the guy for wanting her fatter saying he is just as bad as guys who want skinny girlfriends. So not flattering to feeders and fa. That's all I got off the top of my head lol.